Quote: (01-15-2017 06:27 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:
I've called my old LTR twice over the past 24 hours asking for a chance to "talk civilly" to at least help give me closure.
Imma need people to reinvigorate this thread, cause boy do I need it right now...
"Closure" is not something men need. What you are actually doing is trying to get at her and hopefully revive the relationship and see if you can milk anything that could still be there because you miss her and the comfortability and security that the relationship gave you. Hoping to romance and/or guilt her into going back to you.
Truth is you need to cut her out as fast as humanly possible. The colder and faster the better. She needs to be dead to you for you to move on (and moving on is exactly what you have to do). None of this prolonged contact and dragging shit out. It's over. That's all the "closure" you need.
I don't know how things with you and her ended, but they did end and thats the only piece of information that is important.
There are billions of other women out there, and tons of them are going to be better for you than your ex.