Quote: (09-08-2014 05:11 PM)The Father Wrote:
I've had women hit me. If you HAVEN'T made your woman mad enough to hit you, you probably aren't getting them to fall in love with you. Or you're dating a very cold fish.
Quote: (09-08-2014 06:37 PM)MdWanderer Wrote:
Yep, sadly you need drama in your life in order to keep a woman. I fought with plenty of women at work in the past and some of them were throwing sexual innuendos at me afterwards. I personally don't like beefing with women I've been banging (I like to keep things positive) but it looks like that's too my detriment.
I have a zero-drama policy, and I think that's best, no exceptions. Disrespect from a woman, including physical violence or even anything approaching it (breaking plates, throwing things,
even raising her voice at me), is completely unacceptable.
I have zero use for a woman who raises her voice at me, much less gets physical. All these things come out as you're getting to know a person.
She may not disrespect you when you're getting to know her, but she'll disrespect the homeless guy you walk next to, the waiter that serves you at dinner, or anyone else she feels, in her mind, is less than her, and that's all you need to know to see what kind of person she really is.
Unless you feed off of drama, avoid these women at all costs. There's simply no need for toxic women (or people) in your life, they poison you and drag you down.
If you're a guy with low impulse-control, like this athlete, and you're dating a woman with low impulse-control, like this woman, you've got to get a bodyguard to follow you around at all times and prevent this kind of thing from happening, similar to what Jay Z does with his wife's sister who thinks communicating with her fists is a normal and acceptable way to communicate with Jay Z.
I have no experience at this level of escalation because my zero-tolerance policy has so far prevented anything from getting to that point, but if you've got to be around women like this for whatever reason, you've at least got to put a barrier between yourself and their ignorance and lack of culture.
But why even bother? Why bring that kind of trash into your life? What value does it ultimately provide? None, for me anyhow.