[Gmac]

Maybe he thinks notches = # of times total having sex? I'm with you Samseau.

[Tuthmosis]

(07-11-2011 08:34 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Maybe he thinks notches = # of times total having sex? I'm with you Samseau.

LOL. I thought that too. By that metric, I have a lot more notches than I thought.

[Roosh]

Quote:

I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches

Are you counting prostitutes?

[blurb]

(07-10-2011 10:46 PM)CJ Wrote:  

While he thought it was interesting, and said he learned a few things from reading Bang, he felt like most of it was common sense. I think he just lacked the proper dedication to this lifestyle. A lot of guys don't have the patience to build their skills, and if they don't see success right away they quit.

Common sense is not common.

First of all, when you have been programmed for years into being a "nice guy," (e.g., grown up in the South in the U.S.,, women are pedestalized, boys are taught to be a "gentleman"), it seems like going against the grain when you discover Game. I don't blame guys if they're a little shocked or skeptical at first, but if they don't realize and see the matrix for what it is, then they never will. Only when they start thinking,"Hm, why is everyone getting laid but me?" then will they smarten up.

[haywire]

[DrWho]

(07-11-2011 09:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:

I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches

Are you counting prostitutes?

No. not counting prostitutes.
More than 100 different women. Not total number of lays, lol. That would be many thousands.
Mostly because I traveled a lot and cheated on all my girlfriends.

[DrWho]

(07-12-2011 07:53 AM)haywire Wrote:  

My first thought was that pic was from Mexico and the guy was a cartel member.

[Saladin]

The deeper of game is being yourself, aka letting your full personality shine without a hot girl changing your behavior at all(being unreactive to her). Its when being confident and charming is your normal self that you can be "yourself".

When you are new to this its about not being yourself. Then when you get comfortable with the proper alpha behaviors and internalize them then that becomes the new "yourself"

[haywire]

(07-12-2011 11:57 AM)DrWho Wrote:  

My first thought was that pic was from Mexico and the guy was a cartel member.

Its funny coz its actually a 'serious' image. A google search on Syria got me to the page where I got it from. Could be that Mexican cartel members vacation is Syria.

http://www.arab-world.tk/tag/syria-2

[Samseau]

(07-12-2011 11:56 AM)DrWho Wrote:  

(07-11-2011 09:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:

I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches

Are you counting prostitutes?

No. not counting prostitutes.
More than 100 different women. Not total number of lays, lol. That would be many thousands.
Mostly because I traveled a lot and cheated on all my girlfriends.

Quote:

You have over 100 notches and you don't consider yourself to have game? What the hell were you doing before?

[DrWho]

A combination of things. In the USA, mostly social circle, some random chicks while out drinking, some I met in the day, a good number via craigslist (many of these were from the platonic section, I would get girls to come over my place to smoke pot, and most of the time it would lead to sex).
Outside the USA, it was just meeting girls. I never really tried to game intentionally. I would just talk to women, and try and impress them by playing up my exotic and international experience, and then when the mood/locale was right, go for the kiss, and take it from there.

(07-11-2011 06:51 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(07-11-2011 05:11 PM)DrWho Wrote:  

That's not exactly what I meant.
I certainly do value people's opinions, otherwise I wouldn't be spending time on the forum.
Its really a reflection of my own doubts/inertia. I am about to embark on a journey of learning about game, and have some last minute resistance to changing my mindset.
I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches, and to start game is to in some ways start over, and be humble about what I don't know. I don't care who you are, that is never easy.
One of the things that attracts me about game, is not merely getting new/different/potentially better pussy. It is the fact that many of you who have evolved your game note positive improvements in other areas of your lives. It makes sense, when one is willing to do approach after approach to random women, in public places where defeat or victory is easily observed, it would be hard to view other social interaction as challenging.

You have over 100 notches and you don't consider yourself to have game? What the hell were you doing before?

[Samseau]

(07-12-2011 05:58 PM)DrWho Wrote:  

A combination of things. In the USA, mostly social circle, some random chicks while out drinking, some I met in the day, a good number via craigslist (many of these were from the platonic section, I would get girls to come over my place to smoke pot, and most of the time it would lead to sex).
Outside the USA, it was just meeting girls. I never really tried to game intentionally. I would just talk to women, and try and impress them by playing up my exotic and international experience, and then when the mood/locale was right, go for the kiss, and take it from there.

(07-11-2011 06:51 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(07-11-2011 05:11 PM)DrWho Wrote:  

That's not exactly what I meant.
I certainly do value people's opinions, otherwise I wouldn't be spending time on the forum.
Its really a reflection of my own doubts/inertia. I am about to embark on a journey of learning about game, and have some last minute resistance to changing my mindset.
I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches, and to start game is to in some ways start over, and be humble about what I don't know. I don't care who you are, that is never easy.
One of the things that attracts me about game, is not merely getting new/different/potentially better pussy. It is the fact that many of you who have evolved your game note positive improvements in other areas of your lives. It makes sense, when one is willing to do approach after approach to random women, in public places where defeat or victory is easily observed, it would be hard to view other social interaction as challenging.

You have over 100 notches and you don't consider yourself to have game? What the hell were you doing before?

If what you say is true...

I wouldn't worry about learning game then. You sound like a natural to me. You just need to focus on finding the right niche and you'll be a rockstar.

[DrWho]

Maybe so. But I think back to a few of the ones that got away, and think that with game, perhaps I would get better results.
Plus, now I'm a bit older, dont smoke pot anymore, and am not necessarily exotic like before because Im back on the fucking USA, and cant really throw around cash like before because its all going to my education.
I've had tons of 7s, a number of 8s (to be fair, like everyone else, I went for some lesser women when horny, and even harpooned a fatty in NYC once), but only one real deal 9+ in my days. And that was 12 years about when I was 19 in Madrid. French model, 21 yrs old, 6ft tall, perfect breasts and body, pleasant face. Hmmm.

(07-12-2011 06:03 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(07-12-2011 05:58 PM)DrWho Wrote:  

A combination of things. In the USA, mostly social circle, some random chicks while out drinking, some I met in the day, a good number via craigslist (many of these were from the platonic section, I would get girls to come over my place to smoke pot, and most of the time it would lead to sex).
Outside the USA, it was just meeting girls. I never really tried to game intentionally. I would just talk to women, and try and impress them by playing up my exotic and international experience, and then when the mood/locale was right, go for the kiss, and take it from there.

(07-11-2011 06:51 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(07-11-2011 05:11 PM)DrWho Wrote:  

That's not exactly what I meant.
I certainly do value people's opinions, otherwise I wouldn't be spending time on the forum.
Its really a reflection of my own doubts/inertia. I am about to embark on a journey of learning about game, and have some last minute resistance to changing my mindset.
I think of myself as someone pretty good/experienced with women, with 100+ notches, and to start game is to in some ways start over, and be humble about what I don't know. I don't care who you are, that is never easy.
One of the things that attracts me about game, is not merely getting new/different/potentially better pussy. It is the fact that many of you who have evolved your game note positive improvements in other areas of your lives. It makes sense, when one is willing to do approach after approach to random women, in public places where defeat or victory is easily observed, it would be hard to view other social interaction as challenging.

You have over 100 notches and you don't consider yourself to have game? What the hell were you doing before?

If what you say is true...

I wouldn't worry about learning game then. You sound like a natural to me. You just need to focus on finding the right niche and you'll be a rockstar.

[Sh0t]

I approve the use of the term "harpoon" in reference to fat chicks.

My friends and I sometimes play "Deadliest Catch" and try to make a fat chick fall in love with us. I won two weeks ago, with proof lol.

[Roosh]

DrWho is like a billionaire going to a billionaire forum whining about how he's experiencing deep anxiety about how he's going to make his second billion.

I'll just ask everyone this: if you banged over 100 women, would you email your beta male friend about his opinion on if game works or not... and then paste that message in said forum?

[DrWho]

(07-12-2011 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

DrWho is like a billionaire going to a billionaire forum whining about how he's experiencing deep anxiety about how he's going to make his second billion.

I'll just ask everyone this: if you banged over 100 women, would you email your beta male friend about his opinion on if game works or not... and then paste that message in said forum?

Roosh I'm not a troll so no need to be cynical. Maybe there have been lots of trolls on your site in the past, so your guard is up.

I'm at a bit of a down time/dry patch now, and am just trying to see what I can do to make my life better.

Also, I wouldn't classify my friend as beta. He has a great job in finance in London, travels all over Europe on business staying in swank hotels without working crazy hours, and pulls large numbers of 18-24 yr old hotties, mostly Scandanavians, although lately he's developed a taste for Russians.
I messaged him, because of all my friends, many of whom are now married, he gets the most notches, and I was just curious if he had a certain strategy.
When you are doing something and its not working, or if you are doing something and want to get better, it makes sense to get in touch with someone who does something well.

[thecrazyfool]

(07-12-2011 06:21 PM)Sh0t Wrote:  

I approve the use of the term "harpoon" in reference to fat chicks.

My friends and I sometimes play "Deadliest Catch" and try to make a fat chick fall in love with us. I won two weeks ago, with proof lol.

This is a pastime? Maybe I should get in on this! I've even got a whale I could go for! Something is better than nothing, right?

Hey! Hey! Guess how many women I've had sex with! Guess how many relationships I've had! Why are you complaining? "Oh boohoo I've only had sex with 100+ women! My life is in drastic need of change!" Do you know what would make me happy? A relationship with a girl who I wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with in public! This is even more ridiculous than people going "goddammit I hate it so much when girls wear flip-flops. lazy bitches." If your love life is so good that you can afford to eliminate girls simply because you happen to dislike their footwear, or that you've had sex with OVER 100 WOMEN, then TELL ME HOW YOU DID IT. Because otherwise... troll.

In all fairness, though, I am beginning to think that game may not be useful for everyone. How dare I utter this heresy? Because... wait for it...

I've been taking relationship advice from a GIRL. And I've been far more successful with her advice (some of which I wrote about in an earlier post, such as "being myself" with high energy rather than trying to be all "solo dolo alpha cool") than when practicing game, during which made a lot of people think I was strange and unfriendly, and had ZERO interest. Now, with her advice, I have some friends again, and a fat chick, who is at least 4 years older than me, interested in me. Yay. (in all fairness to the fat chick, she would actually be very attractive if she lost 50 pounds or so.)

I "Contribute ZERO value to this forum and should be banned (for appearing to potentially question his Royal MiXXness, who, like the Pope, is considered infallible)" so my previous point will probably be ignored, but I would say that a lot of "game" is common sense - common sense if men weren't culturally programmed to pedestalize women. Think about it. If you were a caveman, you wouldn't see a girl and think "oh shit, I hope I'm good enough for her," you drag her to your cave. If she resists, bonk her on the head. Then give her some woolly mammoth after sex so she doesn't leave. Ta da! She will now cook your food and keep the cave clean, because you demonstrated both your strength and provider ability. The analogy isn't perfect, but you get the idea.

[Nonpareil]

(07-12-2011 09:29 PM)thecrazyfool Wrote:  

I've been taking relationship advice from a GIRL. And I've been far more successful with her advice (some of which I wrote about in an earlier post, such as "being myself" with high energy rather than trying to be all "solo dolo alpha cool") than when practicing game, during which made a lot of people think I was strange and unfriendly, and had ZERO interest. Now, with her advice, I have some friends again, and a fat chick, who is at least 4 years older than me, interested in me. Yay. (in all fairness to the fat chick, she would actually be very attractive if she lost 50 pounds or so.)

First point: Okay now I know you're fucking with us...

Second point: She's be very attractive if she lost 50 pounds or so? Well, I'd be very attractive if I had a three-album deal with EMI. See how that works?

The greatest misconception about game is that it's one-size-fits-all and teaches you to be something you're not. This is wrong; game is fluid, differs man to man and teaches you to be the best man you can be based on your own strengths.

Take me; I'm not the loudest, most outgoing cat, so I don't really have much use for cocky-funny game, indirect game and epic asshole game. What I am is tall, quietly confident, witty and totally against wasting any time...so things like aloofness, direct game (with a small smirk and zero shame, not for the feint of heart) and dress-sharp game are in my wheelhouse.

I threw a bunch of shit at the wall and kept only what stuck, that's what all guys should do.

[Roosh]

Quote:

I am beginning to think that game may not be useful for everyone.

she would actually be very attractive if she lost 50 pounds or so

Can you teach me a workshop?

[Lumiere]

My main question for dr who is how the hell does he keep defeating the daleks and does having a time machine help you get pussy ?

[hypesession]

lollls @thecrazyfool

this dude OP lost his mojo, just channel from when you were getting ALL THAT PUSSY

no, game doesn't work, just use your common sense and it will sort out. check the articles on how to treat women with respect and dignity and use those as your road map

[thecrazyfool]

ff

[MiXX]

(07-12-2011 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

DrWho is like a billionaire going to a billionaire forum whining about how he's experiencing deep anxiety about how he's going to make his second billion.

I'll just ask everyone this: if you banged over 100 women, would you email your beta male friend about his opinion on if game works or not... and then paste that message in said forum?

I have banged more than 100 women (in 2010 alone).


I would totally do that Roosh.....SIKE!!! (old school, I know) hehe.


Mixx

[thecrazyfool]

Glad to see someone finds me funny.

Sure, Roosh! Workshops, blog, everything! We'll be starting with some important inner game lessons, like "10 Reasons Why No Girl Could Ever Like You," and "How To Become Suicidally Depressed Over Girls Who Don't Even Know You Exist." Then we'll move on to outer game, with courses like "Overanalysis 101" and "How To Lie Like a Sociopath Without Really Trying." It'll be great.

[DrWho]

(07-13-2011 02:41 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(07-12-2011 07:33 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

DrWho is like a billionaire going to a billionaire forum whining about how he's experiencing deep anxiety about how he's going to make his second billion.

I'll just ask everyone this: if you banged over 100 women, would you email your beta male friend about his opinion on if game works or not... and then paste that message in said forum?

I have banged more than 100 women (in 2010 alone).


I would totally do that Roosh.....SIKE!!! (old school, I know) hehe.


Mixx

100 in 2010?

That's out of sight. I think the most I ever had in a 2 week period was 5, in Brazil of course.
Wilt