Every fucking time I read a WIA's long post:
Ass or cash, nobody rides for free - WestIndiArchie
Quote: (01-24-2015 04:06 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (01-23-2015 06:51 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:
I think that if your SMV is high enough, no girl is going to put you on the back burner. I'm sure any guy who has been around long enough notices that the higher your SMV gets the more girls there are willing to drop everything for you.
LOL
This is part of the problem with the SMV metaphor.
But let me pose it a different way.
Has a player ever banged better man's girlfriend or wife?
Taller, Richer, More Social, More Famous? Whatever mix of factors thought to affect SMV?
I have. Plenty of players have. Something that shouldn't happen does happen, and happens frequently. It's not an aberration, but reality fucking up the theory.
Quote: (01-24-2015 04:06 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
End up asking the age old question, how to keep a woman happy?
Maybe the question should change, how does she keep me happy?
Or better yet, why would I ever associate happiness with a woman?
Well that last one might be too jaded...
WIA
Quote: (01-24-2015 05:31 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:
Quote: (01-24-2015 04:06 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (01-23-2015 06:51 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:
I think that if your SMV is high enough, no girl is going to put you on the back burner. I'm sure any guy who has been around long enough notices that the higher your SMV gets the more girls there are willing to drop everything for you.
LOL
This is part of the problem with the SMV metaphor.
But let me pose it a different way.
Has a player ever banged better man's girlfriend or wife?
Taller, Richer, More Social, More Famous? Whatever mix of factors thought to affect SMV?
I have. Plenty of players have. Something that shouldn't happen does happen, and happens frequently. It's not an aberration, but reality fucking up the theory.
Good stuff both by Cobra and by WIA here.
SMV is all good and well, but all that this does is prevent a woman from blowing up a marriage in most cases if it's 2+ in difference.
That does not mean that she won't cheat on you if she is a slut, goes out non-stop and "needs" her girls' night out.
That also does not mean that she won't do something stupid as WIA has put it.
Over time I have become quite good at assessing those female traits mostly through my intuition. I could tell you very quickly which woman I know well would give you more shit-tests, make your life more difficult, has a tendency to cheat if the circumstances are right etc.
It is similar to how I can actually assess a Player, a guy who will cheat on a girl etc. - there are some excellent signs and they are not hard to miss.
The wolf recognizes his kind and the wolf also recognizes an easy prey. Paradoxically the wolf is also the best one when assessing a hard-to-get prey - a woman who is LTR-worthy.
Also - women are essentially war-widows - they are emotionally driven creatures of opportunity. SMV are useful for LTRs, but only to a degree.
I also realized recently that the male attraction scale goes to 12. Leo DiCaprio is a male 12 for whom fame has catapulted him to such heights, that he can have a Royal Harem of 10s (wealthy super-models in their prime). Thus even a male 10 is not invulnerable. And frankly even a male 12 can be cheated upon if the time is right and a strong guy with Game approaches her at the right time.
Quote: (02-05-2015 01:00 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:
Update:
Experiencing the shitstorm that will happen when you are blackout drunk at 2 am and your girl decides its a good time to get mad at you for having side bitches is an excellent test of frame.
Having a crying girl on your hands is like diffusing a bomb.
Crying is probably the ultimate shit test.
Quote: (02-05-2015 01:00 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:
Update:
Experiencing the shitstorm that will happen when you are blackout drunk at 2 am and your girl decides its a good time to get mad at you for having side bitches is an excellent test of frame.
Having a crying girl on your hands is like diffusing a bomb.
Crying is probably the ultimate shit test.
Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
Quote: (01-24-2015 08:24 PM)CactusCat589 Wrote:
I think this question can't be asked without understanding the legal aspects.
The way I've always seen it is that LTRs, with the toxic combination of laws and judicial bias in favor of all women, impose artificial handicaps on the player. Pretty significant ones too.
They lock down or get locked down by plenty of pretty women, but the morass of feminist laws raises the bar to an unnatural degree, and it's disastrous when they start settling down.
Quote: (02-05-2015 07:51 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
^ Never trust that chick. Never.
Quote: (02-06-2015 12:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (02-05-2015 07:51 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
^ Never trust that chick. Never.
I never fully trust any girl dude.
Why do you think I'm constantly gaming and banging on the side ?
She was at the bar already when the old man walked up to her and got her a drink.I don't think she expected that dude to kiss her cheek.
We were both pretty drunk, emotions were a bit high.
I've had a girl completely flirt with me in front of her twice. She got riled up haha.
White she HAS earned alot of trust, she's pretty damn submissive to me, I've got very strong frame, I know she loves me, she really is a genuine nice girl, BUT I'm not stupid to where I'd put all my eggs in one basket.
Quote: (02-07-2015 01:11 AM)Distant Light Wrote:
Don't want to talk about this type of stuff but LTRs are MAINLY about self-discovery...
Any needy guy can get himself in a relationship whether he manipulates his way or is just "spam approach". The thing is "choose" from a place of abundance and when it's made the ability to to see yourself in new aspects as a result of the relationship. Being how I am it's very "alien" to hear about guys in bad/horrible relationships because it begs the question "how did it even begin?"
I always jokingly tell people I'd need to know a chick for 1-3 years in a wide range of circumstances to even consider such a thing...
Realistically though I understand I'm not built for relationships, I've had tons of girls mention they want a relationship BUT because I don't believe in monogamy their willing to just have sex...Thing is I tend to like too many different types of women, the variety of personalities is very refreshing. (As they show different aspects of myself)
Add to the fact that I like BEING ALONE I've only brought 2 girls home to my actual place both times once morning hit I was thinking "Damn now I want my alone time".