Quote: (06-28-2017 09:08 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:
First thing I notice about all the older dudes that are in here, is that they ALL have a belly.
Second thing, is that they are ALL wearing some funny looking golf shirt or plaid shirt or their style is lacking.
The only way you are meeting these young chicks, is if you are in their faces. Daygame, daygame, daygame and more daygame.
Have any of you guys interacted with young dudes? Excluding the young ones that are on this forum of course.
Man these kids are on a different universe, I will leave it at that.
It would nice if we could combine this thread with the Over 40+ thread.
Those are all solid points and must-haves if you want a good chance to get with young girls.
First off, good suggestion would be to avoid all fried foods and any foods with high saturated fat(unsaturated is ok). Also avoid all pop and any sugary drinks, especially with high fructose corn syrup as a sweetner as those are the type that stays in your body longer and converts into fat easily. Try to eat as little processed foods as possible. Most foods should be naturally made. It helps in this arena if you do have some money as a lot of the fancier places have fresher ingredients and is made from scratch rather than processed.
Second, If you're not used to working out or just feel you don't have a lot of time, start with the basics of push-ups every other day. Run on the off days you're not doing pushups. You don't have to run long distances, just start off with a 1/2 mile minimum. If you're not an endurance guy, just do a couple 1/2 mile stints and increase. Or do one 1/2 mile stint to get everything loosened up and do half dozen sprints. Every body type is different and people will get different results but the reason why I didn't mention sit-ups is that sit-ups tend to BUILD or bulk up the stomach muscle. If you're not losing the fat first, your stomach will actually seem bigger as the bigger stomach muscle will also push out the fat further, giving you the appearance of a bigger belly. Once you start losing the belly fat, then you can start on the various styles of sit-ups to further tone your muscles.
Third, you wanna dress a bit edgey. Everyone can wear the same crap as a plain polo and stuff. The biggest thing these days is "Slim Fit", "Stretch", "Smaller Sizing", "Tapered", "Skinny", "Taylored", "Fitted". These are all words used in the young man's vocabulary to describe clothing these days.
Throw out all your pants and shirts, even the ones that feel like they fit good and tight. The cut and design of the pants/shirts these days are way different. Look for "Slim Fit" clothing. They'll say it right on the label. Go shop where all the young guys shop. You don't have to spend a fortune to look good. No young girls these days checks out labels or are that brand concious like they were when we were growing up.
In fact, I've gotten the majority of my clothes at places like Marshalls, TJ Maxx, Burlington(my fav). You can go to places like Hollister, H&M, etc but then you may not be as unique IMO.
Next you gotta work on your social attitude and conversation. Try hanging out at bars after work hours during the week and converse and befriend the young guys. That's the only way you get an insight into how the younger generations thinks and what kinds of things they prioritize. Don't do this on a weekend as all the young bucks are trying to game and don't wanna be bothered.
I tried conversing when I first started with young gals in their 20's and literally it's like they are on another planet.
Pull up iTunes chart toppers and listen to some songs, watch youtube vids on them, read gossip news on them. You don't need to spend too much time but just enough to start topics on and then you let the girl ramble on. I've been experimenting with concert game(dunno if there is such a thing). But I like going to concerts and I'll buy up tickets to various ones including young groups. This is a good way to dangle that carrot in front a gal.
Lastly, the ONLY way to get young gals(in their early 20's) if you are over 40 is to daygame IMO.