[atlant]

We've seen this story a lot of times. Here is the newest one, curiously published in Beijing mouthpiece Global Times, so it kind of fits with the anti-foreigner sentiment in China they are trying to stir up. Also the way this confirms literally every stereotype of entitled white girls in Asia in such a concise fashion is actually breathtaking.

http://www.globaltimes.cn//content/980416.shtml

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Shanghai might have one of the largest foreign communities in all of China, but this certainly doesn't make it any easier for foreign females when it comes to dating.

Of course, this isn't the case for every Western woman in China, many whom are already married and just tagging along on their husband's expat package. But for the most part, finding a suitable mate here is not at all as easy nor fun as back home, as the odds are simply against us.

You mean...just like the odds are against men pretty much everywhere else?

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Most everyone knows by now that Western men are god-like figures in China, attracting hoards of local women who are drawn to their masculine appearances and dominant personalities in comparison to the average effeminate, small-sized Chinese men. Generally speaking, Western men are also more blunt about what they want than the average local fellows, which seems to appeal to the native women, ensuring that most Western men here are never short on sex.

Notice the jab against Chinese guys, which has its reasons as you'll see below.

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Unfortunately, the same principle does not apply to Western women when it comes to dating Chinese men. If anything, we're considered too dominant, turning the majority of them off with our independent personalities and strong opinions.

"Why doesn't anybody prefer an obnoxious masculine hag over an actual woman???"

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Many Chinese women live at home with their parents until they're married and are quite inhibited about their sexuality, which in comparison makes white girls appear wild and promiscuous. However, that doesn't stop some Chinese men from engaging us in one night stands or brief flings, but then cutting things off abruptly when it's time for the relationship to move into serious territory.

Props to the Chinese dude who pumped and dumped her.

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One might suppose that the outlook would be more optimistic for Western women pursuing Western men in China, but in that dating pool we also draw the short straw. Once foreign men get a taste for the sheer amount of attention they receive from Chinese women, along with their slender, pliable figures and submissive nature in the bedroom, Caucasian gals simply can't compare.

Well at least she understands why.

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White males seem to fall into a frenzy of dating as many local women as they possibly can with absolutely no commitment to any of them. They become spoiled by choice, knowing that there's a different option waiting for them at every bar and each English corner.

New expat women to China, whom are derisively called "fempats" by expat men, quickly understand this phenomenon upon arriving and either have to accept their singleness or grow old waiting for white guys to come to their senses.

Of course...it's the white guys that have to come to their senses, while the women, naturally, do nothing.

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One night stands might be fun for the first several years in China, but the constant merry-go-round of meaningless flings here gets old pretty fast. Human beings are hardwired to eventually make emotional connections, and considering the cultural clashes that many mixed couples seem to encounter - whenever you see a mixed couple in public they always look miserable - it's inevitable that most foreign males in China will ultimately prefer to marry a white woman than go native.

Feminine, submissive, sweet and caring. Those must be some really miserable relationships.

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It would be nice to see the culture gap between Westerners and Chinese eventually narrow in order for foreign women to have a fighting chance at dating Chinese men. In turn, it would also be interesting to watch Western men finally get a reality check and discover that most of them are hardly "God's gift to women" and could never get this much action back in their home countries.

The irony is palpable.

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While there are exceptions, the plight of dating local men in China is still a bittersweet experience for Western women. We crave the chance to experience Chinese-style love and romance, but we don't look forward to getting ditched once marriage is brought up[/b]. We're a resilient bunch however, and won't be giving up hope anytime soon, so for all you single Chinese men in Shanghai, watch out because here I come!

You go girl!!!



The cunt's Twitter describes her as a "social media strategist" who spent a whopping 2 months in China before she couldn't take the lack of white dick anymore and fled to Thailand.

https://twitter.com/stephanienaday



WYB?

[Fortis]

Hmm, She actually isn't that bad looking. She has a stupid face and everything, but WBIBIC (would bang if bored in china).

This reminds me of a fempat I've met. She was actually an objectively good looking chick--but she came to fucking China.

I will never understand why western chicks come to China. Despite how pretty this chick was, she was such a hassle to deal with that I opted to go with the local brand over her.

[Sp5]

She posted another article:

http://www.globaltimes.cn//content/981575.shtml

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Future bleak for China’s foreign ESL teachers

Unfortunately, the days of Westerners relying only on their foreign face to get a job in China are at an end. The Chinese are no longer impressed by Westerners, at least not on a superficial level. Heavily invested in their own education, this generation of Chinese parents demand that the paid instructors spending time with their children are equally as serious about academics as they are.

While there are still qualified foreigners working in China as ESL instructors, the reality is that the larger number of those who took advantage of the Chinese educational system by faking their credentials have directly contributed to its demise

Bitter about those foreign expat teachers, much?

[Barron]

Fempat... great word for western women who discover that men couldn't careless about them in other parts of the world.

This one happens to be a racist too ^^

I've encountered a few of them here in Ukraine and none of them have lasted longer than six months. I don't know about China but western women don't do well here.

[cascadecombo]

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grow old waiting for white guys to come to their senses.

This some kinda not so subtle racism? I could easily get a far more attractive native girl, just what would I be coming to my senses about? Are white guys supposed to marry white girls?

Should I reproduce, I'll probably have little halfie babies.

[Buakaw]

Reminds me of an incident that happened on my trip to Saigon last month. The one and ONLY time I got rudely shut down at a club was when I approached a white western woman. It wasn't like she was drowning in attention either.

There is a reason why we men living here in the orient prefer the local women over western feminist cunts.

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whenever you see a mixed couple in public they always look miserable - it's inevitable that most foreign males in China will ultimately prefer to marry a white woman than go native.

What the fuck is she smoking? I cant speak for China but here in Thailand you always see big smiles on men's faces when they walk around with a cute feminine thai girl.

I keep repeating myself over and over again but here is it again: Fuck western women.

[The Beast1]

The problem with her is the reason so many guys leave America. Women who become expats struggle with being in an environment where they are not culturally familiar with. Men I like to think can adapt better "when in Rome" and so on.

I have to constantly remind my girl that she's no longer in America. Even though England is a foreign country and culture on easy mode, she still whines and I have to scold her letting her know there are plenty of other chicks who yearn for the opportunity to live and work abroad.

This isn't a fast and hard rule. I knew an American girl raised in Portugal. She always identified as having two cultures and struggled identifying with either one. I told her time and time again she was about as American as apple pie. It was all in her head.

Tl; dr, women who are treated as hot shit in America don't get as much attention when they're entitled cunts in traditional cultures.

[Dalaran1991]

First, WNB. Are you guys serious? That face scream of emotional clusterfuck. In DC maybe, but no way in hell she would get laid with a decent local man.

Second, I dont even see why we need to take these fempats whore seriously. Else we would need to dissect every article on Jezebel too. A man might have good reasons to look for life and opportunities elsewhere, due to work, self-betterment or a higher quest. A sane woman has absolutely no reason to seek life elsewhere, it is entirely against her nature to do so. Any woman who leaves to be "expat" is either on a quest to ride the international carousel, a pariah in her country, or a sick fetish of some kind.

These wretches dont understand that they are rotten, stinking and dead inside and the only reason they have it easy in the West is because Western society is just as degenerate as they are. Could you see the madness and sickness and delusion in her writing? Whiteness itself is never a problem.


In Vietnam I know many guys with a beautiful Russian/Ukrainian/ Polish (my uncle) wife and they are utterly happy. Ancient Viet kings are known to keep Western concubines and these were very highly prized. Frankly IMO a thin, well-behave white girl beat her Asian equivalent any day. Most Asian girls have neither boobs nor ass.

[Windom Earle]

(05-11-2016 04:54 AM)atlant Wrote:  

Take note of the open-mouthed pose. A slut tell if there ever was one.

The thing is, you can see in her face that she's actually toning it down somewhat - more likely subconsciously, learned through osmosis by being surrounded with real femininity on a daily basis.

[Wealth of Spirit]

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Most everyone knows by now that Western men are god-like figures in China, attracting hoards of local women who are drawn to their masculine appearances and dominant personalities in comparison to the average effeminate, small-sized Chinese men. Generally speaking, Western men are also more blunt about what they want than the average local fellows, which seems to appeal to the native women, ensuring that most Western men here are never short on sex.

Here we go again...Amazing how these men are considered "effeminate" when they want nothing to do with her. Last I checked, there's a shortage of women over there. So if she can't find someone, then this equation isn't adding up. Somebody isn't being honest here.

Secondly, this is a classic example of not doing your homework. There are many countries across this globe that would wait hand and foot for Western women, yet she picks the one that doesn't. How is it their fault?

Finally, why should the Chinese cater to you? You are in THEIR country. They are at liberty to associate with anyone they choose. This arrogance of coming over to another man's land and demanding change to accommodate you is something I will never understand.

They invite you in, cook for you, and let you stay at your leisure, only to have you complain that they food was too spicy.


You don't deserve to be there.

[CleanSlate]

When I was hanging out with the guys in RCA on my recent BKK trip, it was crowded and group of white girls were dancing next to me. I was facing away from them so I wasn't even trying to get their attention.

One girl, who looked German, tapped me on the shoulder. I turn and look. She gives me a rejection gesture, shaking her head. I laugh and give her a silly look, and turn my back on her. Then she taps me on the shoulder AGAIN. She "rejects" me once more. I make a face and move away from her and her friends.

Silly attention-starved twit who was trying to make herself feel better by preemptively "rejecting" a man in the land of abundant feminine local women.

[Buakaw]

(05-11-2016 07:52 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Silly attention-starved twit who was trying to make herself feel better by preemptively "rejecting" a man in the land of abundant feminine local women.

She hadn't rejected a dude for a week and got desperate

[CleanSlate]

(05-11-2016 08:21 AM)Buakaw Wrote:  

She hadn't rejected a dude for a week and got desperate

Haha yep... not sure if you saw the whole thing, but you were right there a few feet away.

[C-Note]

(05-11-2016 06:21 AM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

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grow old waiting for white guys to come to their senses.

This some kinda not so subtle racism? I could easily get a far more attractive native girl, just what would I be coming to my senses about? Are white guys supposed to marry white girls?

Yup, this is outright racism. This means she doesn't have any close, Chinese girlfriends. In my experience, as soon as a Western woman in East Asia becomes close friends with a local woman (sometimes in a sexual way), this attitude goes away. My guess is that the Chinese women in her work place and her after work hangouts don't like her.

[TravelerKai]

[CRR]

Yet another example of what happens when women are told that they are beautiful and perfect.

When reality hits, they can't handle it and lash out at everyone. Here, it's Chinese men are too feminine and white guys need to wise up.

OR perhaps she could be much less of an arrogant cunt and realize she's neither as hot or as great a catch as she thinks she is. If anything, reality has proven this to be so.

[Foolsgo1d]

Why would a western man go half way across the globe to fuck a white girl from a country he is from or has similar cultural background with?

The odd times I was abroad British women and even men were invisible to me. Why would you socialise with people who wouldn't even say hi to you on the street back home?

[cascadecombo]

(05-11-2016 06:47 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

In Vietnam I know many guys with a beautiful Russian/Ukrainian/ Polish (my uncle) wife and they are utterly happy. Ancient Viet kings are known to keep Western concubines and these were very highly prized. Frankly IMO a thin, well-behave white girl beat her Asian equivalent any day. Most Asian girls have neither boobs nor ass.

If equal, would she not have TnA?
I'm not going to argue which is better since every man has his preferences.
Not to mention the main reason those ancient kings kept white sex slaves was a bit part simply due to the scarcity.
Shit, if I was one of them I'd want a lizard from every part of the globe too.



^an example.

[Phoenix]

^ +1. If I was a king I'd give my servant that "average face by country" gif and order him to get one of each.

But I always love enjoy western woman squealing articles like this. If I had my way, every western woman would be required by law to live in Asia for a year to take them down 5 pegs.

[WestIndianArchie]

Every time I read a story like this it makes me smile.

When Black American women complain about Black men going to the Dominican Republic or Brazil...

African women complain about African men dating Black American women

Fat chicks moving to Denver or another outdoorsy type place and mad that the thin girls are getting all the attention.

Career chicks who leave the big coastal cities and have to compete with girls that didn't jump on the feminist plan.

I'm sure there is a mad Korean chick who's pissed her guy is going to southeast for a chick.

WIA

[General Stalin]

If you want to date white guys then don't live in China? What a fucking twit. She obviously hates Asian men and wishes so badly white expats would notice her, but by her own admission, why the fuck would they? White men don't move to Asia to date high cock-count controlling cantankerous Canadian cunts.

I especially like this line:

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One night stands might be fun for the first several years in China, but the constant merry-go-round of meaningless flings here gets old pretty fast.

Literally calls it a cock carousel. She's a Canadian and only in her mid-20's. She's also living and working in Thailand now I wonder if she's having any better luck:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanienaday

Her employment history and degree of study are pretty typical. Marketing/media, content coordination, blogging, typing, social media addict, yadda yadda bullshit typing and paper shuffling gigs making $45k/year.

This bitch sucks. WB. WND.

[Ghost Tiger]

Would bang and throw Shanghai noodles on her face right before walking out. Fucking Canadian cunt is right. Trash-bag.

[RexImperator]

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Literally calls it a cock carousel.

[kaotic]

So much irony in her writings.

Sad thing is, she thinks she gets the white god complex in Asia like men do, while in fact, it's the opposite.

The East sees how the Western women are, and treat them accordingly.

Especially if they don't adapt and adhere to eastern standards.

Sure there might be a few who embrace the eastern customs, and might lock down a foreign boyfriend.


A perfect reminder is Crisp's (whose in China) story from the Forum Lounge Thread:

thread-9856-...pid1297871

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The other night I was at a local bar, talking to my brother back in the states on what'sapp. There was an annoying as fuck american broad with her douchy hipster boyfriend and another couple at the table next to me. The chick was so god damn loud, cursing with every other sentence, and particularly bitching about this "fucking british guy that was trying to fucking hit on me" as she came back from the bathroom. I'd put the chick as a 4 or 4.5 at best.

Her group was eating her shtick up and laughing with her. Feeling like she was on a roll, the chick then turns her attention to me. She's asking what's my story and in my opinion looking for some more fodder to bring to her little douche crew at my expense. Without ever taking my eyes off my phone and my conversation with my brother, I cut her off mid sentence and tell her, "Look, I have no interest whatsoever in talking to you and frankly your voice and behavior is annoying the shit out of me, so how about you just go back to your table and leave me alone."

She just stood there dumbfounded, her cackling crew immediately shut the fuck up. For the only time, I look up at her from my phone and tell her "ok, now go away." and make the shoo motion with my hand. Quietly she sat back down at her table and her and her now subdued group never so much as looked at me again.

[TornadoByProxy]

This is an extension of invading men's spaces. They hear that white men are put on a pedestal in Asia, so they need to go over and prove that they would be on an even higher pedestal. The shock they go through, realizing their low value is amazing to witness. They can't believe there is a place on Earth where they are not valued the most. That white men and non-white women are valued above them. That there is a great party going on that they are not invited to.