[MidWest]

Sup guys,


My little brother is unfortunately getting married, and he picked me as his best man.

I've tried over the past year to talk him out of it since he's only 23, but ultimately I failed him. I tried talking him into joining this forum as well but to no avail.

Anyway, I was just told about this earlier today and the wedding is not until the summer of 2016.

I was thinking maybe somewhere in the U.S. like Vegas or Miami or Mexico in either Playa de Carmen or even Mexico city. (Any Mexican guys can chime in with tips). Some outside the box places I was thinking were the DR or Puerto Rico. Canada is out of the question.


I've never had this much responsibility since I'm only a college student, but I do have time to plan and organize.


I tried getting pumped by watching this

Any advice or tips and ideas would be greatly appreciated.

[tuffgong]

If you've never been to Vegas, it might be pretty rad.

What kind of personality does your bro have? Is he conservative?

The nice thing about Vegas is that it offers a ton of things to do. I'm not too familiar with Mexico or Miami, but lmk if you decide on Vegas.

Good luck...sounds like you still have enough time to snap him out of it.

[MidWest]

(01-09-2015 12:15 AM)tuffgong Wrote:  

What kind of personality does your bro have? Is he conservative?

Unfortunately he is. Very conservative and chill guy. I don't even think that he's been to a strip club in his life. He is marrying this girl and has only had 2 girlfriends in his life.

I don't care though, I'm going to try to make the party as wild as possible.

[samsamsam]

(01-09-2015 12:31 AM)MidWest Wrote:  

(01-09-2015 12:15 AM)tuffgong Wrote:  

What kind of personality does your bro have? Is he conservative?

Unfortunately he is. Very conservative and chill guy. I don't even think that he's been to a strip club in his life. He is marrying this girl and has only had 2 girlfriends in his life.

I don't care though, I'm going to try to make the party as wild as possible.

I definitely surprising him with a tranny would be pretty funny then if he is that conservative. Sorry, just joking. I just posted a serious post, I need to unwind

I found this article.
http://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/l...t-and-more

[Drazen]

Weekend in Vegas is the good ol' reliable.

Strip Club. Pool Party. Shoot Guns. Steak Dinner. Night club (bottle service perhaps).

Its not too hard, just depends how big the party is and how much you want to spend. Just make everyone buy their own hotels or pre-sale tickets to pool parties. Collect money beforehand, and don't let anyone say they'll pay you back later because they never will.

[Merenguero]

The problem with having a bachelor party in Playa is that town is really weak on strip clubs. Chilly Willy's is probably the best one there, and I really couldn't see someone having a bachelor party in that place. Acapulco may be a better choice because you have decent strip clubs like Tabares and Foxy's and good discos like Palladium and Baby O. Las Vegas and Miami are obviously good choices, although if you are staying in Miami Beach, your strip club options are pretty much limited to Club Madonna. The last time I walked into Madonna, I asked some stripper who knew me a little bit if I could call her later on so that we could have sex. She said, "Okay, but you have to use a condom. I have two kids."

[tuffgong]

I think Vegas is your best bet based on what's been mentioned.

Even if your bro gets all childish and annoying, you can ditch him and enjoy your time...although if you're anything like me you'd never do your bro like that.

[AneroidOcean]

(01-09-2015 01:27 AM)Drazen Wrote:  

Weekend in Vegas is the good ol' reliable.

Strip Club. Pool Party. Shoot Guns. Steak Dinner. Night club (bottle service perhaps).

Its not too hard, just depends how big the party is and how much you want to spend. Just make everyone buy their own hotels or pre-sale tickets to pool parties. Collect money beforehand, and don't let anyone say they'll pay you back later because they never will.

Backing up the Vegas option. Unless your brother's friends are loaded and adventurous, flying out of the country is not going to happen. Gotta think most people don't even have a current passport. Besides, while there's some amazing beauty and probably some hot girls in PR or DR, those places are mostly shitholes. There's not a lot of places that you can walk around with a drink in your hands at all times and have that many options of what to do AND be relatively safe.

Drazen's point about making guys pay up front is really key.

At Treasures you can have a surprisingly good steak dinner AND have a stripper on each side of you. I don't even like strip clubs all that much and I think that's hilarious.

And OP, it is your duty to make the party as wild as possible. Have fun, don't get arrested.

[WanderingSoul]

Asian hookers in Vegas, or Mexican hookers in Tijuana.

Can't lose either way.

[bojangles]

Guys from the UK fly to Vegas for bachelor parties, I reckon you should do the same especially if you've never been. Still in my eyes the easiest place to get laid and if you might as well shoot a load if your brother isn't going to (i mean guns of course)

[Kongzilla]

Talk to us about his future wife, what do you think of her??

The thing is some conservatives find strip clubs offensive and depending of how much he "loves" her he might feel that he is cheating and be uncomfortable there. Do you really want to make your brother uncomfortable? I would, and i would plan it as if I was planning my own!
Best bachelor party I've been to was at the border in matamoros Mx

[samsamsam]

(01-09-2015 07:22 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Guys from the UK fly to Vegas for bachelor parties, I reckon you should do the same especially if you've never been. Still in my eyes the easiest place to get laid and if you might as well shoot a load if your brother isn't going to (i mean guns of course)

Random comment here. I heard Bratislava was good for bachelor parties and popular with a lot of guys from the UK. Any truth to that?

[MidWest]

(01-09-2015 01:12 PM)Kongzilla Wrote:  

Talk to us about his future wife, what do you think of her??

The thing is some conservatives find strip clubs offensive and depending of how much he "loves" her he might feel that he is cheating and be uncomfortable there. Do you really want to make your brother uncomfortable? I would, and i would plan it as if I was planning my own!
Best bachelor party I've been to was at the border in matamoros Mx

I'm indifferent about her. She seems nice and he looks happy, but I doubt it will lost long. He's a good looking cat marrying a chubby 5 at the most. But it is what it is. She did tell him to "Watch it with the bitches" and told me to "make sure he doesn't do something stupid and cheat" to which I responded with "ok" with a big smirk on my face.. We all know that aint happening.

[MidWest]

The more and more I'm researching, the more I'm finding out that Beach resorts and destinations in Mexico suck for Bachelor parties. All resort hotels are "All inclusive" so that means no girls, and I'm not sure if renting a condo is worth it for the weak nightlife in Cancun, PV, Cabo and such.

The reason I wanted to do Mexico was because there are two 20 year olds that will be coming with us, so no entrance for them at clubs, bars, or strip clubs in Vegas.

[Drazen]

If you do Mexico, go to Cabo.

Stay in a hotel or time share near the downtown or the beach. A spot where you can WALK to the downtown area. Don't get a big house in the hills or whatever, just stay somewhere that you can walk into town and walk back and forth. There are hotels on the main beach, those would probably be optimal.

The ME Hotel if you have the money. The reason being, there are spring break type bars all over the place and many go pretty late if not all night, you have great logistics and during the daytime, there's Nikki Beach (pool party) at the ME hotel.

There are strip clubs, a few larger dance clubs, cheap dive bars, street tacos, etc. You can jetskii and do other crap like that on the beach, there are vendors, you can do a booze cruise, etc.

I think for this kind of factor, its superior than the other resort towns (never been to Cancun though). If you can swing it during spring break-ish time, there will be girls everywhere. Depends on what month you're planning to do it.

[Americas]

Why not go to DF? The parties there are better than beach towns anyways.

[MidWest]

(01-10-2015 01:54 AM)Americas Wrote:  

Why not go to DF? The parties there are better than beach towns anyways.

Yeah, that's what I was thinking man. You basically have everything there in one swoop. Great restaurants, descent nightlife, strip clubs, and many other activities imaginable.