Quote: (10-30-2014 09:57 AM)Constitution45 Wrote:
Last month I have had a few run ins with girls who show interest and attraction, initiating meeting up and hanging out etc. But it comes to me that they are painfully insecure. Obviously all women to some extent are insecure, but I was wondering how was the best way to attract them. Building comfort seems like a good step forwards however there is a risk of falling into a friendzone.
I prefer to be straight forward and it usually works well for me, but this is a sticking point.
Any advice would be welcomed.
Kinda leaving out some important details like..
- what country you're in
- how old these chicks are
- where your game is
- your definition of comfort and rapport
- what you're interpreting as insecurity...
- whether or not you've banged
- how much work you're willing to put in
- whether or not you've giving off the "great guy" vibe.
Some girls are young, some are inexperienced, some are confused as to what they want from you...
Some chicks are insecure about themselves generally, in certain circumstances, about their bodies.
Dark side game teaches guys to hone in on those insecurities and exploit them.
Red pill game might suggest that her insecurities are a subconscious ploy to get you to become responsible for her.
Regular ol pick up artist game sees his as an opportunity to turn it into laughter
Pimp game would sell her a dream, and in that dream she's no longer insecure.
Lotta players would read your chick's insecurity as her having daddy issues, which would might lead to an exploration of those themes.
Lots of angles to play, lots of situations that might be happening, plenty of factors
But with the scenario you layed out above, it's not even clear as to what you're asking.
WIA