I became a "scrub" after college, that, is the reason I joined this forum.
Because I was an athlete,
I got lots of quality p*ssy in college. After college, I got a regular construction job and all the p*ssy was gone. I went from being surrounded by young girls to being surrounded by old men.
(This is the access that Scorpion describes)
The frustration began to set in... Where could I meet hot, young girls? How could I seduce them if I'm not in their social circle?
I would work all day and come home tired. I was making money but I would literally go days and weeks without talking to pretty young girls.
This went on for 2 years, my frustration grew and grew. I did not have much sex for those 2 years.
Eventually, I went back to graduate school and my sex life returned.
But, then, after graduate school, the problem returned..
I was back in the working world and I did not have regular access to pretty, young girls.
My sexual frustration began to set in again. I was 30 years old and I had practically zero access to hot college girls. I felt trapped. I didn't have much sex for a few years.
Finally, I went to Brazil for 6 months to try and relieve my frustration. As a tourist in Brazil, things were much better.
I returned home and my sex life again dried up.
I got a job on a college campus and I was surrounded by hot girls but I was too scared to try and bang them, I didn't want to get fired.
After about 2 years of that, I said "fuck it". I decided that I would start trying to bang the students at my college and I didn't care if I got fired or not.
I was sick and tired of being lonely and sexless.
I started banging students. It was a lot of fun. Thank God I never got in trouble.
Then, that very same year (2010) I joined the forum and started doing "approaches".
I decided that I was going to do whatever it takes to start banging college girls.
I started going to university and college campuses a few times a week, sometimes, I went 5 days a week.
If I got off of work at 2pm, I was on campus by 230pm
If I had a day off, I was on campus from 12-4pm
Approaching college girls became almost an obsession for me.
I started working in the afternoons and evenings so I could chase college girls during the day.
What an experience it has been!
I have no regrets.. I got what I wanted. It feels great.
But, it was a lot of work.
Learn from my mistakes so you don't have to work as hard.
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Now..
How can I advise you guys so that you don't have the same problems that I did...???
How can I help you so that you don't have to go through everything that I did...???
I think it comes down to two things:
1) Freedom
2) Location
If you do not have freedom over your time and freedom over your location, then, you are basically trapped. You can not go where you want and you can not do what you want.
If you are not in a location with lots of pretty, young girls, than, you can not meet any pretty, young girls.
When you take a job after college, consider the level of freedom and the location.
Are you stuck in an office all day? Or, can you get outside and adjust your location if you want to?
Are you in a small town with limited availability of girls? Or, are you in a big city with many, many options in terms of females?
These are the things you should think about.
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Also, you should consider your priorities..
What is more important to you..?
Money or sex?
The answer should be money. But, you must also find way to have a healthy sex life.
My friend Westcoast no longer posts on this forum. He works long hours and makes good money on Wall St. But, he also goes out dancing every weekend to ensure a steady stream of cuties. He dresses well, works out, and is a good dancer.
He is making money and getting quality girls. He lives in San Francisco and travels a lot.
My point is that you can both
($ and girls), but, it takes effort and a good location + a good strategy + game.
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Or, you can make money and be a "sugar daddy" type.
Or, you can make money get hookers.
Or, you can be poor and chase girls all day.
Or, you can try to find success with a "location-independent" job.
Each man must figure out the right system and strategy for himself.
I recommend trying to make money and also trying to improve your game, all while living in a good strategic location and being aggressive about approaching and talking to girls. Try to do both!
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If you have "game", you will never be a "scrub"!
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Here is my interview with Christian Mcqueen where I discuss this topic in more detail:
https://soundcloud.com/thechristianmcque...up-college