I disagree.
I have a main girl I've been dating for 10 months now.
I was fucking multiple girls before her, I still fuck on the side constantly along with her, and I'll fuck multiple girls after.
(I have an abundance mindset)
My main girl
complements my life, we enjoy each others time, and go on trips/shows/dinner together.
She lives 30-45 mins away, I don't game much in my own city so I can bring her around. I game girls and bang girls from other nearby cities that come to my regular bar and bounce to my house.
We hangout 1-2 times a week, I let her text/call/snap me most the time.
As far as hiding it, I don't need to, I don't give a fuck, I'm not paranoid, I don't save any girls numbers, girls try and leave shit at my house but I toss it out. I don't use condoms much.
I'd also say 85% percent of the girls I bang on the side are DTF, Plates, or ONS.
Just because I'm fucking girls on the side does NOT mean the end is near for my main relationship,
I think it makes my relationship with her stronger.
I think men need to hunt outside their relationships in order to not pedestalize pussy, not treat their main like shit, and to keep a sane mind.
When I hangout with my main I'm not worried about other girls, I'm not worried about her finding out, reason being, I
maintain a very strong frame in our relationship.
Besides I'll always throw in joke like
"shit you're almost here ? Better kick this other girl out"
"just got off work headed to my side bitches house"
"oh you know headed to the strip club to see my girl"
None of these cases was I serious but it relaxes any paranoia about getting caught.
I don't think I'd ever get married, just because you're in a LTR does NOT mean it's headed to marriage,
I enjoy the moment I'm in with the girl I'm with.
If you decide to be loyal to your girl and not bang on the side, that's rad, and more power to you.
If you decide to cheat, or always fuck on the side, keep on doing it, and don't worry about morals.
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Right now I am single, and plan to be until I really find the right girl (not actively searching). Marriage doesn't even cross my mind in seriousness right now, and I hope it stays like that for many more years
If marriage doesn't cross your mind they why are you saying the above about the right girl ? This reminds me of scarcity and the search for the one. (Pedastalization)
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What is your opinion on marriage (now and in the future) in general?
Marriage to me is going down hill - 10 years together is the new 30 years together.
Divorce rape and biased courts towards women, I don't see marriage being a good thing in the future.
I respect the men who stay loyal to their girls and don't bang on the side, that's honorable in my book. But doesn't get you very far when most girls don't return the favor in kind.