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02-11-2019, 05:52 AM
Literally no idea why you keep posting that your ex contacts you and you continue reply, of all places in the no contact thread.
The simplest explanation I can come up with is that it makes you feel good and broadcasting this to other people also makes you feel good.
Stop replying.
You are holding yourself back.
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02-11-2019, 06:29 PM
This is the No Contact thread, not the oneitis thread.
You got back in touch and it didn't work. She's got multiple options and you're the one posting about her on the net.
"i was honest from the start on how things would go and I wasn't looking for a relationship of any kind."
Do you guys ever read what you post?
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02-18-2019, 07:09 PM
Good.
Have you deleted her number, deleted her off social media, etc?
It's always easy to just remember the good times when you see a chick's social media because rarely people post about bad times going in their life and it's easy contact them. The number. That's self explanatory.
Get some new damn pussy too. That always helps.
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02-23-2019, 06:23 AM
Stay strong, brother.
Don't fall for her bullshit ever again and don't make up with her. Such behavior on her part is unacceptable and could only get worse - a GF who goes out clubbing without telling you has no respect for you and would probably cheat on you.
Just smash 10 others and you'll wonder how did you ever even think about getting back to her.
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02-26-2019, 01:04 PM
There is a woman who I knew through social circle and was trying to monkey branch to me when our marriages were crumbling. Well I didn't choose her and she has tried to "paint me black" for the last 3 years. After one of her outbursts I blocked her on all social media, and I called her out on her shit when she painted me unfavorably in a group. I do not respond to any of her actions or comments in the group
She lives in the same city as the woman I've been seeing for the last 3 years. I don't believe they know each other. I've been worried she would speak ill of me to my woman. Now that time has gone by, I'm hoping she has other things to focus on.
Here is the situation. In 10 days, I will be going to a store where she works to rent Snowshoes. They are the only source of rental snowshoes, and i'm trying to determine how I play it if these two women meet.
What if she makes a comment painting me in a bad light?
What if she tries to befriend my woman and undermine my image?
Most of all I'm worried that she might portray me as a friend, and my woman will ask why I've never told her about this strange woman up the street....
How do you handle this?
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02-27-2019, 12:27 PM
Ok, will stop contacting this girl (and be to needy over whatsapp in general).
I feel my live with girls could probably be summarized:
1)I really like a girl, I CARE TO MUCH, I text a lot, become a bit needy ---> Easiest way to lose all attraction from her part (I do this unintentionally, it's a bit of a problem. At least now I know it's there).
2) I don't care that much, there is interest, they engage, ask questions about my life. Need to take action or contact fades away, or they move to the first category.
Anyway, just texted this girl yesterday ''I am going to visit your country, booked my tickets'' and her reply was ''how good''. Then I asked ''are you angry or something'' (never ask this, I know), and she says no. So it's just disinterest. Going to stop texting her, and see if she replies. If not, all is good. It's been a learning experience.
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03-06-2019, 10:11 PM
Posted on here about a month ago...officially made it one month with no contact! It’s tough no doubt, but honestly after the first week it became a hell of a lot easier.
A good trick ive done is put all the negative things about your ex into a note in your phone. When you get tempted to text, call, or look at social media...just read that and it’ll dissuade you and the moment will pass.
Stay strong guys.