Hey all:
I got a woman's number today at the gym. This was the first time that I got a women’s number during the day. She was staring at me when I walked in. I saw that she was doing dips on an assisted machine and I told her that bench dips would hit her triceps more. My gym does not have a dip rack. Next, I demonstrated to her how to do them. Then, I asked her if she wanted to go to a bar with me tonight. She said she had to work, so I asked for her number. She gave me her number and I wrote it down in my notebook. Next, I proceeded to continue my workout and left. My problem is that I have a general idea of what her name is, but still do not remember it fully. I plan to text her in two days (Monday) and ask her out to either a drink date (Wednesday). Also, I know she liked me because (1) she laughed at one of my jokes and (2) she gave me her number with no hesitation. My plan to figure out her name is to say what I think her name is (when I see at the bar) and ask her if I am pronouncing it right. I believe it is spelled “Usam” and have never of this name. I believe that if I tell her what a unique and pretty name she has, she will look past the fact that I did not pronounce it correctly.
Question: If the date is going well and I make out with her, what is the best thing to say in order to get her back to my hotel? My plan was to ask her if she wanted to come and watch a movie with me. Also, on drink dates, should a guy compliment a women at all regarding her attire, appearance, etc. The last thing that I want to do is put her up on a pedestal. Any suggestions on how to prepare for this date would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I got a woman's number today at the gym. This was the first time that I got a women’s number during the day. She was staring at me when I walked in. I saw that she was doing dips on an assisted machine and I told her that bench dips would hit her triceps more. My gym does not have a dip rack. Next, I demonstrated to her how to do them. Then, I asked her if she wanted to go to a bar with me tonight. She said she had to work, so I asked for her number. She gave me her number and I wrote it down in my notebook. Next, I proceeded to continue my workout and left. My problem is that I have a general idea of what her name is, but still do not remember it fully. I plan to text her in two days (Monday) and ask her out to either a drink date (Wednesday). Also, I know she liked me because (1) she laughed at one of my jokes and (2) she gave me her number with no hesitation. My plan to figure out her name is to say what I think her name is (when I see at the bar) and ask her if I am pronouncing it right. I believe it is spelled “Usam” and have never of this name. I believe that if I tell her what a unique and pretty name she has, she will look past the fact that I did not pronounce it correctly.
Question: If the date is going well and I make out with her, what is the best thing to say in order to get her back to my hotel? My plan was to ask her if she wanted to come and watch a movie with me. Also, on drink dates, should a guy compliment a women at all regarding her attire, appearance, etc. The last thing that I want to do is put her up on a pedestal. Any suggestions on how to prepare for this date would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.