Quote: (05-05-2015 01:36 AM)MidWest Wrote:
I'm with Jariel here and my experiences in Mexico mirrors his as well. Sometimes I find it weird myself that many guys struggle in Mexico when all you really have to do is the exact opposite you do in the states in terms of game.
I'm not treated as a God like Jariel given I'm Mexican myself, but its not that hard for me to pull a 7 or an 8 I would say intermediate level. 5's and 6's are like shooting fish in a barrel. Its way easier for me to pull a Mexicana than an American girl. I have no clue why.
I had multiple girls tell me how in love they were with me, how they wanted to be my wife and have my kids, and little dumb shit like how they liked the birthmarks on different parts of my body.
When you have an experience like that and then come back to this bitch, where people hate you because of what you look like, your accent, etc. it's easy to see why so many people are fucked up and miserable.
At the end of the day, I've done so much work on myself, that at this point, it's only my opinion that matters, and I'm my worst critic, so if I can feel good about myself, I can take in stride what other people feel about me.
We live in a society that pushes people to hate themselves, and then because they hate themselves and live in a state of perpetual misery, they pass on that level of misery on to other people via toxic relationships, that's why the dating game is so fucked up, because American men are allowing American women to pass on their psychotic nature to them.
It is imperative that we get out of this space sometimes by traveling to other places where the energy is just different, especially those of us who are Black, because we need to have experiences where people treat us like human beings, and can actually find it within themselves to appreciate something about us.
People know what they're doing when they're constantly reminding you of how worthless they believe you are, it's called psychological warfare.
Women here have declared war, and we're still trying to take them out for coffee.