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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 02:36 PM
Bumble is a garbage app. Used it for a while, matched up with plenty of women, but then went on to notice that virtually all of them didn't message me first. Nothing objectionable in my profile. I think a lot of girls think they like the idea of equality, but still prefer a man who makes the first move. Bumble circumvents the natural order of things, and as such, isn't going to gain a lot of traction. Uninstalled.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 03:25 PM
For about a year or so (2013-14) Tinder was awesome. I met with a good number of attractive women. I live in Toronto so closing wasn't easy but still did reasonably well. But for the past maybe 1.5 years it's been a joke, another Instagram basically. Complete waste of time. I should really stop using it altogether, it's just a bummer at this point.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 05:09 PM
I've met some great girls from tinder both this year and last year. So I cannot agree that it's "primary purpose for women is attention whoring and validation." To be honest that just sounds like butthurt.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 06:02 PM
If you do daytime approaches, you're violating women's personal space when they don't want to be bothered.
If you do night game approaches, you're a sketchy slimeball who's trying to take advantage of drunk women.
If you try to get with women in your social circle, you're a deceitful asshole who was only acting like their friend to get something out of it.
If you make the first move on a dating app with a normal, polite message, you're boring and lazy.
If you make the first move on a dating app with a funny, unusual message, you're weird and creepy.
And now, if you're on a feminist dating app that doesn't allow you to make the first move, you're lazy, apathetic, and objectifying.
Literally every possible method a man can use to meet women is said to victimize women in some way. Nothing new here.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 06:05 PM
As I've mentioned in other threads, it's also been my experience that the number of "non serious users" and flakey behavior online has gone way up.
I started OKC last spring and for about the first four months I almost never had a girl flake on me. Maybe once out of a dozen times.
A year later and now it's completely commonplace, I get flaked and ghosted on constantly to the point that I've come to expect it. I've also never seen so many disabled/deactivated accounts.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 06:29 PM
Where Chivlary came from:
Its meant to impress other guys, and her father back when a healthy society existed
It stems from the fact that Western Civ at its core is based(in theory) around the concept of "1 man, 1 woman".
Women of course couldnt care less and the CORE of the rot we are facing is the destruction of that 1m to 1f standard and the dissolution of the family.
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05-04-2016, 06:42 PM
I think a lot of girls experience online burnout, and taking too much random cock messes with their heads.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 06:56 PM
What a sexist pig! As if women have no agency such that they unable to not join Bumble in the first place.
You're part of the problem, the oppressive Patriarchy! You stupid male chauvinist...oh wait.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 07:14 PM
Quote: (05-04-2016 06:02 PM)Delta Wrote:
If you do daytime approaches, you're violating women's personal space when they don't want to be bothered.
If you do night game approaches, you're a sketchy slimeball who's trying to take advantage of drunk women.
If you try to get with women in your social circle, you're a deceitful asshole who was only acting like their friend to get something out of it.
If you make the first move on a dating app with a normal, polite message, you're boring and lazy.
If you make the first move on a dating app with a funny, unusual message, you're weird and creepy.
And now, if you're on a feminist dating app that doesn't allow you to make the first move, you're lazy, apathetic, and objectifying.
Literally every possible method a man can use to meet women is said to victimize women in some way. Nothing new here.
Damn you are really struggling. I regularly approach girls during the day, night and online and almost never do I experience such responses. It's usually the other way around, girls are happy that I approach, even if we don't like each other and nothing happens.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 07:57 PM
Every chick on Bumble opens with "hi" or "hey" and of course they don't know how to hold a conversation so you have to lead with an interesting opener after the initial exchange anyway.
Bumblerina: hey
Me: hey is for horses
Bumblerina: lol
Me: so, [standard opener]
So, ain't shit changed, you still gotta be a fucking man and lead, even on "the feminist Tinder".
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 08:06 PM
@Satoshi, brah you either live in a bubble, which I very much doubt (after all, you're here), you're autistic, (jk), you have model good looks, or you simply live in a pretty great place for gaming. In that case, good work.
Big cities are generally pretty shitty, especially when you're starting out. As stated by Delta, girls like to twist whatever you do by how they perceive you. Coupled with a lot of unrealistic expectations on their part, that's a bit of an ask. Not easy.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-04-2016, 08:53 PM
A lot of tinder's effectiveness will depend on where you are.
In NJ, tinder was awful, but go across the river to NYC and I'm getting opened by 7s despite my shitty pictures.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-05-2016, 02:40 AM
Notice the framing of the article, how it's about what the man should bring to the table, do tons of shit for women and be Ryan Gosling.
Yet there is nothing about what a woman should bring to the table except I guess to show up. Furthermore, nothing about what a man may be looking for in a woman. This line of thinking is too prevalent and needs to stop.
That it was written by a 'man' makes it even worse.
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-05-2016, 10:05 AM
Damn, thought this was a thread about...
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"Women Lose When Men Bumble" - Man the Hell Up
05-05-2016, 10:09 AM
Quote: (05-04-2016 06:29 PM)Burt Gummer Wrote:
Where Chivlary came from:
Its meant to impress other guys, and her father back when a healthy society existed
It stems from the fact that Western Civ at its core is based(in theory) around the concept of "1 man, 1 woman".
Women of course couldnt care less and the CORE of the rot we are facing is the destruction of that 1m to 1f standard and the dissolution of the family.
Chivalry also imposed standards and expectations on womens' behavior, as well as men. But, now that women have cast off all standards and have become feral, they (naturally) still expect men to adhere to an age that is as dead as the Assyrian Empire.
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