[Foolsgo1d]

If you looked at her other pics she and him both settled. She is a reformed party girl with a slutface and he was just there and interested.

Are those kids really his?

[zombiejimmorrison]

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Sam returns from his job as an engineer at 5.30pm

Good solid career.

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We’re parents to the same children, yet our experiences couldn’t be more different. He leaves as soon as they get up in the mornings and doesn’t see them until they are fed and ready for bed in the evening. Meanwhile, I do everything in between. As a result, we’re not really on the same page emotionally.

Yeah that's your job.

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I have heard close friends say things like: ‘I feel so bad for John — we hardly ever have sex.’
Well, I don’t feel bad for my partner and neither should they. You might be married but you did not sign over the rights to your body.

Snarky feminist comment on her part, I'm guessing this is the state of most women in the west.

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You did not enter into a contract whereby you are obliged to put aside your feelings to protect his. You don’t owe it to your husband or partner to have sex when you don’t want to

God damn, and she calls this a "loving relationship". I guess he should put aside his feelings and hire an escort.

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But no means no. Even in marriage, it is not an opening for a discussion. It’s the end of the conversation.

Until it means yes. Seriously though not even a hand job for "the loving relationship"

She's got that look in her eyes, the one that screams I need some alpha strange right now. Sex is stress relieving, she hamstered a whole article about her husband being an ugly creep maybe this is just an elaborate way of advertising that he's a cuckold

[Mage]

It's really hard for me to understand guys like this, you don't need Game and you don't have to be red pill to understand that you need to be fit and look decent to maintain attraction from the opposite sex. This guy is criminally lazy and his wife's repulsion is his fault.

[fugly1000]

Why she is upset? She looks she wanted a nice, sensitive man and who has a dad bod. Yeah that's what bitches do to you. Fatten you up and then talk shit. Man, I do feel sorry for the guy. Doing what society expects of him. We all know she's cheating. All her kids look like day care babies. Uncle Roosh is alway more right than wrong. Also if I were him, I'd get a DNA test on all the kids. You can tell by her face she can't be trusted.

[da_zeb]

(02-18-2016 06:55 PM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

While the chick needs to re-read her vows and understand what they mean, the dude needs to hit the gym.

Game 101, dude let himself go and the woman is disgusted. She needs to have the guts to tell her husband that he's a fat lard.

I can't agree more. I had a nearly non-existent sex-life with the wife until i joined the gym last summer and started lifting. Combined with a feigned disinterest in sex and a bit of asshole game and suddenly she became a lot more receptive.

This guy is going to have to work a lot harder for a lot longer, but I think it can be done. He also needs a haircut and to change his whole "I accept my little princess's decision and would never cheat on her." attitude. No need to actually cheat, but dear Gawd man don't say you'd never do it! Going to the gym four nights a week and pretending to have no interest in sex with her will cause her worry enough.

[Suits]

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I have heard close friends say things like: ‘I feel so bad for John — we hardly ever have sex.’
Well, I don’t feel bad for my partner and neither should they. You might be married but you did not sign over the rights to your body.

If loving and unrestricted sex isn't on the table, then I am never getting married.

Why take on all the risk involved in marriage if I still have to beat off in the shower to take the edge off?

Hell, as a single male with a harem consisting of 3-5 women at any time (with one night stand interspersed from time to time whenever I want them - I have a 1:2 successful bang ratio from online dating), I can't imagine locking myself into a exclusive sexual relationship for life with a woman who doesn't plan on ensuring that my balls stay drained.

Anything less than that is an insult to the reality of my value on the sexual marketplace.

Honestly, what is she bringing to the table that's a replacement for my entire sex life if she isn't putting out at least every other day?

[da_zeb]

Here's her blog (complete with email) if anyone wants to test the theory that she's looking for something on the side.

http://handfulofhalfpennys.co.uk/contact-me/

[Buakaw]

From the look of it you would almost think he was the one that had gone through 4 pregnancies

[RoastBeefCurtains4Me]

While she's mostly being called out as a bitch and a feminist, I find her attractive, and think she has lovely children. The guy is unfortunely a poster child for a blue pill AFC.

She needs a strong husband to provide balls, leadership, and amused dominance. She needs him to give her some rough sex. Its extremely unfortunate that he doesnt know this.

Frankly, I think she is good wife material in principle, but he has squandered her potential. If they're 26 and she has 4 kids by him, she married young, and spent a limited time on the carousel before him. She wanted to get married, make babies, and be a housewife. She picked a man she throught would be a good husband. He's been a good provider, but failed at being the man she needed

I don't fully blame him, be cause he was following a lying script, but I can't blame her either. I blame the lying script society told them both.

[HankMoody]

You know what's tough about being single, having no kids, owning a big house, having some money, being self employed, and being moderately good looking in your 30s?

NOTHING! :-D

[HankMoody]

Also, she messed up by having kids with a feminine man. Dude needs to lift some weights and eat some steaks.

[TeutonicKnight]

Well, what really worries me that one of the children could be his. I hope she fucked on the side and got some good alpha genes with high T. She has the slut face to do it. He got children but his sons might be not so lucky. And for the girls, I hope the genes of their father do not fuck up their metabolism. If the girls turn out ugly she will make his life a living hell, nothing is a crueler to mother than ugly doughters.

[kaotic]

(02-18-2016 09:47 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I'd guess he has some kind of undiagnosed hormonal disorder.

Yeah it's IDontLiftItis

[RexImperator]

(02-19-2016 12:33 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-18-2016 09:47 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I'd guess he has some kind of undiagnosed hormonal disorder.

Yeah it's IDontLiftItis

Lifting is good but doesn't solve everything...he could have a glandular problem

[Comte De St. Germain]

I'm always the guy complaining that men are the reason society is what it is today.

That guy is the poster child for the kind of man who fucked things up.

[kaotic]

You're right hwuzhere - we're mostly at fault for letting us get to this level.

We brought this upon ourselves, but only we can clean it up.

Shitty things is - there is a small (but growing) number of men who want to help clean this mess up.

Yet, most men have their balls lopped off by society and women.

[eatthishomie]

Well we're also being literally poisoned. Estrogenic chemicals in the water, plastic, household products, birth control compounds in the water, soy in our food.

That's a lot harder to fight against but is possible.

[Clockwerk]

His obesity and her frigidity are outward expressions of a long-standing rift between them.

So much of this is about expectations. A co-worker from India is going back there for three weeks and when he's back he'll be married via arrangement by his and her parents. With Western marriages like these, how is an arranged marriage such a ridiculous idea anymore?

[n0000]

(02-19-2016 08:56 PM)Clockwerk Wrote:  

His obesity and her frigidity are outward expressions of a long-standing rift between them.

So much of this is about expectations. A co-worker from India is going back there for three weeks and when he's back he'll be married via arrangement by his and her parents. With Western marriages like these, how is an arranged marriage such a ridiculous idea anymore?

That is a good question. Traditions like those of marriage in India and to a lesser extent China as still in force because they WORK. Tradition is the accumulation of good ideas passed down from one generation to the next. In America parents are almost never involved in who their kids marry, even though it affects them greatly long term. In India they arrange everything, and the kid gives a thumbs up or thumbs down. There has to be a middle ground. Good advice and some subtle matchmaking will be what my kids have in store for them. I want beautiful grandkids and stable familes. I also have a pretty good idea of the type of man/woman who is marriage material.

[Captainstabbin]

(02-19-2016 09:28 PM)n0000 Wrote:  

(02-19-2016 08:56 PM)Clockwerk Wrote:  

His obesity and her frigidity are outward expressions of a long-standing rift between them.

So much of this is about expectations. A co-worker from India is going back there for three weeks and when he's back he'll be married via arrangement by his and her parents. With Western marriages like these, how is an arranged marriage such a ridiculous idea anymore?

That is a good question. Traditions like those of marriage in India and to a lesser extent China as still in force because they WORK. Tradition is the accumulation of good ideas passed down from one generation to the next. In America parents are almost never involved in who their kids marry, even though it affects them greatly long term. In India they arrange everything, and the kid gives a thumbs up or thumbs down. There has to be a middle ground. Good advice and some subtle matchmaking will be what my kids have in store for them. I want beautiful grandkids and stable familes. I also have a pretty good idea of the type of man/woman who is marriage material.

Would you listen to your parents if they told you the girl you're "in love" with wasn't marriage material and you should move on?

[eatthishomie]

(02-19-2016 08:56 PM)Clockwerk Wrote:  

His obesity and her frigidity are outward expressions of a long-standing rift between them.

You can tell by looking at her that she has to be the man of the house and she's unhappy about that.

[Tytalus]

I agree with 4 children 4 years and under... unless you have an army of night time nannies and wetnurses... (which, what, 0.001% of the world has?) NO ONE will be having much sex at that point in their lives.

However - her blatant disgust for him is troubling. I say this man hasn't just let himself go, I think he likely has a health problem that is not being dealt with probably and getting fat and blubbery is an excuse to hide it.

[Praetor Lupus]

The impression I get is that he gets an erection - all four inches of it - whenever he hears someone mention the film Raging Bull.

It's a shame, and no doubt he must be asking himself why his beloved finds him so repulsive when he is, by received 'wisdom', a 'good' man.

Let us hope he finds his way to a resource that will help him see the light. With a skilled career and a reasonably hot wife, he should be crushing shit.

[eatthishomie]

He isn't crushing a damn thing until he does some serious lifting and a round or three of RFL.

[porscheguy]

How many of you guys would want to fuck the female equivalent of him? Take a woman and add 60-70lbs to her body. Make her look androgynous as fuck, and put her in poor fitting clothes.

Marriage is a partnership of sorts. You strive for 50/50, but sometimes it's 90/10.

Her problem is that it would appear she is uncompromising in her belief that she shouldn't have to fuck if she doesn't want to fuck. It doesn't really work out that way. Sometimes you might not be into it, but sometimes you need to go ahead and do it as part of your marriage maintenance. And you have to do it with some convincing enthusiasm. Shit, anyone who has had a harem knows that sometimes you've got to break off your number 3 bitch and give her some extra attention even if you're not feeling it on that night. You can blow them off up to a point, but if you want to keep them around, you've got to reward their loyalty.

With that said, one look at the guy tells me everything I need to know. Her attitude stems from the fact that she finds him utterly repulsive. And she's justified. HE IS A REPULSIVE AND DISGUSTING CREATURE Even in his younger picture, he clearly looked low T. And now, as others have pointed out, he looks like a middle aged lesbian. And he's only 26 or 27. If he continues on this path, he might be dead within a decade. He just looks like someone with dangerously low T levels. But a doctor can correct that. And in Europe, surprisingly the medical community isn't as apprehensive putting men on T replacement therapy as they are in the US. That alone would jump start his weight loss.

If you read her blog, she comes off as quite a cunt. She and her readers are all clueless in thinking that their husbands enjoy celibacy. Most likely, their husbands feel trapped, and if they act nice, they'll get some pity pussy that these women have no intention of giving up. But again, women are naturally followers, and their attitudes are shaped by the cards they think they've been dealt. She looks at that overweight androgynous drone, and it's not hard for her to decide she'll never fuck him. Send him to the gym, put him on T therapy, get him to flirt with a few other women, and she'll become quite eager to jump on his dick again.