[kongzi]

I already graduated from a 4-year univ, but I'm now taking classes at a community college. I took classes at a community college before, but I was blue pill back then and never gamed.

I figure the pros of gaming at a community college are that chicks don't have as huge social circles as in universities and don't get hit on as much. The cons would be that chicks still live with their parents and go straight home after class. I've also gone to the cafeteria a few times and it was always mostly dudes, and the only chicks there were with their friends. I recall seeing more single chicks at the food court at the university I went to

Has anyone gamed at 4-year univs vs community colleges? Which is better for getting dates and sex? Did you guys get better results from gaming chicks in your classes or approaching them elsewhere, such as the library or bookstore?

[BlackFriar]

Do you take classes during the day? I signed up for a class at the local cc and there are chicks every where.

[Repo]

Yeah day classes are what you want. Night classss will have more married women, older women, and single moms.

[AboveAverageJoe]

The more broken, thus easier women are to be found at CC's. Game on, my friend.
Ever heard the term fish in a barrel?
I was gaming chicks at CC that were my childrens age, no problem.
Almost as easy as banging strippers.

[kongzi]

I'm only taking one class during the day now. But its still the first week so I still add more. Even though the F:M ratio at my school is 55:45, I swear at least 1 in 2 of the chicks here are very obese or have alot of tats

[kongzi]

(08-24-2016 07:18 PM)BlackFriar Wrote:  

Do you take classes during the day? I signed up for a class at the local cc and there are chicks every where.

what class is that?

[XPQ22]

I've taken a few courses at community colleges over the years. I saw some decent looking girls but the overwhelming impression that struck me about these places (at least the couple places I went in the Northeast US) is that these little podunk schools are pretty insular - lots of the people who go there go with a bunch of their friends from whatever suburban high school they went to, and they're the type of girl who has the same social circle of townies from when she hit puberty well into her 40s.

There are plenty of sluts to be sure, but at community colleges "social circle" game rules the day. Not that at major universities having a good social circle won't help a lot (it definitely does) but you can still pull strange as an outsider no problem when you've got 20,000 students from all over the country and the world. And unless your idea of a good time is muddin' and smoking a ton of weed with chubby Dunkin' Donuts shift managers with tramp stamps and dealers named "Sully" on the weekends whose most impressive accomplishment in life is owning an 87 Monte Carlo, the community college "social circle" isn't one I think most guys here would want to be a part of.

(08-24-2016 07:38 PM)kongzi Wrote:  

I swear at least 1 in 2 of the chicks here are very obese or have alot of tats

Yup.

Compared to how I did even at a relatively small 4 year liberal arts college with the barest of game vs. my impression of the CCs I took a few courses at, 10-15 years ago at least it seemed like a waste of time. Perhaps times have changed. YMMV.

[jcrew247]

(08-24-2016 05:54 PM)kongzi Wrote:  

Has anyone gamed at 4-year univs vs community colleges? Which is better for getting dates and sex? Did you guys get better results from gaming chicks in your classes or approaching them elsewhere, such as the library or bookstore?

Jeez, did you date girls in college? Don't really know why you would have any problems unless you went to an engineering all-male school.
How are your looks - do you put effort into your appearance? What is your personal style? What types of girls are you trying to pick up?

I would say CC are usually poorer and less snobby and have low self-esteem, not to mention probably dumber if they didn't get into a state university. Maybe find out where the nursing classes are and hang out in those areas because a lot of girls take nursing classes at CC. Library is good, but you have to be somewhat quieter,but its still possible to talk to people - make eye contact and look good. Sit next to a cute girl in the computer lab and ask her for "help" on stuff to get a conversation going, then exchange numbers or invite her to a cool party on the weekend to hang out more.

[The Black Knight]

CC"s are fantastic for 18-22 chicks if you have your own logistics since almost all these chicks live at home. Also, many have lost significant chunks of their social circle. Being a CC student can be pretty depressing and lonely. It's a ripe environment for guys like us to come in and swoop.

In dense suburban/urban areas, there are PLENTY of good looking chicks who can't afford/don't wanna pay stupid ass high tuition prices at a 4 year college. I can't speak to more poduck CCs and their female quality standards.

Only issue is you need to be very subtle with your game. CC's are obviously much smaller than a typical university and therefore, you don't want to be "that guy" known for hitting on chicks around campus. I would make sure you hit CC's on alternating schedule days (MWF and T+THUR typically) AND at different time periods (one morning and one afternoon). Rotate that around and you should be able to keep a low profile as long as you don't spam approach.

[C-Note]

Remember when Chris Rock said that CCs were like nightclubs? If you go to one in a medium-to-large-sized urban area, there should be girls all over the place. Daygame them between classes. If you take any of the basic courses like Psychology 101, there should be a shit ton of girls in the class. Ask them if they'd like to study together for the test, or whatever approach you want to use.

[DonnyGately]

Yeah if you can tutor a chick in math/biz/English/whatever, you can bang basically all the girls who want to study with you. At your place, live with parents, have a few drinks, netflix and chill, send her home.

[kongzi]

I'm pretty new to gaming, but I have been approaching on average maybe 2 girls per week for the past few months. I've also approached girls at night clubs about once per 3 weeks in the past few months. I have gotten around 10 numbers and just 1 date. I also approached a few girls last week at the community college

The girls that I got numbers from last week all seemed at least somewhat interested when I approached them with elderly game. They would ask me many personal questions and we would chat for at least 10 minutes. But they all either ignored my first text message or responded to the first few of them before ignoring the rest of them. This has been happening for the past few months

This has led to alot of frustration for me. I thought its normal for around 25% of numbers to lead to dates. Sure, I could keep approaching girls at the community college, but if this low conversion rate continues then it seems like a waste of time that will just lead to alot of frustration and bitterness

[jcrew247]

(08-29-2016 04:08 PM)kongzi Wrote:  

I'm pretty new to gaming, but I have been approaching on average maybe 2 girls per week for the past few months. I've also approached girls at night clubs about once per 3 weeks in the past few months. I have gotten around 10 numbers and just 1 date. I also approached a few girls last week at the community college

The girls that I got numbers from last week all seemed at least somewhat interested when I approached them with elderly game. They would ask me many personal questions and we would chat for at least 10 minutes. But they all either ignored my first text message or responded to the first few of them before ignoring the rest of them. This has been happening for the past few months

This has led to alot of frustration for me. I thought its normal for around 25% of numbers to lead to dates. Sure, I could keep approaching girls at the community college, but if this low conversion rate continues then it seems like a waste of time that will just lead to alot of frustration and bitterness

What is your age? Do you have a job? Do you have your own apartment? Do you live close to campus or in a trendy part of town near bars? Exactly what do you text these girls - you should be trying to arrange a lunch or invite them to a party at your place or something cool. Don't waste time with chit-chat and small talk. Add them on facebook and figure out if they are single and want to hang out.

Are the girls under 21? If they want to drink, invite them and their friends to drink at your place. Take them out to dinner if they are poor.

How are your looks? What is your personal style? Describe your lifestyle and interests - you want the girls to see you as a cool older dude that has some money and is knowledgeable about the world. Are you funny?

So you want to stop talking to girls and stay home all the time? You should actually enjoy talking to people and meeting girls all the time (even just as platonic friends). Its called social circle game.

[polar]

(08-29-2016 04:08 PM)kongzi Wrote:  

I'm pretty new to gaming, but I have been approaching on average maybe 2 girls per week for the past few months. I've also approached girls at night clubs about once per 3 weeks in the past few months. I have gotten around 10 numbers and just 1 date. I also approached a few girls last week at the community college

The girls that I got numbers from last week all seemed at least somewhat interested when I approached them with elderly game. They would ask me many personal questions and we would chat for at least 10 minutes. But they all either ignored my first text message or responded to the first few of them before ignoring the rest of them. This has been happening for the past few months

This has led to alot of frustration for me. I thought its normal for around 25% of numbers to lead to dates. Sure, I could keep approaching girls at the community college, but if this low conversion rate continues then it seems like a waste of time that will just lead to alot of frustration and bitterness

You're in the beginner slog. You might see 25% conversions once you're more experienced, depending on your skill, tactics, and the girl's hotness.

You're probably too indirect when talking in person and not making your intentions clear. They're asking you questions back, so it sounds like you're getting some interest. Are you getting numbers in a social frame and then springing into a "let's go on a date" vibe?

A couple of minutes into the conversation, try going direct with "you know, I am curious about xxx, but I also thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you"

[jcrew247]

You have to understand that in order to keep a relationship going with a girl, she has to have a reason to want to continue talking to you. The girl has to actually want to hang out with you and spend time with you. As the guy, you have to establish a reason that she would want to hang out.

She may like funny guys, or attractive guys, or rich guys or smart guys, etc. Its easy making small talk and getting phone numbers, but when you are talking to a girl, find out something she really cares about (something to hook her in) or talks about or something you have in common, and this will give her a reason to continue a relationship with you. This is called creating a foundation of a relationship.

Try to filter out your approaches so that you talk to girls that you really see a future relationship with (1-3 months) because you may be wasting your effort on girls that have no interest in you whatsover and they give you their number to be nice. You may also have better luck at social groups, co-ed clubs, or churches where there is already a mutual bonding experience. Also, talk to every girl, even girls that are fat just to get experience talking, maybe its the fat girls that like you more.

[kongzi]

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Exactly what do you text these girls - you should be trying to arrange a lunch or invite them to a party at your place or something cool. Don't waste time with chit-chat and small talk. Add them on facebook and figure out if they are single and want to hang out.

Are the girls under 21? If they want to drink, invite them and their friends to drink at your place. Take them out to dinner if they are poor.

How are your looks? What is your personal style? Describe your lifestyle and interests - you want the girls to see you as a cool older dude that has some money and is knowledgeable about the world. Are you funny?

I'm almost 30. I'm actually spending most of my time job hunting since I already have a MS. I was just going to the community college to take BS classes like French and dancing, and then spending hours between classes in the library to work on my personal projects for my job hunt

As for my lifestyle and interests, I'm mostly into guy things, like playing basketball and working out at the gym. I don't have a huge social circle and many friends, which is why I don't want to get their facebook. No, I'm not that good at being funny and making jokes

In my texts, I'll just say something like how's your day going, do you have time this week to meet me for drinks, etc

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You're probably too indirect when talking in person and not making your intentions clear. They're asking you questions back, so it sounds like you're getting some interest. Are you getting numbers in a social frame and then springing into a "let's go on a date" vibe?

I haven't gone through all of Day Bang, but I just remember Roosh saying to start with an elderly opener and not make it obvious that I'm hitting on them. When I got most of my numbers, I had to suggest we exchange numbers because they had to head to class.

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You may also have better luck at social groups, co-ed clubs, or churches where there is already a mutual bonding experience. Also, talk to every girl, even girls that are fat just to get experience talking, maybe its the fat girls that like you more.

I'm not religious. And I don't know where to find those social groups or co-ed clubs. All the meetup groups I've joined with people in their 20s have had around at least like 4 guys to 1 female

Maybe there's a cold truth we all just need to admit, which is that these chicks have a swarm of male options, so the likelihood of her remembering us is slim to none because she can easily find another guy with more "game"

[DonnyGately]

That's the whole point of developing Game. Once you have it, you're better than the 99% of guys who do not.

And no matter how hot you are and how tight your game is, not every number will convert into a date into a bang.

[Heart Break Kid]

I went to CC and a 4 year commuter school, and I found it easier to get girls at CC even though my social circle at the 4 year school was a lot bigger.

CC girls I think are more receptive to being hit on, they're not as obsessed with trying to be super professional and square like 4 year students can be at times.

Also, assuming you're taking classes at CC, there's a good chance you'll stick out since most people in CC classes are dumb or do not know how to present themselves. I think a lot of women saw me as high quality since I looked like Albert Einstein compared to my peers.


I'd def do day game for CC. Afternoons was the best time for sure. I'd also take a theater class if you have some free electives, very easy to get with hot girls and invade pretty big social circles.


I think even hitting on girls in plazas is pretty easy(for people who dont take classes at CC but want to go hit on girls anyway). I still hook up with CC chicks from time to time, girls at those schools really lonely and out of their elements.

[Chauncey]

This thread has me jacked up to swing by the local CC tomorrow. I'm working in a 30k person town this week in BFE and there is a campus that is part of the state university system, part community college, and part high school for seniors looking to earn credits.

I'll swing by tomorrow for a coffee and scope out the scene. Hopefully I don't get arrested.

[kongzi]

(08-29-2016 10:34 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

That's the whole point of developing Game. Once you have it, you're better than the 99% of guys who do not.

And no matter how hot you are and how tight your game is, not every number will convert into a date into a bang.

I know not every number will convert into a date. But I've only gotten 1 date so far. And its been extremely frustrating to have them ask personal questions and seem interested in chatting, only to refuse to answer my texts

(08-29-2016 10:35 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:  

I went to CC and a 4 year commuter school, and I found it easier to get girls at CC even though my social circle at the 4 year school was a lot bigger.

CC girls I think are more receptive to being hit on, they're not as obsessed with trying to be super professional and square like 4 year students can be at times.

But it seems like they still have a ton of options and tons of going hitting on them.

[jcrew247]

Well, if you are unemployed, then a lot of these girls may not want to date you. Are you going to buy them coffee, lunch or dinner? Do you own a car? Perhaps find a cool part-time job as a bartender to meet more women.

What was the point of taking those random classes - were your trying to meet women? That's a lot of wasted money to spend.

Every girl is on facebook, and it would be weird and sketchy for you to not be on there. If you really like a girl, add her. FB is essentially a dating site, so add some cool photos of yourself. No excuses to not use social media to build up social value - also get on instagram and snapchat.

Are you trying to find a steady GF/wife? Or do you just want a ton of hookups? If you hit on too many girls who know each other, they may be friends and think you are a cheater/player. If you want only one GF, then focus on texting a few girls before moving on. Sometimes girls don't want to be rushed or pressured into dating, and it may take several weeks for them to warm up to you.

Lastly, the truth may be that you are not very good-looking and the girls just aren't attracted to you.

There are ways to improve your looks by dressing better, speaking better, and styling your hair. You might need a makeover.

You may be hitting on girls that are way more attractive than you. Try talking to average-looking girls and you might be more successful. Then, once you get your confidence back, hit on the hotter women. If you're not religious, you'll probably have better luck with goth, hippie, punk atheist artsy liberal girls. You have to try to understand the lifestyle of girl you are talking to and figure out if she is the type of person that wants to date you.

(08-29-2016 08:47 PM)kongzi Wrote:  

I'm almost 30. I'm actually spending most of my time job hunting since I already have a MS. I was just going to the community college to take BS classes like French and dancing, and then spending hours between classes in the library to work on my personal projects for my job hunt

As for my lifestyle and interests, I'm mostly into guy things, like playing basketball and working out at the gym. I don't have a huge social circle and many friends, which is why I don't want to get their facebook. No, I'm not that good at being funny and making jokes

In my texts, I'll just say something like how's your day going, do you have time this week to meet me for drinks, etc

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You're probably too indirect when talking in person and not making your intentions clear. They're asking you questions back, so it sounds like you're getting some interest. Are you getting numbers in a social frame and then springing into a "let's go on a date" vibe?

I haven't gone through all of Day Bang, but I just remember Roosh saying to start with an elderly opener and not make it obvious that I'm hitting on them. When I got most of my numbers, I had to suggest we exchange numbers because they had to head to class.

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You may also have better luck at social groups, co-ed clubs, or churches where there is already a mutual bonding experience. Also, talk to every girl, even girls that are fat just to get experience talking, maybe its the fat girls that like you more.

I'm not religious. And I don't know where to find those social groups or co-ed clubs. All the meetup groups I've joined with people in their 20s have had around at least like 4 guys to 1 female

Maybe there's a cold truth we all just need to admit, which is that these chicks have a swarm of male options, so the likelihood of her remembering us is slim to none because she can easily find another guy with more "game"