[GoldHawkStar]

This is basically the opposite of the High Status Men With Ugly Wives or GFs thread.

I see it happening so much today. Chubby/skinny, ugly, glasses-wearing hipsters getting with solid 8's and 9's. I feel that the legitimate reasons for this phenomenon include:

• There are far more betas today than years ago (obviously), and it's growing at a fast and irreversible rate.
• The ratio of men who want to settle to women who want to settle is off, tipped in favor of men. (While the opposite applies to men and women who want to casually go out / bang.) Hell we just had a thread a week ago about a woman who killed herself because she couldn't find a decent guy to settle with. So some attractive women are forced to settle for less quality than they are due to fewer options.
• Most alphas aren't looking to settle.
  

My prediction is that because of this, in the next few years we'll either see a lot of these attractive women letting themselves go quickly, or cuckolding will skyrocket.

Anyway, post pictures, videos, TV shows/movies, real stories, etc. of beta/cuckold/feminine men being settled on via a sad process of elimination by carousel survivors / good girls, and take a stab at the psychology behind this phenomenon.

(^High status but still a cuckold and feminine like none other. Somewhat of an exception.)

A lot of couples from my Facebook that I’m considering posting as well. That’s where most of this is coming from. It’s real-life couples, not so much couples in the media.

[Hotwheels]

Currently working on a 20 year old blonde smokeshow that is dating some complete beta chode.

She's liking my game but not the 26 year age difference.

So far.

[MiscBrah]

(04-04-2016 02:24 PM)GoldHawkStar Wrote:  

I see it happening so much today. Chubby/skinny, ugly, glasses-wearing hipsters getting with solid 8's and 9's. I feel that the legitimate reasons for this phenomenon include:

None of the girls in the pictures you listed were 8s or 9s. Some of them were cute (top left) but there is a lot of details we don't know. I remember the thread about the top right picture. The guy wasn't always so fat and effeminate. She now resents him and they don't fuck.

And holy fuck, I thought I remembered Kevin Jonas being the masculine Jonas brother. He's going tranny in 3-6 years I'm calling it now.

[The Beast1]

While asshole game will win the girl for a short term fling, not every chick is into asshole game for the long term.

Once upon a time, women would actively seek out what we would term as a "beta provider" because they did a good job at that: providing a good home and stable life style.

Different game for different outcomes.

[Travesty]

Jonas's bitch is a high 6 at best with taste included, and that is with her hair and makeup done to the 9s TV ready. Weird face looks like too much T in her gene pool, semi-horseface.

The 10 thread and Trump supporter chicks are the material.

[godzilla]

You would be better off not worrying whether someone is alpha or beta or not. The divide is not that simple.

Even so, just about everyone has a girlfriend at some point, there are bound to be plenty of guys you deem "beta" with hot girlfriends/wives.

[The Laughing Man]

If I see a guy with a hot broad that's above his SMV he's clearly nailing, I never think "damn, what a beta". I normally think "Nice one dude" and recognize his game.

[Mentavious]

Isn't this how society should be?

The stable beta male getting the hot girl at a young age?

These girls may be 6s but the guys are getting talent way above their pay grade.

[armenia4ever]

Know when to neg and when to nurture when looking for an ltr or a wife. I think this is missed.

A good balance of both is required before a girl realizes that the alpha isn't just good material for her children, but is a man who wants to raise a strong family that is ready to conquer.

Attractive women will line up for alphas who are ready to settle, but then again, there aren't alot of alphas willing to settle, so we don't see it much.

[eatthishomie]

They aren't getting good sex from these girls I can guarantee that.

They are getting twice-yearly tepid begrudging starfish squelch sessions, if even that, and the girls are probably cheating on them with alphas who are able to fuck the shit out of them against the wall, do multiple positions, have a tempo above "Stayin' Alive" BPM, cum on any part of their body, all things their beloved boyfriends can't do because they're "not like that" around them.

These betas are essentially being used as lifestyle accessories.

[Centurion]

(04-04-2016 05:59 PM)The Laughing Man Wrote:  

If I see a guy with a hot broad that's above his SMV he's clearly nailing, I never think "damn, what a beta". I normally think "Nice one dude" and recognize his game.

The point is if he has game, then he would have a high SMV himself, no?

I've just resigned myself to the fact that it's pure luck that they were in the same place at the same time and girls aren't very good at hypergamy, so they go with the easy/comfortable option. Similar to Aussie guys.

[R_Niko]

Some great points here. One thing I would add is that there seems to be a direct correlation between the rise of the beta and the rise of the "empowered" woman. This makes sense for a number of reasons. More women entering positions of power leads to fewer men in those positions in terms of simple mathematics, and also because it leads to a feminized indoctrination of men to be weak and of women to prefer weak men.

So we have women--in their conscious mind, due to social conditioning--seeking out beta partners, but in their unconscious minds still craving the alpha. So the beta-hot girl partnership makes perfect sense, and in a way works out to everyone's advantage.

The beta can be used however the hot girl sees fit, then if she wants to cheat on him, leave him, humiliate him, etc., there is nothing standing in her way.

[EDantes]

Just because a woman "looks good" doesn't automatically make her worthy of an alpha anyway.

The number of women who look somewhat good but are foul-mouthed, bossy, and undesirable except as 1 night stand material is suprisingly high.

I think most alphas would have a lot of options, so they'd look for a woman who not only looks good but also has a feminine personality and doesn't mind doing things like cooking and cleaning for her man; a lot of these "good looking women" might not have enough SMV themselves to settle for anything but a beta except as a fuck toy.

[Cattle Rustler]

I thought that's what a lot of people on here talked about and want so bad.

A hot girl who is not an alpha chasing slut.

[Anabasis to Desta]

Most couples featuring a hot girl with a feminine guy I've seen follow the following script ...

1) Started dating early in life like in HS or early during college before the girl got a taste of Alpha D. Then they sort of just kept dating. No reason to break up. Most of these types are more like best friends than lovers.

2) Guy works in a female profession like theater, photography, elementary teaching, dental hygiene, nursing or participates in feminine hobbies like A Capella groups.

Power of proximity at work here.

3) Hipsters - feminine, annoying, passive aggressive guys with 13 inch arms and bodies that look like cookie-dough slapped on a broomstick tapping top-shelf pussy makes me want to quit lifting.

4) Ethnic girls like Jewish girls, Sikhs, Mongolians, Tibetans and Ethiopians tend to date within their groups. So a hot girl from these communities will bang other races on the side but stick to a beta guy from her group since that is what her family/community expects her to do.

Besides the above, I actually see the opposite more often. In-shape guys with good jobs who're cool, funny and somewhat Alpha dating average girls with no qualities except the possession of a vagina.

[EDantes]

(04-04-2016 09:42 PM)Anabasis to Desta Wrote:  

3) Hipsters - feminine, annoying, passive aggressive guys with 13 inch arms and bodies that look like cookie-dough slapped on a broomstick tapping top-shelf pussy makes me want to quit lifting.

Musicians probably.

Just my personal observation, but guys who are musicians or into some type of "artsy" profession tend to be the best 'ladies men' in general even when they don't come across as manly at a glace.

Prince is a great example - 5'1'', 95 lbs, dresses like a fag, but still manages to score tons of poon

Guys who are built tend to get more respect from other guys but tend to be less of a "slayer" - just my two cents

[cubanlinx]

You can be damned sure she's getting it on with some other brah on the side.
I don't see it and go " damn", I see it and go "ah, opportunity".

[JWLZG]

Relationships ≠ casual sex.

How many of these betas are actively fucking around and maintaining soft harems on the side?

Often times, these betas met their partners through social circle, which alleviates the immediate need for game or being alpha. Or they were that good looking and confident to begin with. You can be a beta and still have those qualities.

[Conscious Pirate]

After just posting in the Vinyl thread, this pairing came to mind.

[GlobalMan]

^ I don't see how that couple fits with the theme of the thread. Jason Sudeikis is decent looking dude, quite funny, famous. The humor aspect alone would get him pussy.

[It_is_my_time]

Beta is beta.

Life isn't about getting women, life is about becoming a masculine man. Once you are a masculine man, the women try to get you.

If you see a beta in a "relationship" with some true 8/9/10, and none of those pictured above are above a 6 to me, then you know a few things are true...

#1) She is still looking for the bigger better deal and for the time being just settled for a some stability and is probably getting bored.

#2) She probably is sick of having sex with him or has already cut him off.

#3) She makes his life completely miserable, because his entire existence is dependent on trying to keep her, knowing deep down he probably cannot, all the while she throws one giant shit test after another.

#4) She probably makes him miserable behind closed doors.

With this said, my point is, learn to be a masculine man. That is all that matters in life, and worrying about what appears to be, is not only wasted effort, often what appears to be is not what really is.

[Conscious Pirate]

(04-05-2016 04:24 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

^ I don't see how that couple fits with the theme of the thread. Jason Sudeikis is decent looking dude, quite funny, famous. The humor aspect alone would get him pussy.

None of those are necessarily Alpha. And his humour is beta as fuck. I cringe watching him.

Name one Alpha type character he has played? He has limited range as an actor. That tells me a lot.

Let's see how this whole "romance" plays out.

[Speculation]

(04-05-2016 04:36 AM)Conscious Pirate Wrote:  

(04-05-2016 04:24 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

^ I don't see how that couple fits with the theme of the thread. Jason Sudeikis is decent looking dude, quite funny, famous. The humor aspect alone would get him pussy.

None of those are necessarily Alpha. And his humour is beta as fuck. I cringe watching him.

Name one Alpha type character he has played? He has limited range as an actor. That tells me a lot.

Let's see how this whole "romance" plays out.

It doesn't matter how he acts. It matters how he is in real life.

In real life he dropped a line and then did a takeaway. Guy has game.

Quote:

Olivia Wilde recounted her first meeting with her now-fiancé Jason Sudeikis. Turns out, celebrities are just like us: They say weird things when they try to talk to attractive strangers. Wilde recalled:

I remember I was on the dance floor [at an SNL afterparty] and everybody was dancing around me and they just seemed really happy and I was just kinda standing there. ... He came up to me and said, “You know, whatever you’re looking for, you don’t need it,” and he just walked away. ... He played it really cool.

[GlobalMan]

(04-05-2016 04:36 AM)Conscious Pirate Wrote:  

(04-05-2016 04:24 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

^ I don't see how that couple fits with the theme of the thread. Jason Sudeikis is decent looking dude, quite funny, famous. The humor aspect alone would get him pussy.

None of those are necessarily Alpha. And his humour is beta as fuck. I cringe watching him.

Name one Alpha type character he has played? He has limited range as an actor. That tells me a lot.

Let's see how this whole "romance" plays out.

This is why so many guys struggle attracting or understanding women. They are stuck in this "Alpha/Beta" nonsense.

Simply being able to make a woman laugh is hugely attractive to them.

I'm not sure what his acting roles have to do with it. So he hasn't played Rambo? Shit like that only matters to guys.

He's not fat, he's not awkward. He's a decent-to-good looking dude, 6'1", funny, famous, likely intelligent. His humor being "beta" (on tv/film), again, means little to nothing to a woman.

[Paracelsus]

(04-04-2016 02:24 PM)GoldHawkStar Wrote:  

This is basically the opposite of the High Status Men With Ugly Wives or GFs thread.

I see it happening so much today. Chubby/skinny, ugly, glasses-wearing hipsters getting with solid 8's and 9's. I feel that the legitimate reasons for this phenomenon include:

• There are far more betas today than years ago (obviously), and it's growing at a fast and irreversible rate.
• The ratio of men who want to settle to women who want to settle is off, tipped in favor of men. (While the opposite applies to men and women who want to casually go out / bang.) Hell we just had a thread a week ago about a woman who killed herself because she couldn't find a decent guy to settle with. So some attractive women are forced to settle for less quality than they are due to fewer options.
• Most alphas aren't looking to settle.
  

My prediction is that because of this, in the next few years we'll either see a lot of these attractive women letting themselves go quickly, or cuckolding will skyrocket.

Anyway, post pictures, videos, TV shows/movies, real stories, etc. of beta/cuckold/feminine men being settled on via a sad process of elimination by carousel survivors / good girls, and take a stab at the psychology behind this phenomenon.

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This one is a bit misleading. I've seen that in a thread here earlier. He didn't look like that when he married her - he might have had a certain feminine vibe at the time, but the dude was pretty ripped. She's pushed out four kids, stayed home to be a housewife, and he let himself go like that. No wonder she says her skin crawls when she thinks about having sex with him.