Quote: (10-19-2014 03:39 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:
It all comes down to this. A girl suffers no penalty for behaving how she wants when she wants.
She does suffer though.
Everytime a chick randomly makes out with a dude, bangs some guy off of OkCupid because she was bored and horny - she
- damages herself and her ability to connect
- she lowers her value to other guys
- she becomes immune to genuine emotion and addicted to emotional thrills
And ultimately that leads her to unfulfilling relationships with Alphas who don't care about her, and betas that she doesn't care about. Have a kid and sometimes realize still something else is missing. (she's probably been sold a bill of goods on eternal happiness....but I digress)
It's just that she never makes the connection between her constant if not consistent unhappiness and her behavior. (that's the core of my beef, they never get a comeuppance...just continue to fail upward)
Lot of these bitches are miserable, even though her Instagram life is jet setting to the Seychelles and buying a new pair of heels when fancy strikes.
Guys suffer from this too. They bitch about X,Y, and Z (girls, politics, money) and don't connect those problems with the fact that they aren't very social, they aren't running for office, they are stuck in industries where they can never make enough money to get out of the rat race.
WIA