[Griprip08]

So first off a hat goes off this community for showing me what's actually possible with women, all in about 4-5 months(so far).

At this point, I have scored a married chick my age that has simply been sending me texts with nothing but sexual inuendo. To be honest, I insinuated it like a good student, but it's all we talk about. I just found out I have the day off, and we have been kind of dodging each other lately so I said fuck it, told her I had the day off and that she should come over.

She replied with she has to work during the day, but would come in the morning. I gave her my address and it's pretty much on. It's weird but it's like I'm pretty sure we both know what's gonna happen, it's just getting there. Every other time I have fucked girls it's been during night game, and some the next morning. I've never really "had a girl come over to fuck" during the day, especially without putting in work (long story, but I haven't technically seen/talked to her in person for at least 6-8 months).

My new-found knowledge is telling me to just not give two fucks, and as soon as she enters lead her up to my room and simply say "We need to take care of something before we catch up" or something short/demanding of that nature.

Should I even bother with "warming her up" or trying to "seduce" her. Or is me just cave-manning it by bringing her up to my room to smash pretty much all that's needed?

I'm new to the whole harem scene, but If this goes well and I can keep her around, it'll be the start.

Thanks in advance

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

Absolutely maintain frame all the way through. Also, like a salesman, assume the sale. You let her come over to get her freak on, you just have to play "don't fuck up" game. Good luck bro.

[peterthephoenix]

A little small talk, touching and warm up is always good for foreplay.

[Pontifex Maximus]

- Assess IOI
- Alcohol
- Do the deed
- Bust and Glaze
- Leave room for some coffee
- Second helping.
- Boot
- Record

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-11951.html

[Rawmeo]

You didn't bang as long as your dick is not in her hole.

Get a movie, some alcohol a bit, anything to warm her up. If you jump on her right away, chances are that you will be seen as creepy, so just don't fuck up.

According to the rest of your post, yes she seems DTF, your chances to bang are 90% IMO.

[Travesty]

If she isn't ready to bang right away have a round of mimosas and make your move quickly.

[Remington]

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She replied with she has to work during the day, but would come in the morning.

If she is coming over in the morning and leaving after to go to work, this should tell you something. When you let her in, give her a kiss and give her a tour of your place. This will obviously start or end at your bedroom. If she has already seen your place, forget the tour and take her to your room and show her something you may have added or changed around. Proceed accordingly.

[Gatekeeper]

Using a bit of logic and insight here, if she wasn't interested, she'd never make a vested interest to meet you during the morning of all times.

[Moto]

Seeing some silly advise here, in my opinion, and also some good advise.

While I never banged a married woman, I've banged a cougar or two in my day.

Get right to business. It will be seen as weird or inexperienced if you bullshit with small talk or try to re-seduce her. I'm not saying tear her clothes off the moment she walks through the door, but get her to your room within a few minutes. Given that it is morning, I don't agree with the alcohol suggestions.

With one of the cougars I banged, we had very sexual text conversations like you have mentioned. Basically I met her at a hooka bar near my place, and after a few minutes she just pulled a bottle of whipped cream out of her purse (alluding to some of our texts...)

We just went straight to my house, right up to my room, and did the dirty a few times.

She wants some quick, dirty sex with an alpha. Don't deny her that or ruin her fantasy with a bunch of chit-chat and trying to win her over when she's already there and, like you said, dtf.

[Goldfinger]

She has to go to work after? I would go with Remington's advice, go in for a quick kiss, offer her a drink (non-alcoholic) or if she wants alcohol oblige. Then give here a tour of the place that should end at your bedroom, then maintain eye contact, look in her eyes then her lips and go in for the kiss.

This should be second nature to you now. After the bang, fill us in.

[Innuendo]

Don't waste any time, assume the sale and within 2-3 minutes of her inside your house go for the kiss.
The longer you wait the less chance of banging her you have, she's there for one reason.

[Latan]

Want to know the end of this story

[CerebralZealot]

Just be normal. Know that there's nothing you need to game here if she shows up straight at your apartment, just don't fuck it up.

Sit her on your bed, when she initially comes. Unless you have a huge-ass apartment, in that case I dunno. Then chat a little bit, sit next to her --> go for the kill.

If escalating feels awkward, a great little move to get close is to just "reward-hug" her for some stupid shit. Then go for the make-out and it's all good.

[Cyclone]

(12-10-2014 01:38 PM)Innuendo Wrote:  

Don't waste any time, assume the sale and within 2-3 minutes of her inside your house go for the kiss.
The longer you wait the less chance of banging her you have, she's there for one reason.

Honestly, i would kiss immediately upon her entering. Just on the neck or cheek, like a European hello~ it just oozes comfort, which is all you need. And then forget about anything sexual for at least 5 minutes while you warm up some coffee and bring both cups to yr room - "I was just in the middle of this youtube video..."
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[Rawmeo]

So how did it go?

[Griprip08]

I'm going to be completely honest here, and it pains me as man to even admit it, but it didn't happen. I waited till about 11 and went to the gym. She texts me just as I get there and goes "Let me know if you still want me to come over..." to which I reply "at the gym, but yeah come over" She says "I have work at 3, when should I come over", me "Just come over right before work" her "what time do you want me there haha"......aannddd I didn't respond till about 2PM (takes her 20 to get to my place) so she essentially ran out of time. Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation, but I would have hoped she just would have showed up after getting the "yeah come over" (ASD? Plausible Deniability?). I guess this girl really needs me to lead her all the way to my zipper step-by-step. (again, wouldn't be surprised as most do).

I basically panicked for a couple of reasons. One, it hit me that my room/apartment isn't really a bachelor pad atmosphere (even after cleaning it thoroughly, and not that it matters to a great extent). Not putting too much emphasis on this but it just didn't help in creating the mood I wanted, or reinforcing my confidence. The real underlying issue is my confidence level in this certain situation. Like I said, I have never had a chick just come over to fuck without actually seeing her in the last 8 months. Usually it's always established beforehand. This time, while I was sure she was basically slapping me in the face with the texts telling me to blast her open, there was still some weird resistance with her consistently asking when to come over and if she should still come over etc. etc. (again, probably ASD or PD). Not to mention this would be the first time she would see me, or my place.

I told her I met a buddy and lost track of time at the gym. She said it happens, but from the following texts she didn't seem to lose interest (kept apologizing and saying "I wasn't trying to be mean, it's your day off after all" etc etc). I can almost tell though her "fantasy" of coming over to fuck a bad-boy (compared to her husband) was bruised a bit. I'd say this is me "flaking" and trying to push/pull her but I honestly just pussied out.

I did force myself to learn/take away something from this though. I went online and bought some more posters, a TV, and a couple of other things that will come in handy to getting chicks upstairs to my bedroom, and comfortable enough for me to position myself for the kill.

Sorry for the build-up fellas. One thing though, once I do get the bang (It's inevitable at this point) I'll update with how it went and what I actually did, as I feel like if you don't have the right tools/experience, getting a chick over to "hang out" and getting the bang before even taking her out is an area that isn't talked about much/some people struggle with (that's my weak spot at least)

Cheers and thanks for the input, it will be remembered from this point forward.

TLR - Pussied out, told her I got stuck at the gym, learned from it.

[Saweeep]

Funny thing is, she will probably want you more now as a result of you flaking on her for the gym.

Don't fuck it up this time and remember the old adage about a woman will fuck a guy she likes on an old mattress in an abandoned warehouse.

[L M McCoy]

Take it as a learning experience man.

Besides, its not like she came over, got naked, was DTF, and your foolishness made her leave.

[kaotic]

Crash has got it dialed, her ego probably got a bit brusied because you flaked, meaning you do whatever the fuck you wanted and she was second (not putting pussy on the pedestal).

High probability you'll finally meet up and smash, good luck.

[Rawmeo]

^same. Next time don't fuck up.

[Latan]

Don't worry about your appartment's atmosphere.

My walls are white and naked, no decoration, 1 bed, 1 computer, 1 guitar, done.
Every time a woman enters mine she asks "did you just move here?".
I answer "yeah, how did you know?" while smiling, and we go on. (3 years I'm here, but who cares?)

Remember, she comes to see you, not your walls.
Next time, don't hesistate and bang her.

[Remington]

Don't buy posters to put up unless you want your place to look like a college dorm room. If you have traveled, put some pictures into a nice frame and hang them. It will serve as a good conversation starter when you bring women back to your place as well as improve the overall look of your place. Also, mirrors do a great job of adding to the walls and empty space.

[General Mayhem]

(12-11-2014 06:52 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  

I'm going to be completely honest here, and it pains me as man to even admit it, but it didn't happen. I waited till about 11 and went to the gym. She texts me just as I get there and goes "Let me know if you still want me to come over..." to which I reply "at the gym, but yeah come over" She says "I have work at 3, when should I come over", me "Just come over right before work" her "what time do you want me there haha"......aannddd I didn't respond till about 2PM (takes her 20 to get to my place) so she essentially ran out of time. Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation, but I would have hoped she just would have showed up after getting the "yeah come over" (ASD? Plausible Deniability?). I guess this girl really needs me to lead her all the way to my zipper step-by-step. (again, wouldn't be surprised as most do).

I'm assuming you waited for her to text you first.

At the end I think you recognized your own problem. You hopped in the passenger seat and hoped she would drive.

"Let me know if you still want me to come over..."

Translation: "Tell me when to come over so we can fuck."

At that point all you had to do was give her a time.

"Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation."

Only when you fail to lead them. She keeps asking because your answers are weak and passive. "I'm at the gym, but yeah come over" doesn't cut it in this pretext. That doesn't give her the information she needs to hear, and that's why she keeps asking.

Channel your inner Don: "Finishing up at the gym. Come over at noon."

This is a strong statement full of information. It lets her know that your Parents will be gone/Grandma will be asleep/Roommates will be at work, dog will be fed, etc, and you will be ready to see her.

IMO, you have to get in a leader's mindset i.e. nothing is going to happen unless you make it happen.

[bigbait]

(12-12-2014 05:19 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(12-11-2014 06:52 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  

I'm going to be completely honest here, and it pains me as man to even admit it, but it didn't happen. I waited till about 11 and went to the gym. She texts me just as I get there and goes "Let me know if you still want me to come over..." to which I reply "at the gym, but yeah come over" She says "I have work at 3, when should I come over", me "Just come over right before work" her "what time do you want me there haha"......aannddd I didn't respond till about 2PM (takes her 20 to get to my place) so she essentially ran out of time. Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation, but I would have hoped she just would have showed up after getting the "yeah come over" (ASD? Plausible Deniability?). I guess this girl really needs me to lead her all the way to my zipper step-by-step. (again, wouldn't be surprised as most do).

I'm assuming you waited for her to text you first.

At the end I think you recognized your own problem. You hopped in the passenger seat and hoped she would drive.

"Let me know if you still want me to come over..."

Translation: "Tell me when to come over so we can fuck."

At that point all you had to do was give her a time.

"Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation."

Only when you fail to lead them. She keeps asking because your answers are weak and passive. "I'm at the gym, but yeah come over" doesn't cut it in this pretext. That doesn't give her the information she needs to hear, and that's why she keeps asking.

Channel your inner Don: "Finishing up at the gym. Come over at noon."

This is a strong statement full of information. It lets her know that your Parents will be gone/Grandma will be asleep/Roommates will be at work, dog will be fed, etc, and you will be ready to see her.

IMO, you have to get in a leader's mindset i.e. nothing is going to happen unless you make it happen.

You don't have to lead with everything. But you ALWAYS need to lead with logistics because it is the most basic form of leadership. You are running point on this operation.

[General Mayhem]

(12-13-2014 07:32 PM)bigbait Wrote:  

(12-12-2014 05:19 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(12-11-2014 06:52 PM)Griprip08 Wrote:  

I'm going to be completely honest here, and it pains me as man to even admit it, but it didn't happen. I waited till about 11 and went to the gym. She texts me just as I get there and goes "Let me know if you still want me to come over..." to which I reply "at the gym, but yeah come over" She says "I have work at 3, when should I come over", me "Just come over right before work" her "what time do you want me there haha"......aannddd I didn't respond till about 2PM (takes her 20 to get to my place) so she essentially ran out of time. Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation, but I would have hoped she just would have showed up after getting the "yeah come over" (ASD? Plausible Deniability?). I guess this girl really needs me to lead her all the way to my zipper step-by-step. (again, wouldn't be surprised as most do).

I'm assuming you waited for her to text you first.

At the end I think you recognized your own problem. You hopped in the passenger seat and hoped she would drive.

"Let me know if you still want me to come over..."

Translation: "Tell me when to come over so we can fuck."

At that point all you had to do was give her a time.

"Idk If it's just normal to have girls consistently ask for confirmation."

Only when you fail to lead them. She keeps asking because your answers are weak and passive. "I'm at the gym, but yeah come over" doesn't cut it in this pretext. That doesn't give her the information she needs to hear, and that's why she keeps asking.

Channel your inner Don: "Finishing up at the gym. Come over at noon."

This is a strong statement full of information. It lets her know that your Parents will be gone/Grandma will be asleep/Roommates will be at work, dog will be fed, etc, and you will be ready to see her.

IMO, you have to get in a leader's mindset i.e. nothing is going to happen unless you make it happen.

You don't have to lead with everything. But you ALWAYS need to lead with logistics because it is the most basic form of leadership. You are running point on this operation.

I disagree.

You should strive to be the leader in the your interactions with people. I'm not saying that you have to call every shot, that is just overbearing.

Having a leaders mindset is knowing that every time you walk through the door you have the power to change the energy of the room. Same goes for setting the tone of the relationship, it's all on you. Most people aren't leaders and they will follow your lead.