So an Italian hedge fund guy finds American too demanding.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/italian-he...12002.html
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/italian-he...12002.html
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:18 PM)djk100 Wrote:
So an Italian hedge fund guy finds American too demanding.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/italian-he...12002.html
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I have to say that even though I'm also an American woman, I am surprised at how harshly spoken and hard that many of us are getting. I'm constantly shocked by it. It's a terrible way to represent ourselves. Many of our soft feminine and gentle sides have disappeared and been replaced by brash, profane, demanding and loud women. I don't blame him for making the statement. I am quite able to be assertive while still maintaining my femininity and kindness. It would be wonderful if women could remember our feminine side, not just men!
Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
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I have to say that even though I'm also an American woman, I am surprised at how harshly spoken and hard that many of us are getting. I'm constantly shocked by it. It's a terrible way to represent ourselves. Many of our soft feminine and gentle sides have disappeared and been replaced by brash, profane, demanding and loud women. I don't blame him for making the statement. I am quite able to be assertive while still maintaining my femininity and kindness. It would be wonderful if women could remember our feminine side, not just men!
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:18 PM)djk100 Wrote:
So an Italian hedge fund guy finds American too demanding.
http://finance.yahoo.com/news/italian-he...12002.html
1000+ comments, landslide in agreement and the women's comments are 1/3 agreement 2/3's bitter as fuck not bad for a 2 paragraph article. I think it helps putting the hamster wheel in overdrive when a rich, handsome, Italian wet dream bad mouths them. This one comment is from a logical woman:
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I have to say that even though I'm also an American woman, I am surprised at how harshly spoken and hard that many of us are getting. I'm constantly shocked by it. It's a terrible way to represent ourselves. Many of our soft feminine and gentle sides have disappeared and been replaced by brash, profane, demanding and loud women. I don't blame him for making the statement. I am quite able to be assertive while still maintaining my femininity and kindness. It would be wonderful if women could remember our feminine side, not just men!
I had to think, for 3 different American girls I've dated I have blurted out multiple times "can't you just be nice?" They can't handle that, although it piques their interest that you are saying you are better than them in an indirect way.
Quote: (06-17-2015 09:19 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
It's official. These bitches are dead. But, their legacy lives on:
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Quote: (06-17-2015 12:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
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...It would be wonderful if women could remember our feminine side, not just men!
Just a minor observation but do you think she is saying men have become pussies? The not just men part caught me.
Quote: (06-18-2015 12:55 AM)JWLZG Wrote:
I'm aware the forum has a general disdain for novels, but I recall reading the following line (paraphrased) from Archangel by Robert Harris and realised this could've been today:
"He saw that the boys had become girls and the girls had become whores."
O Tempora, O Mores.
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
I had to think, for 3 different American girls I've dated I have blurted out multiple times "can't you just be nice?" They can't handle that, although it piques their interest that you are saying you are better than them in an indirect way.
Quote: (06-18-2015 02:38 AM)CRR Wrote:
Quote: (06-17-2015 12:32 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
I had to think, for 3 different American girls I've dated I have blurted out multiple times "can't you just be nice?" They can't handle that, although it piques their interest that you are saying you are better than them in an indirect way.
So very true.
I've long said that in addition to being so fat and/or ugly, that being so unpleasant is as big a problem with so many American women.
Regarding this article, it was forwarded to me today at work by a friend. My first thought was "I look forward to getting home and seeing it on RVF". You fellas didn't disappoint.
My friend also pointed out how my last two LTRs were with women not born in the US. One arrived in her early teens, the other in her late teens. I'm surprised I didn't think of this before.
As I've mentioned before, people have commented to me that I like 'ethnic' women. It's not that I like ethnic women, I like non-cunty, non-ugly women. One of me ex-gfs came from Europe, she just had a pleasant disposition, feminine demeanor, and great body.
I think American women simply underestimate how being pleasant is an attractive quality. It doesn't quite do for us what money does for a guy, where it can turn an otherwise unattractive guy into a ladies man, but they should think along those lines. Instead, they adopt what they think are attractive masculine qualities (cockiness, aggressiveness) and insist that men like them for it. Try to tell them that men and women are different, and all of a sudden you are a sexist who is "mansplaining" and can't handle their independence.
It's interesting to see countless articles about the decline in marriage in America, and they always focus on the men. As I've mentioned countless times, the biggest reason is there are simply so many unmarriageable women. I don't care about your career, if you're an unpleasant, unattractive cunt, the last thing I'm thinking about is marriage. I'm running for the hills.
Quote: (06-18-2015 09:42 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
Great points, as always CRR. But I want to make one modification: I think American women simply *don't understand at all* how being pleasant is an attractive quality and how being a bitch causes ruined lives, wrecked relationships, and limp dicks.
When women see a buff guy who speaks with a lisp and runs away scared of mice, they are instinctively repulsed. "Sex and the City" even did a segment on this. Women like men with manly, not feminine, qualities.
Similarly, when men meet sarcastic bitches, they're instinctively repulsed. If I want someone to give me shit, I'll go to a boss or a trainer. That's not the quality I seek in a mate.
The million dollar question is: Why are parents, school, and the media teaching women that bitchiness is a good quality and being pleasant is bad? It sure as hell wasn't this was 50 years ago, judging from the media then.