[Days of Broken Arrows]

Look at the bright side. It'd be a real problem if your girlfriend had caught you having sex.

Anyway, can't you just tell your sister it wasn't you?

[jSinSaTx]

From my understanding of the issue an apology would be warranted. I gather you do not live there, but took your girl to someone else's home. Knowing the values they have, you behaved in the manner you chose. Have sex at your own place. If you live there and do not like the culture then move. Independent people get to make choices.

You do not have to agree with someone's value system to be respectful. Time and place.

[RawGod]

So you have a 23 year old virgin sister? Is she hot? If so I'd be happy to have a one on one meeting with her on your behalf.

[samsamsam]

(06-23-2015 07:13 PM)jSinSaTx Wrote:  

From my understanding of the issue an apology would be warranted. I gather you do not live there, but took your girl to someone else's home. Knowing the values they have, you behaved in the manner you chose. Have sex at your own place. If you live there and do not like the culture then move. Independent people get to make choices.

You do not have to agree with someone's value system to be respectful. Time and place.

Give it some time. She is just really pissed at the moment. Let it be for a bit.

But I can see what sinsatx is saying. You went to a place that you do not live. You know the values of the people who live there. And you didn't care. Whatever happens do not think you are the victim in this matter. You chose to take a series of actions. Yes, it would have been great if she didn't check on what was going on. But you still took the actions you took knowing how your family is at their place.

Look it is great that you are such a player etc. But that never means you can disrespect others. Let me rephrase you can disrespect all you want but you cannot think there are no consequences for your actions.

In some ways I imagine you were hoping to get caught. Thinking it would be a great way to fuck with your sister. Caring for people in your life doesn't mean disrespecting their viewpoints or stomping on things that are important to them.

Not trying to rain on your parade OP. Just trying to give you a different perspective. Best of luck on trying to rebuild your relationship.

[philosophical_recovery]

(06-23-2015 07:23 PM)RawGod Wrote:  

So you have a 23 year old virgin sister? Is she hot? If so I'd be happy to have a one on one meeting with her on your behalf.

[Rutting Elephant]

(06-23-2015 02:06 PM)Dr. Poonfiddle Wrote:  

have yourself the obligatory post-coital peanutbutter sandwich to replenish your nuts

Middle school playground theory of sperm production.

[Sooth]

Not sure exactly what you ought to do but you want to keep on good terms with her. It's gonna be hard for her if shes always looked up to you.

I've never got on well with my sister and it's not something I'm proud of.

[SunW]

Sorry to hear; having a fight with a sibling sucks, as we know that blood is thicker than water. I'm somewhat new to game, so I accept that men and women think and behave differently, but not exactly sure how this always translates across male-female relationships (or if it's always the same) like FB, GF, sister, mother, etc. One of the blogs in the manosphere that seems to be the most aware of the family structure and game is Dalrock, and you might ask him for advice on his blog for advice. He's also writes from a religious point of view, so he may know more about where your sister is coming from. I also think samsamsam's comment is right on.

Keep this updated though, because I highly value my relationships with my siblings and I wouldn't want to burn a bridge with them, so I know that I'd feel pretty upset if something came between two of us.

[The Beast1]

Move out of the house. Their house, their rules.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

Relax - she will calm down. She is a woman and she behaves irrationally.

She will calm down and see it for what it was - nothing important.