[Hairz]

Girl from social circle in salsa. A 7ish brunette. She's 28.
She knows I like her because I asked her out few months back and she was "no looking for anything" at the time. She gave me few interest indicators recently.

Went to a social event and knew she'd be there. Both of us were drinking. We danced a little. She danced with random guy who asked if we were together and she told me that and I asked her what she told him and she was like "I told him you're with me". I kissed her neck few times when we danced up close and then kissed her lips and she giggled. Then she said that she's not looking for anything to which I said that "Don't worry im not gonna marry you just yet".
Then she danced with some guy and made a sorry fave when he led her away. Later on she asked if she could dance with another guy.
Towards the end when I was about to leave I danced one last time and wanted another kiss and she said "not when dancing" so I didn't get to kiss her.
Also throughout the dancing few times she took my hand off her waist when we were dancing, I wasn't grabbing her ass or boobs or anything just the waist (songs were fairly slow).

Next day at 11pm she msged me about some random bs:
Her: are you hung over after yday? It was a fun night!
Her: I just had a double shift and feel horrible. But it was worth it since I got £90 in tips!

I didn't reply to it since I was out at the time and didn't wanna occupy my mind with her plus her behaviour was rather annoying the previous night.

She msged me again 2 days later
Her: are you OK? There are some funny pics from Friday on fb. Don't dare to tag some of them lol!
Me: yeah I saw them. I'm OK too.
Her: will u be at salsa on Tuesday?
Me: might come for the social but last week was uite bad so don't know
Her: yeah it wasn't so busy... Im at York all day but I think I'll be there for 8 pm class.
Me: (ok thumb)

Wtf is she playing at? Obviously I'd like to bang her but she seems like she's hard to get OR is she just attention seeking? Oh and my bro was there on Friday when I kissed her and he saw everything and was like "wtf is up with this girl" and was surprised when she was asking if she could dance with the guy so I'm not making it up and seeming like she was looking for my approval to dance with guys.

[Prof. Ligate]

Seems like you're holding off on the trigger. Strike while the irons hot man - could have taken her home at the social event or whatever.

Invite her back to your place or for a drink after class.

[Prof. Ligate]

Thinking way too much without any action

[Dalaran1991]

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Girl from social circle in salsa. A 7ish brunette. She's 28.

Stopped reading after this.

Having learned and practiced game exclusively in salsa circles, I know all too well how it is with sal-slut girls. They are there for the attention and an alternative to sex. Most of them already have a boyfriend that they dont intend to leave, and are just trying to feel sexy with other men.

If she is very new to salsa, go ahead and ask her out. Other than that, you need to be able to pull off triple-spin dilequeno with an acrobatic finish to have a chance.

PM me or JayJuanJee if you want to discuss more.

[birthday cat]

strike 1 - what Dalarin1991 said ^
strike 2 - it appears that she is 28, British, and works in the service industry
strike 3 - you know the rule about "if you have to ask about a specific girl"

It isn't looking too good.

Talk to more girls.

If you can't move on then talk to more girls in front of her and eventually say something like "let's go for drinks after salsa" or reply to one of her texts with "let's meet for drinks on Tuesday".

A short text message is the maximum effort you should make with this girl. No effort would probably be better.

(12-01-2015 10:36 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

Most of them already have a boyfriend that they dont intend to leave, and are just trying to feel sexy with other men.

If she doesn't have a boyfriend then she is banging at least one of her coworkers.

I've converted a couple of girls who were this annoying. I probably could have used that time to convert 2 girls who were better looking and less annoying.

[birthday cat]

(12-01-2015 06:25 AM)Hairz Wrote:  

She msged me again 2 days later
Her: are you OK? There are some funny pics from Friday on fb. Don't dare to tag some of them lol!
Me: yeah I saw them. I'm OK too.
Her: will u be at salsa on Tuesday?
Me: might come for the social but last week was uite bad so don't know
Her: yeah it wasn't so busy... Im at York all day but I think I'll be there for 8 pm class.
Me: (ok thumb)

What do you guys think about girls starting text conversations like this?

I've found that when a girl is interested in me and starts texting me after we haven't talked in a few days - her messages are usually very simple like "hi" or "hello :-)" or maybe "how are you". Her texts suggest that she is reminding me about her and wants me to engage her in conversation.

But texts like "There are some funny pics from Friday on fb. Don't dare to tag some of them lol!" are more like how a girl talks to her friends.

[Hairz]

I'm not attached to her guys. Last week Tuesday a salsa I was chatting to few girls. With 1 in particular I chatted for like 15min. This girl was in my vicinity few times throughout the whole night. She doesn't know the other girl well so didn't join us bit I could see she wanted attention. Not to mention that she's all tense when she dances with me.

In an case no care, meeting a 6 face 8 bod romanian tonite.

Birthdaycat- she's a waitress so probably gets plenty of customer cock.