Quote: (09-13-2014 09:43 PM)Valhalla Wrote:
I've used the searched feature and read that thread about slowly destroying a girl's view of her boyfriend. I don't feel this is a practical way to get a girl who has a boyfriends, and it seems very difficult to actually apply, "theoretical", and a long term sort of strategy.
I was wondering what everyone's practical way to steal girl with a boyfriend is. I'm talking about girls you approach through daygame on campuses and such so you're not in a club trying to SNL her.
How do you seduce women with boyfriends?
The "boyfriend destroyer" stuff works. So do canned routines and a lot of old "technical" sounding pick up advice - most guys read it and never try it out themselves - the culture of peer review is dead in pick up, but I digress.
If you're at a club, you approach a chick, get her to open and then she blurts out she has a boyfriend - you ignore it and game on. Keep running yer yap to develop the chemistry with her, and escalate verbally and physically. If you can loosen her inhibitions, that will serve you well. (Unless your lazy and would rather ping off broads until you find one immediately receptive to your rap)
I have a feeling that's not what you're talking about.
Sounds like you're talking about a social circle situation where you know dude, or know beforehand that she has a dude.
So if that's the case, if a chick goes out unaccompanied, she's fair game. In which case you handle it like any pick up situation. (hell I've gotten phone #'s from chicks while they're on dates w/other dudes)
Approach, spit, and then if the conversation opens, run game.
If a chick keeps mentioning that she has a boyfriend, I ignore it.
Here's why.
If a chick really doesn't want to mess with you, she'll avoid you physically. or she'll say "No, I don't like you. You're ugly. Get the fuck out of my face."
Bitches tend to not have a problem shooing away guys that are "beneath" them.
But if she says, "I have a boyfriend, I have a to get up early in the morning".. It's helpful to think of these as "less than true" denials. In general bitches are lazy and just want an easy way to make a guy go away without having to be truly honest/mean. She wants to let guys down easy. Unless she's a bitch, in which case she revels in putting a guy down.
Arguably these kind of chicks don't want to fuck with you either, but she's giving you material to work with. Consciously, but probably subconsciously.
She's deflecting.
"here's a logical reason why you should stop talking to me"
The idiot engages in her logic trap.
The player goes for her emotional jugular.
From there you've got cold reads galore.
"What's holding you back?"
"I can tell by the way you talk to me, that there's something there"
"there's something between us, don't deny it"
That sort of non-committal, mushy, feelings, type talk.
Getting her to admit that she likes talking to you, then that she likes you, plus physical touch, and maybe a smidgen of wine - and you'll be banging before you know it.
I've done this to other guys, other guys have done this to me.
It's the game.
These hoes ain't loyal.
WIA
