Quote: (07-09-2015 03:07 AM)h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
Quote: (07-09-2015 02:59 AM)Nord Wrote:
If you're not a natural then it would take a lot of practice. Its more a personality thing, a natural response. If you don't have that wit then its going to take a long time to change your natural responses and thought process. Its not something thats a script to follow/things to remember. Its you as a person that has to change.
I used to be incapable of talking to people. I used to dress like a serial killer.
Through willpower, study, trial and error, I've learned to make friends, get laid, dress well, and generally become better.
Fuck your negativity. Nothing that's worth doing is easy. I want to be better. Don't tell me it's going to be hard to learn, I don't care. If you have a key to understanding this shit, I'm asking for it. I'll put in the hard work to make it happen. Otherwise fuck off.
Edit: Look at the third post on this thread by samsamsam. He said sort of the same thing as you which leads me to believe he's a 'natural'. But he also gave some advice on how to improve. Learn from his post.
Whoa whoa there buddy, I think you are
really misreading the tone of my post, and you're over reacting. Maybe its because I'm writing in a direct style, and it wasn't meant to be prescriptive, more a statement of fact.
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
I used to be incapable of talking to people
Used to be? ....I kid. But man, chill out.
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
Through willpower, study, trial and error I've generally become better.
Which is exactly what I said is necessary, thus, obviously possible : "
it would take a lot of practice." "
Its you as a person that has to change"
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
Fuck your negativity
Where is that part, exactly?
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
Nothing that's worth doing is easy
So you acknowledge that it "
would take a lot of practice" and "
its going to take a long time to change your natural responses and thought process" - IE
Hard work.. which isn't being "negative" obviously, because you agree with me that hard work is required and something worth doing.
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
Don't tell me it's going to be hard to learn, I don't care.
Right before this you said
nothing thats worth doing is easy so not sure why you'd be upset at hearing it, and more importantly I'm not telling
you anything, again I do not understand why you think I'm responding to you personally.
Quote:h3ltrsk3ltr Wrote:
If you have a key to understanding this shit, I'm asking for it. Otherwise fuck off
Again, why do you think I'm talking to
you. You're not the OP, and I'm not quoting you. And who are you to demand and dictate what can or can not be said. I'm not here for you. If you don't find what I say valuable then move on. But don't make stuff up and attack out of nowhere.
All you're doing is projecting your pre-exiting anger and angst on to me. Nothing I said is "negative".
If this is how you regularly act then you still have a long way to go.