Bojangles was kind enough to send me a review copy of new book "Desi Casanova", a game guide geared specifically at helping Indian men, based on his experience as a third(?) generation Indian who grew up in U.K and now traverses Europe's pussy hotspots.
Bojangles life story is an integral part of the work, and is coloured by cultural artifacts and anecdotes from having an Indian British background i.e how he was never a stud in high school and far from the captain of the cricket team![[Image: lol.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/lol.gif)
On a more serious note, he lays bare how by the age of 25 he had only had sex with 2 girls and never had a long-term girlfriend, while being very shy and having had his spirit essentially crushed by his domineering father, before deciding to turn his life around and throw himself into self-improvement. I was pretty shocked by reading his story, having assumed an Indian player like Bojangles would have always been decent with women, or at the very least always had good social skills, rather than having to start from scratch and take an already difficult path with all of that extra baggage.
Desi Casanova does not engage in the feel good mantra's so common to game material. It does not shy away from spelling things out as they are, and offering concrete actionable methods to improve on them. The work touches on how minority men use race as an excuse to absolve themselves of blame for their lack of success. By writing their failure off on things they can't control like their race or height, their ego shields them from facing up to their actual "SMV". Desi Casanova is not however a book about how Indian men can be successful with white women, but women in general. As an aside, it's telling that race trolls fail to realize that in a diaspora community they should be doing even better with girls of their own race then white guys do with white girls, yet girls of their own race still don't give them the time of day. I've never met a Westernized Indian/Asian guy who was slaying it amongst his own race but couldn't replicate that inter-racially.
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There are a lot of references and analogies to Indian culture, parenting styles and Bollywood in the book. Bojangles basically uses his familiarity with Indian culture to root out all the bullshit the culture has inflicted on it's men. The first half of the book is basically an extensive deprogramming of all the negative impacts of Indian culture, particularly on their inner game. The only thing I take away from these sections is that I'm glad I did not share the sort of harsh upbringing Bojangles, and that I had indeed underestimated the level of emasculating cultural programming most Indian men go through that fucks up their inner game. I have South Asian heritage but had a very Westernized upbringing and chill parents. I never really had any brown friends growing up, trouble socially or felt like race was a big factor dating white girls, although I'm above average looking and live in a pretty cosmopolitan liberal area. In many ways I feel very lucky to have had my upbringing after reading this book, and have a lot of respect for the level Bojangles is at now considering where he started from. Learning game is hard enough without being instilled with an inferiority complex or being crushed by the weight of your parents expectations.
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The game, dating and sex section in Desi Casanova takes up the 2nd half of the book and is an excellent and comprehensive introduction to those areas. I'm not going to dwell too much on it here since it covers things anyone worth their salt here should already be familiar with. No RVF member here would find anything objectionable in his advice. The core aim of the Desi Casanova however is fixing the inner game issues specific to Indian men that hold them back and it is as successful in this endeavour as any book could be, instilling the right mindset in it's reader while stressing the importance of paying attention to things like style, hygiene and fitness that FOB Indian men in particular struggle with. Bojangles covers a great deal of territory in Desi Casanova's 100 pages. Everything from fixing the Indian mindset to how to approach girls to how to rock their world in the bedroom, it's all here, and not only is it hear but it's explained clearly and precisely.
The only other game products I've ever read were Bang and Day Bang a number of years ago, and as such are the only books I can use as a comparison for Desi Casanova. I would say Desi Casanova would not be suitable for a coconut: someone who grew up in the West, not attune to Desi culture, with a non-brown social circle and "normal" parents and would instead recommend just reading Bang if you feel like you wouldn't need cultural deprogramming. If you grew up in South Asia, or had strict traditional parents or a mostly brown environment or social circle, then you most likely have ingrained beta aspects of Desi culture, and Desi Casanova is the right tool to deprogram you and get you onto the right path, and taking advice from non-brown source would be useless. All in all, it is clear that Bojangles is the right man to help guys in that situation. Desi Casanova is the IRT antidote.
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Bojangles life story is an integral part of the work, and is coloured by cultural artifacts and anecdotes from having an Indian British background i.e how he was never a stud in high school and far from the captain of the cricket team
On a more serious note, he lays bare how by the age of 25 he had only had sex with 2 girls and never had a long-term girlfriend, while being very shy and having had his spirit essentially crushed by his domineering father, before deciding to turn his life around and throw himself into self-improvement. I was pretty shocked by reading his story, having assumed an Indian player like Bojangles would have always been decent with women, or at the very least always had good social skills, rather than having to start from scratch and take an already difficult path with all of that extra baggage.Desi Casanova does not engage in the feel good mantra's so common to game material. It does not shy away from spelling things out as they are, and offering concrete actionable methods to improve on them. The work touches on how minority men use race as an excuse to absolve themselves of blame for their lack of success. By writing their failure off on things they can't control like their race or height, their ego shields them from facing up to their actual "SMV". Desi Casanova is not however a book about how Indian men can be successful with white women, but women in general. As an aside, it's telling that race trolls fail to realize that in a diaspora community they should be doing even better with girls of their own race then white guys do with white girls, yet girls of their own race still don't give them the time of day. I've never met a Westernized Indian/Asian guy who was slaying it amongst his own race but couldn't replicate that inter-racially.
There are a lot of references and analogies to Indian culture, parenting styles and Bollywood in the book. Bojangles basically uses his familiarity with Indian culture to root out all the bullshit the culture has inflicted on it's men. The first half of the book is basically an extensive deprogramming of all the negative impacts of Indian culture, particularly on their inner game. The only thing I take away from these sections is that I'm glad I did not share the sort of harsh upbringing Bojangles, and that I had indeed underestimated the level of emasculating cultural programming most Indian men go through that fucks up their inner game. I have South Asian heritage but had a very Westernized upbringing and chill parents. I never really had any brown friends growing up, trouble socially or felt like race was a big factor dating white girls, although I'm above average looking and live in a pretty cosmopolitan liberal area. In many ways I feel very lucky to have had my upbringing after reading this book, and have a lot of respect for the level Bojangles is at now considering where he started from. Learning game is hard enough without being instilled with an inferiority complex or being crushed by the weight of your parents expectations.
The game, dating and sex section in Desi Casanova takes up the 2nd half of the book and is an excellent and comprehensive introduction to those areas. I'm not going to dwell too much on it here since it covers things anyone worth their salt here should already be familiar with. No RVF member here would find anything objectionable in his advice. The core aim of the Desi Casanova however is fixing the inner game issues specific to Indian men that hold them back and it is as successful in this endeavour as any book could be, instilling the right mindset in it's reader while stressing the importance of paying attention to things like style, hygiene and fitness that FOB Indian men in particular struggle with. Bojangles covers a great deal of territory in Desi Casanova's 100 pages. Everything from fixing the Indian mindset to how to approach girls to how to rock their world in the bedroom, it's all here, and not only is it hear but it's explained clearly and precisely.
The only other game products I've ever read were Bang and Day Bang a number of years ago, and as such are the only books I can use as a comparison for Desi Casanova. I would say Desi Casanova would not be suitable for a coconut: someone who grew up in the West, not attune to Desi culture, with a non-brown social circle and "normal" parents and would instead recommend just reading Bang if you feel like you wouldn't need cultural deprogramming. If you grew up in South Asia, or had strict traditional parents or a mostly brown environment or social circle, then you most likely have ingrained beta aspects of Desi culture, and Desi Casanova is the right tool to deprogram you and get you onto the right path, and taking advice from non-brown source would be useless. All in all, it is clear that Bojangles is the right man to help guys in that situation. Desi Casanova is the IRT antidote.
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