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Keep in mind - they lie too

[carolinasmash]

(08-29-2014 01:53 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I did a search 3 times could not find this thread, although its arguments have been done amongst many threads.

I recently had sex with a girl that is 20 on a first date. I would like to mini-relationship her.

My online dating profile states I am 25. I'm 29.

After sex she said:
"so you're 25 and your birthday is what month?"

I told her the month, but did not say my real age. Her profile said looking for 20-32yo.

When and how should I drop my real age to give myself the best chances of maintaining the comfort necessary to transition to a mini-relationship at some point?

This girl works to support herself and was very cool to me. I want to drop it in the way that hurts her as least as possible. I already feel guilty because she pretty much did everything a girl is supposed to do on a date to be feminine and kind to me.

Just go ahead and dump the bomb before you get too invested. Just say you can't stand girls your age and decided to fib about it. Down play it as much as possible. Or go do a marathon round blow her mind and do the same

If I were you I'd just go NC see if she is really that interested and if so stay NC for a few more days then ask to meet up and confess that is why you went NC. Do your best to not make it about her or you and see where it goes. Might work might not

[Spider]

When I go out in NYC I often find myself gaming girls 25-30ish age range. I've been going out since I was a teenager so I've always exaggerated by several years.

Banged a 34 year old last summer who thought I was 31 (because I was suited up and have a beard). After I finished banging her I rolled over and told her I was 21 just to get her hamster spinning.

There are generally only 2 outcomes when you tell a girl your real age:
- She's cool with it and doesn't care because she likes you
- She tries to rationalize why it's ok for her to fuck a guy 10 years younger (or older) than her

^ either way if she's fucking you she likes you or is very attracted to you so I wouldn't worry about 'lying' or feeling bad about it. Game on.

[Indy]

I say 28 on Tinder and I'm really 38. Most girls tell me I look 25... So I'm considering buying some hair dye and lying down even more.

After a while I start dating myself by the stories I tell and then they bring it up. By that point, they're invested and we've already banged so it's pretty much a non-issue.

I just smirk and say "28... Give or take a decade."

[robreke]

What if it develops into a long enough relationship where your birthday rolls around? Are you going to not invite her to a party or a get together your friends have for you? Are you going to tell all your friends to lie about your age at the party for her sake?
I actually did this once. I had a long term girlfriend who I told was 28 when I was 32. My birthday came 6 or so months later and her and her parents came to my house with a birthday cake with 29 candles on it. Of course I was turning 33. I just smiled politely and blew out the candles feeling a bit guilty.
The point is, if it's a long enough relationship, somethings got to give when your birthday rolls around.

[swuglyfe]

Often when doing game, day and night, I run into girls in their mid-20s. I automatically say my age is about 1 to 2 years older than them.

[~wrIghter~]

My tinder age is 2 years younger than I am, but when they ask I tell them my real age. I'm only 27 so I think I'm at a good age to reach younger and older chicks. I much prefer to date girls in the 18-24 range. I was 25 when my ex was 22. The last girl I went out with was 21. I think its all about attraction though, if a girl really wants you its possible that she'll ignore it...unless she has a strict age rule, perhaps its about the game you bring as well.