[CaptainCrazy]

(06-10-2015 12:49 AM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

The sex should be about pleasing the woman.

This is exactly what turns bitches off. The pleasing man.

[Jetlagged]

(06-10-2015 11:46 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(06-10-2015 09:26 PM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

(06-10-2015 09:03 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

Spit in her mouth.

I read fisto saying this in a post a while back. I still can't bring myself to do it. That shit is disgusting and degrading. I swear I could punch a bitch for that if she did it to me.

I think I found my line lol.

I guess everyone has their line but for me I have no problem with it, especially when there are dudes out there eating ass. I would much rather just spit in her mouth.

I've eaten ass before and I would do it again if the conditions were right circumstancially. Who knows maybe I'll try it.

(06-10-2015 11:54 PM)CaptainCrazy Wrote:  

(06-10-2015 12:49 AM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

The sex should be about pleasing the woman.

This is exactly what turns bitches off. The pleasing man.

Maybe youre misunderstanding what I'm saying? If you're fucking a woman just to get a nut, then you're probably not doing a good job. What i meant about pleasing the woman is give her as many orgasms as possible and pay attention to what LS turning her on and do more of that, instead of just thinking about your nut.

It was also in response to someone who said they have a hard time caring about more than their nut.

[Saweeep]

I once had a bitch spit back at me after I spat in her mouth.

It was a challenge.

I slapped her so hard around the face, whilst still fucking her, that I felt her pussy gush.

Good times.

[MatineeMan]

Kinging.

[Brodiaga]

Shit in her mouth.

[MikeS]

(06-10-2015 11:46 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(06-10-2015 09:26 PM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

(06-10-2015 09:03 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

Spit in her mouth.

I read fisto saying this in a post a while back. I still can't bring myself to do it. That shit is disgusting and degrading. I swear I could punch a bitch for that if she did it to me.

I think I found my line lol.

I guess everyone has their line but for me I have no problem with it, especially when there are dudes out there eating ass. I would much rather just spit in her mouth.

I pass on both. Spitting has always just seemed a bit disgusting to me, sexual or otherwise.
Speaking of non-sexual spitting I've always figured that guys who walk around spitting on the street for no apparent reason (fortunately most stop that after their teenage years) either have a rare condition causing excessive amounts of saliva, or they are just fucking morons.

I can see how spitting can serve a dominant (or lubricating) part of sex though, but it's one of those things I personally find gross and a massive turn off. Just like I'd have to be paid a large sum of money up front to even consider sucking on or licking a woman's toes (just the mental image makes my stomach turn) even if I've just seen her scrub them vigorously in the shower a moment before. Making her suck on my toes would be only marginally less revolting to me.

I stick to the moves I like doing rather than attempt to force myself to do something she may enjoy but which diminish my own enjoyment.

[s3k]

While fucking (stop dead and look a bitch in her face and tell her) "i'm gonna cum deep inside of you". Bitchs LOVE THIS. This served me for two purposes
#1 to get a condom off i did not want on
#2 to gauge her reaction (even if i had no intention of doing so)
About 90% go buck wild and start begging for your seeds up in her. This must be done right though.
After stating ur going too don't give her time to answer, just grab her hair and fuck the shit out of her. THAN gauge her reaction. Even a no girl will beg for it if done right.
I've had a vasectomy b4 anyone asks lol.

[youngblazer]

Here's something a little more basic...

Make sure you are constantly making pleasure noises (moans, groans, growls "oh fuuuck that feels good baby" etc) during sex. This in itself is a dominant move, because you are reveling in your pleasure and letting her know it.

And the more "into it" you act, the more she will please you to make you react bigger and louder. It's a win-win.

[PhDre]

(06-09-2015 02:42 PM)Repo Wrote:  

Also, after you go down on her, stick your tongue deep down her throat and tell her to suck her juices off. Not all girls will like this one, but some love it. While shes doing that, continue to finger her, then when you start fucking her again shove your hand down her throat so she can continue tasting herself.

How do you tell her when your tongue is in her mouth? Otherwise I agree, it's definitely a good move.

(06-09-2015 04:02 PM)Atlantic Wrote:  

There is a fourth way: you go down on her, get her very wet and also spit on her pussy a lot and then come up and give her a heavy make out while you slide your dick in at the same time. I use this 90% of the time and it works great as a transition into sex.

Yeah you are right. There are probably an infinite amount of ways to do it, I shouldn't have said there are only three - those are just the three I like to use. But we agree that making her taste her own pussy juice, be it on your fingers, tongue, lips, cock or whatever is a good move.

(06-09-2015 05:05 PM)draguer Wrote:  

Cum on her tits then bring it with your finger to her mouth

I like that but I prefer to bring it to her mouth with my dick.

(06-09-2015 07:10 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  

Couple of basic dominance moves I do. Is when she is on the bed I like to position myself over her like on my knees over her while she is lying down. and tell her to suck my cock never ask. Do this while looking right into her eyes and no smiling. It must be a command. They always gobble it right up with enthusiasm.

Or standing face to face tell her to suck my cock pushing her down on her knees on the floor. Still get great responses every time.

Any type of position over her works good for me.

Another position is to be over her with her on her back and move her legs all the way back folded into the frog position. Don't lay on her but put your hands not on her legs but on her thighs. So you are looming over her. Then put your weight on your arms that are holding her thighs all the way back. She will be pinned down and will really dig your weight on her. It will also give you real deep penetration. I have done this on really tiny chicks and they do not mind the weight but like it. Even had them comment on it.

Good moves. Indeed, girls really love to feel your entire weight on them during sex (then again I am not really heavy, it might be different if you are over 200 lbs).

(06-09-2015 07:59 PM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

Edge of the bed, fold the legs like above or put your hands behind their knees and push them down and pin them to to the bed. Get a leg up on the bed, pile drive that pussy.

I let myself go and get really twitchy and start breathing heavy and moaning and I just let instincts take over. I grab the girl, throw her around, yank her clothes off and throw them. She tried to push my hand away I grab her hand with my other hand and pin it.

Even when she's riding me I have a death grip on her hips and I control the tempo.

Another good one edge of the bed on her back, legs up in the air in front of your body, grab both her wrists or forearms and pull her towards you by pulling on her arms but keep them by her hips. Fuck her hard bouncing back by driving with your hips, and then pull her back in with her arms. She totally helpless.

Demand her to rub her clit while you slowly go in and out.
If she doesn't do it, do it for her. Then force her hand there and she'll get hang of it.

I just lose control. My breathing changes, I start shaking slit holy like chills are running down my spine. I almost black out sometimes I just totally let go. Everything else comes naturally after that. Lose yourself in the moment and your excitement will turn her on even more. I don't ask for shit, I pick them up throw them around, rip off clothes, throw shit.

Bitches will fall in love with you if you fuck them right.

I like your caveman approach. I just like to mix caveman style with some deliberate calm dominance to last longer. I fuck her wild until I feel I'm nearing the point of no return, then I switch to calm dominance, then back to caveman, back again... until I can't keep it in anymore. Making her feel completely helpless is a big part of dominance play.

(06-09-2015 09:12 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  

Two things that weren't mentioned that I've learned.

One is if she turns her head to the side, firmly grab her by the jawline and force her head to look at you.

The laser eye contact dominance transmission can't be understated. Use your eyes to communicate that you own her in every sense. If she closes her eyes roughly command her to open them for you.

As an addendum to choking, make sure your thumb and fingers are not centered on her trachea, rather, they should be further on either side of it, where the blood vessels to the brain are. When you pin her or choke, flex or squeeze your hand to make her understand your strength rather than just holding it in a static iron grip. It serves to remind her that she's pinned or choked very vividly.

Two excellent tips. The eye contact is powerful. What I often do when I am fucking her missionary is to pin her arm over her head, then put my forearm and elbow over her upper arm/shoulder so she cannot bring the arm back down, put my hand on her forehead and use it to tilt her head back. With her head tilted back, she feels more vulnerable and exposed and has greater tendency to keep her eyes opened.

The same tips you gave for the choking also apply to hair pulling. Don't keep on pulling with steady tension. After a while her neck muscles will tire and it will simply become annoying. Give her some slack, then pull her head firmly (but slowly) back, then repeat. This is more comfortable to her and it reminds her constantly that you are controlling her by pulling her hair.
Also, grab as much hair as possible and grab it as close to her head as possible. Otherwise you are just causing her sharp annoying pain and not good dominance pain.

(06-10-2015 09:16 AM)ClintTalks Wrote:  

Bang close to a mirror. Make her watch herself get fucked.

If you're in a hotel, fuck against the window or balcony.
Doesn't have to be hotel, any place where you can push her against glass works well.

Absolutely yes. The feeling of exposure will be a great turn on for her.
In my apartment I have a big window. I open it, throw a rope over it and close it again so that the rope cannot move anymore. Then I use the rope to tie her hands above her head with her face and tits pressed against the window. I fuck her from behind telling her that everyone is watching her getting fucked

(06-10-2015 01:32 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  

When first going for the make out, you start firm and confident, but gentle. The moment she reciprocates and takes initiative herself, pick her up, push her up against the wall, tongue rape her, growl deep in your throat, pin her hands above her, and use your other hand to work into her hair and yank it down she she tilts her head up.

Freeze out the kiss and bite her earlobe and do your best to give her a hicky on her neck and down to her collarbone. Return to make out.

This is exactly how I approach foreplay a large amount of the time.

(06-10-2015 03:14 PM)Repo Wrote:  

Eat her out from the back while shes on all 4s, rather than from the front. Eating the booty is optional but not required. When done from the back you can pull her hair and smack and grab her ass much easier while eating her out. Most girls Ive messed with prefer it this way after Ive done it once. From their its an easy segway to doggystyle.

I prefer from the front. Easier to lick the clit, you can look her in the eyes and I don't like it to shove my nose into her asshole. But its is nice and naughty.

[PhDre]

(06-09-2015 03:49 PM)Galahad Wrote:  

I noticed most girls - at least all I had - want to be submissive even when they are shy at first. For me it goes back to the old times when a man was strong and violent and just used the girl. Its deep in their mind - and don't worry that she will break. She will not.
Not saying do it all the time but for a girl its a kick when your animalism take over, wild and know what you want.

Probably there are some girls out there that don't like it for several reasons but those ones have some issues at all.
I would add to slap her face - lightly but noticed not all will be direct into it. Still its worth to just try it in the heat of the moment.

Yes, absolutely.

(06-09-2015 11:36 PM)Soaked Wrote:  

Great thread.

I read this and I feel like I need to up my sex game.

I feel like I have such a mental block against the sort of assertiveness and dominance that could be construed as sexist and chauvinist. When I've been intimate with a girl for a while I get much more aggressive but I need to figure out how to reach that level of comfort with myself irrespective of who I'm with as I don't plan on an LTR anytime soon.

Then there's the issue that most of the girls I've slept with lately just don't motivate me to care all that much about their experience.

Any advice?

A girl needs two things for good sex:
- She wants to feel desired by you more than anything else.
- She wants to be submissive, dominated, violated, owned... She wants to be completely helpless against your strong masculinity.

My advice:
- Stop reading mainstream sex advice. Girl's favorite sex position is not cowgirl, but a position where they feel completely helpless, exposed and submissive. And they don't want to control the depth and the speed of penetration or any of that bullshit. They want you to control everything so their conscious mind can shut down and they can let their primal urges take over.
- Try to find pleasure in the dominance aspect. For me, dominating her into complete submission is the most fulfilling part of sex.
- Realise that she will be a lot more pleasant to be around when you properly dominate her.
- Realise that she has a far greater chance of orgasming when you are dominant and nothing feels better than an orgasming pussy around your dick.
- Try to fuck girls that are more attractive?

[loki]

I like banging women out on my kitchen table, lay them down while I do them standing.

they love it, I love it and no risk of leg cramps.

[Surreyman]

Pull your finger(s) out of her pussy, pop them in her mouth.

Roll them round her lips, play with her lips a bit.

[rudeBoy]

Finger her while your making out and then put your fingers between her lips and yours making a slight 'v' shape. Both you of you lick her pussy juice on her fingers and eachother's tongues at the same time. Make sure to say "mmmmmm" to let her know your turned on as well.

[Silva]

(06-11-2015 01:43 PM)PhDre Wrote:  

(06-09-2015 03:49 PM)Galahad Wrote:  

I noticed most girls - at least all I had - want to be submissive even when they are shy at first. For me it goes back to the old times when a man was strong and violent and just used the girl. Its deep in their mind - and don't worry that she will break. She will not.
Not saying do it all the time but for a girl its a kick when your animalism take over, wild and know what you want.

Probably there are some girls out there that don't like it for several reasons but those ones have some issues at all.
I would add to slap her face - lightly but noticed not all will be direct into it. Still its worth to just try it in the heat of the moment.

Yes, absolutely.

(06-09-2015 11:36 PM)Soaked Wrote:  

Great thread.

I read this and I feel like I need to up my sex game.

I feel like I have such a mental block against the sort of assertiveness and dominance that could be construed as sexist and chauvinist. When I've been intimate with a girl for a while I get much more aggressive but I need to figure out how to reach that level of comfort with myself irrespective of who I'm with as I don't plan on an LTR anytime soon.

Then there's the issue that most of the girls I've slept with lately just don't motivate me to care all that much about their experience.

Any advice?

A girl needs two things for good sex:
- She wants to feel desired by you more than anything else.
- She wants to be submissive, dominated, violated, owned... She wants to be completely helpless against your strong masculinity.

My advice:
- Stop reading mainstream sex advice. Girl's favorite sex position is not cowgirl, but a position where they feel completely helpless, exposed and submissive. And they don't want to control the depth and the speed of penetration or any of that bullshit. They want you to control everything so their conscious mind can shut down and they can let their primal urges take over.
- Try to find pleasure in the dominance aspect. For me, dominating her into complete submission is the most fulfilling part of sex.
- Realise that she will be a lot more pleasant to be around when you properly dominate her.
- Realise that she has a far greater chance of orgasming when you are dominant and nothing feels better than an orgasming pussy around your dick.
- Try to fuck girls that are more attractive?

THIS!

Excellent post sir. No better feeling than giving a girl a good, dominant fucking.

[PhDre]

(06-11-2015 02:43 PM)loki Wrote:  

I like banging women out on my kitchen table, lay them down while I do them standing.

they love it, I love it and no risk of leg cramps.

This is my favorite position as well.

It makes the girl feel exposed and submissive. It gives you a great view of her body, full control and deep penetration. It is easy to hit her g spot.
Moreover it requires very little effort which translates into far greater stamina.

It works from behind as well.

[Saweeep]

You know what the most dominating thing to do is?


Whatever the fuck you want.


Without asking and without hesitation.

[CaracaoSteel]

(06-13-2015 08:50 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

You know what the most dominating thing to do is?


Whatever the fuck you want.


Without asking and without hesitation.

Does anal fall into this category?

[Ray Carlton]

Dominate sex moves are crucial for every men nowadays.

As we all know, the game doesn't stop when you get her in your bedroom, even then you have to fuck those bitches right if you want bang her again.

So you better have some 50 Shades of Grey moves in your back pocket, as listed in this thread.

Regarding the spitting. I think there are two kinds of spitting and guys which are totally against it, might have the "wrong" picture of it.

Of course, you can order her on her knees, tell her to open her mouth and spit in it, as we have seen it in degrading porn. I think of you Bella Knox here.

This is a dominant move, however I probably wouldn't pull it for most girls.

Nonetheless, I am advocate of spitting, just in another way.

Let's say you are fucking a girl from behind, gather some spit in your mouth, grab her neck and pull her head to you and close to your mouth. Tell her to open her mouth and let your spit slide into her mouth.

This method is way less degrading, however, way more erotic. She will know what you just did and get turned on by it.

For our German speaking RVF readers, I recently covered exactly this topic on my blog (mannbibel.com). Have a look at it when you like.

Ray

[Feo]

Give her a finger in the ass..or even better, make her stick her own finger in her ass and tell her to leave it there until you come. This is my default for my first time with any new girl

[PhotoFinish]

I've learned many great things since I started reading this fine forum and following the advice offered. I know I'm only beginning my journey, but I'd like to share what for me was a life changing experience due to the revelation that was brought about by the practice of red pill wisdom. Now I know I can comfortably have sex when I want, how I want. This in particular has been one of the most liberating experiences ever for me, and actually changed how I enjoy myself in the bedroom. I used to do things, like choking, only rarely because I didn't particularly get any satisfaction out of it. Now knowing what I do, I just absolutely dominate her and I enjoy myself MORE because I know that deep down, it IS what she wants and she loves me for it.

The full realization hit me one night when I decided I was going to fuck that ass. She used to love anal but at some point it just kinda phased out. I'm actually not that big a fan so I didn't care too much. Well, it had been a while and I decided I wanted it, SO I TOOK IT. I started with my finger but she started resisting when I slid my cock in, not rough, just trying to work it. I could see her grimace in pain as she tried to accept my girth. Well after she tried to brush me off like that was it, I grabbed her arms and pushed her down while pressing my weight on her. INSTANTLY she was mine to do with as I pleased, and her words will always be ingrained in my memory "Yeah, just hold me down and fuck me!" So ready to be dominated was she, that the pain became nothing despite the wild, animalistic balls deep ass fucking I gave her. She wanted to be forced, to let go of herself, to submit unconditionally to MY desires and whims. I think we both learned something that night, but only one of us had a sore ass afterwards

Thank you fellas for helping me to see the light, to set the female hamster spinning, to rock her world, but most importantly, thank you for helping me enjoy being a true dominate man.

[PhDre]

Bump because I’ve added a new move to my repertoire. It is a bit more involved than a simple move, but I think it does belong in a thread about dominant sex.

The setup
Me: I need to buy some t-shirts and I want you to accompany me. Put on a short skirt or dress for the occasion.
She: Ok.

In the shop
I take her to a shop were the cabins are in a more private area. Once I have my clothes, I pull her into a cabin.
We start making out, I finger her and I fuck her from behind in front of the mirror. After two to three minutes of fucking I pull out, pick up her panties and put them in my pocket, and put my dick back in my pants. I grab her hand.
Me: Let’s go.
She: …

Exiting the shop
We are in a mall and need to take some escalators.
She: You are crazy! I hate you so hard.
Me: And you’re such a bad girl. How dare you, walking around in public without your panties. Watch out, we’re on an escalator, the guys below can see everything.
I occasionally brush her thigh, threatening to lift up her skirt.

Outside
Me: I want to check some other shops.
She: No, I cannot walk around like this! I hate you.
We go to another shop. She’s holding her skirt for dear life. From time to time I brush her thighs. We take public transport back to my place.

At my place
I put my hand under her skirt. She’s dripping wet. It’s been one hour and a half since I stole her panties and she only got wetter.
She: Please, fuck me hard…

Afterwards
She: You’re the only guy in the world who would do such a thing.
She was loyal and clingy like a lost puppy for weeks to come.

Disclaimer: I’ve only tried this on one girl; your success rate may vary.
As you notice, you need some logistics and some luck to pull this off. I was lucky to succeed from the first time. Maybe some of you players that are running through sluts can try this on multiple girls and report on the effectiveness/improve the play.

[LA Savage]

Holy snaps I wish I saw this thread when I use to live at the dorms. It was pussy central over there with a fresh batch of girls to try it on a every week.

Regardless I am taking notes at all the great tips in this thread.

I use to think Fucking A Girl Like Crazy Doggy Style was Dominant then I see this thread and read the stuff you guys are talking about and I'm like DAAAMMMNNNNNN!!!!! I need to catch up.

[jjtheprince]

(06-14-2015 12:41 AM)CaracaoSteel Wrote:  

(06-13-2015 08:50 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

You know what the most dominating thing to do is?


Whatever the fuck you want.


Without asking and without hesitation.

Does anal fall into this category?

Yes, very rough anal will pwn them good if they are wanting to be dominated.

[eradicator]

(06-11-2015 09:42 AM)Brodiaga Wrote:  

Shit in her mouth.

Brodiaga, are you currently in Japan?

[Oz.]

Something I've personally had success with is pile driving the shit out of a girl and when I'm about to finish pull out and allow my cum to land all over her. It usually lands in their face if you aim down at her and not forward, they love it.