Quote: (05-10-2016 05:17 PM)kongzi Wrote:
Wow, that really sucks that FOB asian girls are so cliquey. I'm mostly into Vietnamese, Taiwanese, and Japanese girls. Korean girls are quite bitchy and many of the guys are douchebags and cockblockers
Although there are lots of FOB girls in silicon valley, I think at least 90% of them have boyfriends
I'm also open to Mexican chicks though I highly prefer the ones born and raised in Mexico, not Mexican. I'm not really into blondes, given their bad attitudes, but I would be interested if they were from Europe
FOBs are not necessarily cliquey just to be jerks.
Let's break down FOBs in general:
1. The Elite. (Very educated, rich, politically or economically powerful)
A. Have stuff like private planes but will live in a somewhat modest house. Often found in Sugarland or Clearlake area (Houston Areas).
B) The girls are rich and not impressed with anything you might have, but very interested in knowing about you or your friends, etc. Naive, but still flaky. Make sense?
C) Go to any of the nice universities in town. (University of Houston, Rice University, UTMB, Baylor, etc.)
D) Gameable, but usually not LTR or marriage possible. The parents would look down on you unless you are in their league and even then, still might.
E) Parents are quite often in the US with them and they live at home. (no bangs at their place, so make sure yours is tight)
F) Cliquey because the parents are or their community expects them to. Some are keeping low profiles for secretive reasons like Mainland Chinese.
2. Working class. (Not very rich but definately not poor either. Parents might be something like engineers, etc.)
A) Parents are educated. You basically want to consider this group as more upper middle class than just middle.
B) Found at any of the major universities in town.
C) Some have babies rabies pretty badly and they might not have their parents in the US with them.
D) A few might be green card hunting, but most probably not. Varies on the Asian really.
E) Easier to conversate with in a lot of ways, may have good English.
3. The Poor. (Works at Chinese/Asian restaurants, speaks little to no English, not always educated)
A) They are there because of a work sponsor.
B) Most are a little ugly or average. On occasion a nice 7 floats up.
c) Sometimes the sponsor is actually a relative that owns the business or close to that.
D) If they get caught having a relationship with anyone (Asian or other), the sponsor will send them back to Asia.
E) Tend to be either very down to earth and extroverted even. Not nerdy at all. Some are incredibly ignorant and will ask the dumbest questions you have ever heard. That is good and bad.
F) Restaurants, Asian goods and services stores, massage parlors, Asian medicine stores are the main places to find people like this.
G) Green card hunters abound. Anchor babies, etc.
H) Live in the Asian hood around Bellaire/Chinatown area or an apartment with a few other workers. (probably means your place)
The truth is that all of them stick with their own to a large extent because it is alot easier than trying to figure out the USA on their own. All of the area businesses will tell them to do stuff like go to the various resources in and around Chinatown/Vietnamese town. They will make friends with some folks quickly and a circle will form. Circle penetration may need to make sense otherwise you could look like a thirst cat with bad yellow fever. The bad thing is that to certain thirsty women, that makes you a mark too (eg. older white guys and Vietnamese women)
None of that means you cannot approach or find success. You will need tough skin until you figure out the right setup. The litany of tea shops are full of college kids that are herded like cattle. That said, there is ALWAYS a cute one or two in there alone. Game on.... Find a FOB chick that is cute and works at some restaurant? Talk to her discreetly and see what's up. Once she lets you know, take it from there and follow up appropriately. May require a few visits or a phone number on a napkin. Remember those girls are nervous and I already told you why.
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