The purpose of this thread is to shed some light into the real truth about Ukrainian woman. After having been engaged to a Ukrainian woman and having lived with her I was able to understand the psyche of your typical Ukrainian girl.
About me: I am a 25 year old American living in California. I am fit, educated and have a good job. I will also add that I am more alpha than beta.
My experience with a Ukrainian woman began when I joined a social dating app called Badoo. I wasn't having much luck with the app until I met her. She was everything a man could ever want. She is 27, and teaches English and dance classes in a small town. She is gorgeous, feminine, smart, funny, family oriented, and lives a very simple life with her parents. At the time I was not looking to settle down and be in a relationship, but after several months talking to her I started to build a deep connection with her. To make a long story short I went out to visit her 3 times in Ukraine, and she moved to the USA so we could start our life together.
I know what you are thinking - huge mistake. And to that I answer I am young, confident, and I am capable of maintaining such a beautiful girl in America. Well it turns out that may not be the case. I found her expectations to be unbearable..
Here are my list of Cons while dating a Ukrainian woman:
Beauty & Fashion
-The foundation of her entire self esteem is her beauty
-Spends hundreds of dollars on beauty and fashion each month
-Would eat bread for a week rather than give up buying makeup
-Frequent mood swings which are attributed to her feeling fat or ugly
-Her Mother did not leave the house for several years because she was embarrassed of her natural weight gain
Note: While my Fiance was not bulimic and anorexic, I hear a lot of Ukrainian woman are. It's a disease that will affect both yours and her happiness forever.
Social Media
-Highly addicted to Social Media attention. She didn't have an Instagram before I met her and now she is on it everyday
-Always posting provocative photos and would have multiple creepers message her daily
-Had professional makeup and photoshoots every month to maintain her online perception
-Would add anyone and everyone as a friend
Finance
-Does not save. Only spends...
-Believes it is the mans job to save for a house, car, retirement
-Her money is her money, and my money is our money mentality
Note: Never tell a Ukrainian woman you can not afford something. She will take it as a personal insult towards her and will call you greedy. Go figure.
Love
-Can have a heart made of ice with the flip of a switch
-Love language - Gift giving and words of affirmation. Will not feel loved unless she is being showered with flowers, chocolates, and told how beautiful she is.
-Love is based on being her provider or "Daddy"
-In all cases she loves your money more than you
Note: Ukrainian woman don't have the same perception of cheating as the rest of the world. Both men and woman rationalize cheating in Ukraine. Talk about it and draw boundaries.
Communication
-Does not communicate feelings
-All communication related problems must be solved by the male
-Holds conflict inside and later explodes and makes a completely rash decision
-No problem solving skills, if there is a problem it can be solved by ignoring it
Work ethic
-Motto is life does not need to be hard
-Surplus of entitlement
-Will put in 40+ hours working multiple jobs per week for slave wages if it means setting her own hours and being payed cash
-Intimidated at the prospect of working a real job and refuses to do 75% of jobs which she believes are below her education status
-Wakes up at 10am and starts her day at 1pm
Goals
-Pessimism. I think this is one of the worst traits a person can have. Simply put, Ukrainian woman lack optimism. They do not believe they can achieve anything and it gets old.
-Will not attempt something new if there is a chance of failure
Guys, I could be completely wrong about Ukrainian woman. I spent quite a bit of time around my fiance's dance friends (which were all 7/10's or above). These are all trends that I have noticed over time. While the sex is unbelievable, is it worth all the baggage? Will a Ukrainian woman destroy a man over the long term?
About me: I am a 25 year old American living in California. I am fit, educated and have a good job. I will also add that I am more alpha than beta.
My experience with a Ukrainian woman began when I joined a social dating app called Badoo. I wasn't having much luck with the app until I met her. She was everything a man could ever want. She is 27, and teaches English and dance classes in a small town. She is gorgeous, feminine, smart, funny, family oriented, and lives a very simple life with her parents. At the time I was not looking to settle down and be in a relationship, but after several months talking to her I started to build a deep connection with her. To make a long story short I went out to visit her 3 times in Ukraine, and she moved to the USA so we could start our life together.
I know what you are thinking - huge mistake. And to that I answer I am young, confident, and I am capable of maintaining such a beautiful girl in America. Well it turns out that may not be the case. I found her expectations to be unbearable..
Here are my list of Cons while dating a Ukrainian woman:
Beauty & Fashion
-The foundation of her entire self esteem is her beauty
-Spends hundreds of dollars on beauty and fashion each month
-Would eat bread for a week rather than give up buying makeup
-Frequent mood swings which are attributed to her feeling fat or ugly
-Her Mother did not leave the house for several years because she was embarrassed of her natural weight gain
Note: While my Fiance was not bulimic and anorexic, I hear a lot of Ukrainian woman are. It's a disease that will affect both yours and her happiness forever.
Social Media
-Highly addicted to Social Media attention. She didn't have an Instagram before I met her and now she is on it everyday
-Always posting provocative photos and would have multiple creepers message her daily
-Had professional makeup and photoshoots every month to maintain her online perception
-Would add anyone and everyone as a friend
Finance
-Does not save. Only spends...
-Believes it is the mans job to save for a house, car, retirement
-Her money is her money, and my money is our money mentality
Note: Never tell a Ukrainian woman you can not afford something. She will take it as a personal insult towards her and will call you greedy. Go figure.
Love
-Can have a heart made of ice with the flip of a switch
-Love language - Gift giving and words of affirmation. Will not feel loved unless she is being showered with flowers, chocolates, and told how beautiful she is.
-Love is based on being her provider or "Daddy"
-In all cases she loves your money more than you
Note: Ukrainian woman don't have the same perception of cheating as the rest of the world. Both men and woman rationalize cheating in Ukraine. Talk about it and draw boundaries.
Communication
-Does not communicate feelings
-All communication related problems must be solved by the male
-Holds conflict inside and later explodes and makes a completely rash decision
-No problem solving skills, if there is a problem it can be solved by ignoring it
Work ethic
-Motto is life does not need to be hard
-Surplus of entitlement
-Will put in 40+ hours working multiple jobs per week for slave wages if it means setting her own hours and being payed cash
-Intimidated at the prospect of working a real job and refuses to do 75% of jobs which she believes are below her education status
-Wakes up at 10am and starts her day at 1pm
Goals
-Pessimism. I think this is one of the worst traits a person can have. Simply put, Ukrainian woman lack optimism. They do not believe they can achieve anything and it gets old.
-Will not attempt something new if there is a chance of failure
Guys, I could be completely wrong about Ukrainian woman. I spent quite a bit of time around my fiance's dance friends (which were all 7/10's or above). These are all trends that I have noticed over time. While the sex is unbelievable, is it worth all the baggage? Will a Ukrainian woman destroy a man over the long term?