Hey Guys,
Im new to the thread been reading some posts for awhile. Although 31, i feel new to this 'dating' game. I grew up a shy guy and only had a few LTR's and not much in-between. I'd say the main raison behind that is always being shy growing up.
Let me give a scenario here that happened to me a few months ago. I was dating (or thought i was) a girl (32 yrs old) for about 4 months. We conversated everyday either talked or text, I met her daughter on multiple occasions. We went on multiple 'dates', obviously sex was going on during this whole 4 months. I also had my gal pal's over for a cookout in which she was over. My gal pal even asked how long have you guys been dating and she said '3months'. So i take off some time in mid july to hang out as we kinda had conflicting schedules, at this point she was kinda feeling distant however, these dates were already pre-arranged she gave me the dates. So last day i see her i have her and her young daughter over for dinner. Then the next day (i wish i asked in person) I send a txt asking where we stand? At this point she kinda disappears and non responsive or delays in txts. She's like it bother's me that you took off, i don't want commitment. Conversation stopped there a 5 days later i sent a txt basically asking what happened there we were dating for 4 months. Basically she sends an arrogant response saying thats just it we were never dating. I'm tired of guys assuming im dating them. I don't go into this world trying to break men's hearts, its just that every man that crosses my path i unintentionally crush their hearts.
Although at this point i don't want a relationship i'd much rather be single and run some game after this situation, More to grow confidence and lessen impact of a future heartbreak.
But at what point are you 'dating'. My intentions after meeting her were to 'date' her, so obviously we were both on 2 different pages here. I'm assuming most women wouldn't introduce their 7 yr old kid to some random f-buddy. I kinda thought that was the tell tale sign i was dating and after my friend asked her 'how long were you dating' and she even gave an answer. Then all the sudden when she disappears like a David Copperfield magic trick 'we were never dating'. Sounds like a rookie question here but am i to assume we are never dating unless there is conversation around it?
Im new to the thread been reading some posts for awhile. Although 31, i feel new to this 'dating' game. I grew up a shy guy and only had a few LTR's and not much in-between. I'd say the main raison behind that is always being shy growing up.
Let me give a scenario here that happened to me a few months ago. I was dating (or thought i was) a girl (32 yrs old) for about 4 months. We conversated everyday either talked or text, I met her daughter on multiple occasions. We went on multiple 'dates', obviously sex was going on during this whole 4 months. I also had my gal pal's over for a cookout in which she was over. My gal pal even asked how long have you guys been dating and she said '3months'. So i take off some time in mid july to hang out as we kinda had conflicting schedules, at this point she was kinda feeling distant however, these dates were already pre-arranged she gave me the dates. So last day i see her i have her and her young daughter over for dinner. Then the next day (i wish i asked in person) I send a txt asking where we stand? At this point she kinda disappears and non responsive or delays in txts. She's like it bother's me that you took off, i don't want commitment. Conversation stopped there a 5 days later i sent a txt basically asking what happened there we were dating for 4 months. Basically she sends an arrogant response saying thats just it we were never dating. I'm tired of guys assuming im dating them. I don't go into this world trying to break men's hearts, its just that every man that crosses my path i unintentionally crush their hearts.
Although at this point i don't want a relationship i'd much rather be single and run some game after this situation, More to grow confidence and lessen impact of a future heartbreak.
But at what point are you 'dating'. My intentions after meeting her were to 'date' her, so obviously we were both on 2 different pages here. I'm assuming most women wouldn't introduce their 7 yr old kid to some random f-buddy. I kinda thought that was the tell tale sign i was dating and after my friend asked her 'how long were you dating' and she even gave an answer. Then all the sudden when she disappears like a David Copperfield magic trick 'we were never dating'. Sounds like a rookie question here but am i to assume we are never dating unless there is conversation around it?