I'm writing this post with my jaw still on the floor and my mind spinning in utter disbelief.
I've been gaming this girl (9 on my scale, early twenties, tight body.. the works). During an early interaction, she tells me she just broke up with her boyfriend but still has feelings for him, blah blah blah. I don't care, still want to hit it.
I get her back to my place one night, have a few drinks, and secure multiple bangs. We keep hanging out, doing fun shit together, and lots of amazing sex. I'm using all the proven tenets of game to keep her coming back for more (push/pull, aloofness, feigning a little vulnerability at times, humor, etc). I'm cool, confident, and calibrated. This goes on for a few weeks. Over the course of everything she still brings up her ex boyfriend a lot. It's obvious she misses him.
Every time she leaves, I'm always thinking to myself, "who is this cat that has her hooked so completely, that she can't take her mind off of him? He must have some serious alpha qualities on a level that I have not yet shown her. I have work to do." In a sense, I'm imagining Chad Thundercock is my rival in this situation. He has to be a serious badass to have a girl this hot so completely hooked on him. Makes sense right?
Recently I found out who this guy is, and the feeling I had is almost indescribable. It was like having the wind knocked out of me and a complete mind fuck boiling over with denial all at the same time.
I know this guy. I've had beers with him. I've met him at house parties. I've coached him at the bar when he was too nervous to approach a 7, literally shaking from anxiety. He's not fit. He's a scrawny, socially awkward beta in every sense of the word.
Knowing everything I've learned about women, especially very attractive women, and my SMV compared to his, I can't process how something like this is possible.
Is everything I've learned about game, alpha vs beta, the allure of "bad boys" to attractive women, etc. being called into question from this experience? I refuse to believe that. Something else has to be in play here..
What am I not seeing?
Edit: Realizing that this may sound far-fetched, I felt like I should say that this is NOT a troll post
I've been gaming this girl (9 on my scale, early twenties, tight body.. the works). During an early interaction, she tells me she just broke up with her boyfriend but still has feelings for him, blah blah blah. I don't care, still want to hit it.
I get her back to my place one night, have a few drinks, and secure multiple bangs. We keep hanging out, doing fun shit together, and lots of amazing sex. I'm using all the proven tenets of game to keep her coming back for more (push/pull, aloofness, feigning a little vulnerability at times, humor, etc). I'm cool, confident, and calibrated. This goes on for a few weeks. Over the course of everything she still brings up her ex boyfriend a lot. It's obvious she misses him.
Every time she leaves, I'm always thinking to myself, "who is this cat that has her hooked so completely, that she can't take her mind off of him? He must have some serious alpha qualities on a level that I have not yet shown her. I have work to do." In a sense, I'm imagining Chad Thundercock is my rival in this situation. He has to be a serious badass to have a girl this hot so completely hooked on him. Makes sense right?
Recently I found out who this guy is, and the feeling I had is almost indescribable. It was like having the wind knocked out of me and a complete mind fuck boiling over with denial all at the same time.
I know this guy. I've had beers with him. I've met him at house parties. I've coached him at the bar when he was too nervous to approach a 7, literally shaking from anxiety. He's not fit. He's a scrawny, socially awkward beta in every sense of the word.
Knowing everything I've learned about women, especially very attractive women, and my SMV compared to his, I can't process how something like this is possible.
Is everything I've learned about game, alpha vs beta, the allure of "bad boys" to attractive women, etc. being called into question from this experience? I refuse to believe that. Something else has to be in play here..
What am I not seeing?
Edit: Realizing that this may sound far-fetched, I felt like I should say that this is NOT a troll post