I've been so beta lately.
Anyways, I like this girl at my university and we run in the same social circle/school club. I already banged her housemate and I think she instinctively knew that I did. I stopped hanging out with her housemate, who I think is a super cool gal, because I have been developing strong feelings for the girl I wanted.
I get IOIs from the girl I liked, for example, I can see from the corner of my eye that she is checking me out, if I ask for a favor, she usually does it. When we first got to know each other, at a burger joint that my school club is at, she's an officer for that club by the way, she sat next to me, and she put her right hand up to the back of her ear and was revealing her wrist to me, I can just tell at that moment she was attracted to me, physically at least. And I think other girls are physically attracted to me in the club as well, I can sense and observe the IOIs.
This is where it gets sour. I tell her I like her over FB (beta), I had a moment of weakness, she is completely caught off guard because she didn't even think I liked her. She told me I never hit on her. I was super beta around her and I've been going through a rough patch in my life these past couple of months, so I haven't exactly been super suave. She rejected me, said she wasn't attracted to me, likes being single, is busy with school, etc. She is nice enough to say hi to me in public and even try to talk with me.
I've been in a good mood lately and I think my social circle can feel the good vibes emitting from me. I'm going up to people to chat and I'm just trying to have more fun in life. I'm teasing people, playfully, of course. I'm doing kino on everyone, especially the gay dudes, and they love it. LOL. I've had 2 dates since I was rejected, so I've been a busy bee.
I wanted to take up dancing again (bboying) and increase my presence within our social circle, so I stick out as the alpha. My social circle is filled with betas, so it isn't hard for me to do so. So my strategy is to show this chick the real me; the suave, charismatic, crack jokes, tease, kino, etc.
Do I still have a shot with her? What should I do? We messaged each other a few times since the rejection, me initiating it, and the last message from her said if I wanted to talk to her about anything else, we can try to set that up. Perhaps she wants to talk in person to ease the tension between her and I, no? Of course, I've been approaching other girls but this girl is stuck in my system. I at least want to give it another shot before I charge her to the game.
PS: Oh, is blogging a good way to DHV? Especially if I ask certain social circle members to peer review my blogs, and hopefully they can hype it up to others for me.
Anyways, I like this girl at my university and we run in the same social circle/school club. I already banged her housemate and I think she instinctively knew that I did. I stopped hanging out with her housemate, who I think is a super cool gal, because I have been developing strong feelings for the girl I wanted.
I get IOIs from the girl I liked, for example, I can see from the corner of my eye that she is checking me out, if I ask for a favor, she usually does it. When we first got to know each other, at a burger joint that my school club is at, she's an officer for that club by the way, she sat next to me, and she put her right hand up to the back of her ear and was revealing her wrist to me, I can just tell at that moment she was attracted to me, physically at least. And I think other girls are physically attracted to me in the club as well, I can sense and observe the IOIs.
This is where it gets sour. I tell her I like her over FB (beta), I had a moment of weakness, she is completely caught off guard because she didn't even think I liked her. She told me I never hit on her. I was super beta around her and I've been going through a rough patch in my life these past couple of months, so I haven't exactly been super suave. She rejected me, said she wasn't attracted to me, likes being single, is busy with school, etc. She is nice enough to say hi to me in public and even try to talk with me.
I've been in a good mood lately and I think my social circle can feel the good vibes emitting from me. I'm going up to people to chat and I'm just trying to have more fun in life. I'm teasing people, playfully, of course. I'm doing kino on everyone, especially the gay dudes, and they love it. LOL. I've had 2 dates since I was rejected, so I've been a busy bee.
I wanted to take up dancing again (bboying) and increase my presence within our social circle, so I stick out as the alpha. My social circle is filled with betas, so it isn't hard for me to do so. So my strategy is to show this chick the real me; the suave, charismatic, crack jokes, tease, kino, etc.
Do I still have a shot with her? What should I do? We messaged each other a few times since the rejection, me initiating it, and the last message from her said if I wanted to talk to her about anything else, we can try to set that up. Perhaps she wants to talk in person to ease the tension between her and I, no? Of course, I've been approaching other girls but this girl is stuck in my system. I at least want to give it another shot before I charge her to the game.
PS: Oh, is blogging a good way to DHV? Especially if I ask certain social circle members to peer review my blogs, and hopefully they can hype it up to others for me.
