Quote: (04-25-2016 12:35 PM)No Habit Wrote:
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I have absolutely no sympathy and will offer no advice to a 24 year old virgin who refuses to read Bang and Day Bang.
That's cool. Nobody forces you to do so.
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Why are you even on this forum?
I came here because I had problems with a girl back in the day. It has become a second home to me and helped me grow as a man. I also like to think that I contributed a bit here.
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All of your answers begin in those two books and your arrogance in not reading them shows that you can't be helped.
First of all, I actually did read Bang. I am not going to read those books now because I don't think this will help me. If you think otherwise, feel free to elaborate why.
Does this make me arrogant? If so, why does that imply I cannot be helped?
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No Habit
So many guys come to RVF and want an easy answer and haven't even read his books. That's what I was calling arrogant. But that isn't you, since you say you read it. So I'll give you my thoughts. (Also, I commend you on your mature response.)
First, you are outcome dependent, have the pussy up on the pedestal, do not have an abundance mentality, have weak inner game, and are probably thirsty as hell. Read up on how to address each of these individually.
You are jumping way too fast into your planned lines. Why is any girl going to give her number to some guy who just rushed up on her? She's not. You are scaring them. Every girl is going to say she has a boyfriend to get rid of you.
No girl cares that you said she was beautiful. That is not how you pick up a girl. You should be looking to make a connection and should never bring looks, money, or tricks into it.
Success for you right now is not getting a girl's number. Success is not making her feel weird from the interaction.
My advice, you need to get a more successful guy in your life. It's clear you are alone in this and it is holding you back. Find someone who isn't trying to be a PUA. Just someone who knows how to read and talk to people. And just watch how he builds comfort with girls. Ask him his advice on these things because he can see your mistakes in person.
Finally, just keep reading and trying. It will all click some day. Good luck.