Quote: (09-08-2014 02:11 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
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For example, if you're facially-challenged, you can grow a beard, wear a headband, and become a biker. Then you're not the ugly dude, you're "biker guy." Who cares if you're bike only has 2K miles on it? It's the image that matters.
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But you can devise something completely different to sidestep whatever inadequacies you have. Think of it as the male version of the women who create weird "looks" because they're facially-challenged -- except in the man's case, this method can actually work.
Good point. One of the recommended factors in Game - Krauser, Steve Jabba and the London Daygamers have written about it. It is good to become a Type of Man that women like to fuck.
Nowadays the varieties are endless - from cool Hipster, Surfer-Dude, R-selected exciting Lover, Biker, Indiana-Jones traveler, the Latino-style dancer etc. - anything goes really. And I don't mean to actually tell guys to become something they are not. Everyone should find some niche, that he actually likes being and that women find exciting.
Being a couch-potato, a World of Warcraft addict in sandals and shorts, someone always dressing cookie-cutter style for his job and private life too - those are not the guys women dream of fucking.
In a way it seems that men are the gender which thrives on individuality instead of women. We actually care less about female "uniqueness" - as long as they are pretty and slim most men would be fine with women having similar hairstyle and wearing bikinis and tight skirts and dresses.
Just look at the porn made for the genders - the guys have girls who are young and lose their clothes pretty soon. The women have got written porn, where the men are powerful businessmen, sailors, pirates, ex-cons, bikers, stable-boys, priests etc. - all types which create plenty of 'gina-tingles. Women want individual types - almost caricatures in real life!