Quote: (02-07-2015 09:15 AM)hervens Wrote:
So I'm seeing this girl, that I banged a couple of times who's probably a 6 or so in my book.
The thing is, she has this super hot best friend that's a solid 8.5. The 2 girls are pretty close to each other.
Before we hooked up, the hot friend would drop some solid ioi's, but I still ended up going for the average one, because I was a bit insecure back then, and assumed she was a bit out of my league.
Fast forward a few weeks now, I realized what I mistake I did by going for the average one, and I'm wandering if there's anything I could do, without loosing them both?
The girl has also been asking me lately if I could introduce some of my friends to her hot friend? ughh
If you think you got a legit chance with the 8.5 then go for it.
To be honest though, I doubt it will work out, unless she sees you as extremely high value. Its rare that the significantly better looking friend will get with you after you have hooked up with the less attractive one (dont worry they know where they stand).
Once you already hooked up with the 6, you automatically disqualified yourself for being an option for the 8.5 (unless she thinks her ugly friend is equal to her in beauty, which I highly doubt), simply because she knows shes that much better looking/higher value than her ugly friend, so in her mind she can get anyone and wont dupe down to the 6's level.
However, the vise-versa happens all the time, where the less attractive friend wants to get with the guy whos getting with a friend thats more attractive than herself.
I remember one distinct time where this sexy girl liked me. Her good friend was this busted 6. The hottie invited me to her house party she was throwing, Everyone at the party was telling me how the sexy girl likes me and I got it in the bag. Well what happend? At the peak of my drunk the 6 wanted to "show me around the neighborhood". I was drunk and horny and like an idiot I made out with the busted brod. I never was able to recover from that and I got immediately eliminated as possible option for the sexy girl that had originally liked me.
I get a message from the busted brod the next morning " thank you for the amazing kiss". I almost threw up in my mouth. In her mind, she was ecstatic to get with the guy that her hot friend wanted and in her lizard brain, happy she fucked things up between us. In a twisted way, its her one upping' her hotter friend as a result of her insecurity and jealousy issues.
Worst case you tried and got rejected by the 8.5 and lose access to a 6. Who cares, shes a 6, after 1 bang with that you dont need to hit that again anyways, time to amp up the quality.