I've been procrastinating about actually making approaches since reading Bang a few weeks ago, so I'm gonna start this thread to keep myself accountable (also I had a funny approach that I thought was worth sharing this morning)
So, here it is:
Approach #16-
(I show up at the Docs to get some blood drawn and the phlebotomist is cute-ish)
Me-How's your day starting?
Her-great so far, yours?
Me- you want me to flex? (she's looking for a vein)
Her- NO! that makes it harder.
Me- Damn, I LIKE flexing. After you're done maybe?
Her- haha
Various other stories, she chats a bit, lingers
Me- Give me your phone number, we should get coffee.
Her- But your records say you're married.
Me- I can keep a secret, can you?
Her- (laughs) no thanks... smiles
Me- Have a great one.
Cracked me up because just last night I was reading another thread about how often women use "I'm married." But, I was proud of my response. kept my frame.
So, here it is:
Approach #16-
(I show up at the Docs to get some blood drawn and the phlebotomist is cute-ish)
Me-How's your day starting?
Her-great so far, yours?
Me- you want me to flex? (she's looking for a vein)
Her- NO! that makes it harder.
Me- Damn, I LIKE flexing. After you're done maybe?
Her- haha
Various other stories, she chats a bit, lingers
Me- Give me your phone number, we should get coffee.
Her- But your records say you're married.
Me- I can keep a secret, can you?
Her- (laughs) no thanks... smiles
Me- Have a great one.
Cracked me up because just last night I was reading another thread about how often women use "I'm married." But, I was proud of my response. kept my frame.
"I remember reading an article from the NY Times, where women made significantly more money than their husbands - and one wife was like, "I made 7 figures this year and he stayed home, I'm not sucking his dick" - WIA