[MrXY]

(08-29-2014 11:19 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

(08-29-2014 10:23 AM)Onto Wrote:  

No need to tell your age. I have mine listed online at mid 30s and I'm 43. If a girl finds out or calls me on it I'll say someting like, "Yeah, it's because most women say 35yrs max, but I know deep down they really want a good man, so to help them I put my age at 35"

I lie on my dating profile and put it 7 years younger.

When I get asked my age in person I tell the truth.

Then they say "but your profile says xx"

"Oh, yeah that's because when I had my real age on there all these old chicks were messaging me as if I want that".

Then I make a comical shudder.

Hasn't failed me yet.

That's how I handle it too if I want to see her again

I say "When had my real age all the site showed me were old women. I prefer to date women from __ to __ (age range that includes her)

If I figure it will be a one off, i just lie

[azulsombra]

Maintain the lie until she is hooked.

When i was 23 i kept running into girls that were 26 and 27 who said i was too young. Crazy right? These were foreign born Latinas though and strongly preferred older guys. So i magically became 26 and let my beard grow out. A few of these girls turned into mini relationships..after a few months some found out but it didnt matter at that point.

Then around 27 i kept running into girls that were like 19-21.. i magically became 23 again.

Its silly that an age difference of less than 7yrs up or down can even matter for a man but it can be a hurdle for a significant amount of females in North america today.

[Travesty]

Well the consensus has spoken haha.

I think I have my marching orders.

[Teddykgb]

(08-29-2014 09:34 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

Half of the time a girl ask me how old I am I tell her to guess, they ALWAYS guess somewhere in the 20's (I'm 34) and whatever 20 something they say I say yep, good guess! They get all excited like they achieved greatness and it helps with gaming them.

The other half of the time if its a girl I am thinking about seeing more then once I say I'm 28. That way its easier for me to remember and keep up with my lies.

I was dating a girl in college a few years ago for about 6 months and she thought I was 28 the whole time, she was 21. One night when I was staying at her house I felt real ill at night, I was sweating then freezing and felt super sick. I had no idea what was going on so she ended up taking me to the ER. The woman at the hospital was taking my information and asked me my date of birth... I kind of mumbled it and she ask again so I said it an my girlfriend herd me and said well that sure doesn't make you 28 ha. It didn't matter by then I had her hooked, she just kind of laughed it off and said she didn't care. I'm not sure if you would have cared if she knew when I first started gaming her or not.

I must have read that exact strategy somewhere on the forums before. They also said that the girl will usually guess the age that they want you to be.

I just did this yesterday. She guessed 26 (I'm 27)

I just said "good guess" in the tone like she guessed correctly and gave her a high 5.

[Giovonny]

I lie about my age to every girl I meet.

I even lie about my age to myself.

What is "age" anyways? How many times the earth has gone around the sun? Who gives a fuck!?!?!

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You like this girl, obviously.

You don't want to get caught in a lie. You don't want to lose her.

The lie has already been told. There is no going back now!

I wouldn't say anything about it.

Keep you drivers license, passport, etc, out of sight.

Treat her good, have a great time.

If she ever finds out, just apologize and hopefully she likes you enough to forgive you.

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I have gotten caught many times.

The girl is usually upset at first but she usually forgives me because I am such a nice guy who treats her well.

I apologize and tell them that I was afraid that they would think I was too old. They usually understand.

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Living a lie sucks. It's stressful.. Especially, when you really like the girl.

Just treat her well so that the only bad thing you ever did to her was lie about your age.

She should forgive you, if you get caught.

There is a good chance that you will never get caught.

Hide your personal documents and treat her well, that's all I can say.

[R Smoov]

Quick question: Can this relate to sex too? Like say you've had sex twice but still don't know what you're doing. Could you just tell girls you're a virgin before you fuck?

[Texas_Tryhard]

Don't tell a girl you're a virgin. That's displaying that you've not been "chosen" by any other girl, and makes you look bad.

EDIT: I think the above post was a joke and I didn't notice until I got off the phone app that you have an epic post count. Was this beta?

[Travesty]

Well another splash of red pill to the face.

I thought this girl in question who had moved away from the party scene after a year (most girls party all 4 at this college) was somewhat less of a hoe. Maybe 8-10 dicks by just having turned 20. She said on one of the first dates she did coke and E for a bit but got sick of it.

I prodded a little about her recent dating history to see if any crazy exes are in the picture. Nothing there we kept talking and for whatever reason I decided to drop my real age it was no big deal to her.

Somehow we got onto the topic of her lesbian crushes and she asks if I had a threesome before. I say you first, hoping she would talk about girl sex experiences and could weasel my way to get a threesome with her and another chick.

Said she had 2 different MFM threesomes one while so drugged up she didn't realize what was going on until halfway through. I dug a little further and found out she had 19 cocks total (probably more).

Lol can't see her as mini-LTR material anymore. I am somehow fine assuming a girl is a slut in my rotation but hearing stories first hand I have a hard time looking them in the eye or kissing them.

Glad I got this info early before I was dumb enough to like her too much.

This messes with my head though because I think it's long overdue for me to have a mini-LTR or LTR with a non-hoe before I start becoming permamently
jaded towards women. It really makes
me want to quit gaming any girls with even a hint of party girl or slut in their presence which means being much more patient and targeting better.

I guess I will have more time to work on myself as well which is a plus.

Anyone else experience similar? I haven't been at this point yet, was fine just banging A-Z before didn't matter.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Just goes to show - don't ask if you really DON'T want to know

Nowadays I just ASSUME she has a checkered past or a current FWB (More girls are willing to openly admit this now)

Especially that young (19 cocks?) might as well round up - even 20 and counting...

I feel ya though. The price she pays in my eyes though is exorbitant

[Travesty]

I don't ever ask except if I am about to dump a chick off rotation and just want to do my own survey research or I am thinking about something more meaningful. I have tried looking past checkered histories of girls if they are a cool and caring person, but it doesn't work for me so I now come off as extremely non- judgemental, get a few drinks in them, turn the conversation to sex to try and get a few surpise truths out of them.

Golden hamster line with her shortly
before prodding about the threesomes and cocks:

Me: remember the first night after we had sex you giggled to yourself ... what did you say?

Her: oh haha yeah... i said this really isn't my style

Me: what did you mean by that?

Her: i don't sleep with someone that quick

Me: so you've never hooked up with a guy the first night you met at a party or whatever?

Her: of course I have! but not on a date! (said like I was foolish for asking the question because the answer is obvious then she immediately realized what atrocious girl game she performed and you could see the sting in her face)

American girls' Girl Game is truly horrific these days.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

(09-17-2014 12:52 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

I don't ever ask except if I am about to dump a chick off rotation and just want to do my own survey research or I am thinking about something more meaningful. I have tried looking past checkered histories of girls if they are a cool and caring person, but it doesn't work for me so I now come off as extremely non- judgemental, get a few drinks in them, turn the conversation to sex to try and get a few surpise truths out of them.

Golden hamster line with her shortly
before prodding about the threesomes and cocks:

Me: remember the first night after we had sex you giggled to yourself ... what did you say?

Her: oh haha yeah... i said this really isn't my style

Me: what did you mean by that?

Her: i don't sleep with someone that quick

Me: so you've never hooked up with a guy the first night you met at a party or whatever?

Her: of course I have! but not on a date! (said like I was foolish for asking the question because the answer is obvious then she immediately realized what atrocious girl game she performed and you could see the sting in her face)

American girls' Girl Game is truly horrific these days.

Hell, why not? Nothing to lose AFTER you've fucked here to your satisfaction.

I recently asked one (pre bang) about her sexual past and she was very candid. Had no problem admitting to her on again and off again fuck buddy

Then she turns around and has the audacity asks what we are doing on our "first date"...

I couldn't keep a straight face

[Travesty]

^ If a girl has a sex drive she needs taken care of while searching for new dick I think it is a much less whorish way to do that with an exe or single fuck buddy.

The girl I am talking about getting fucked up on drugs getting doubled teamed, hooking up at parties left and right, and of course having a bunch of orbiter guy friends on top of it, been in physically abusive relationships.

A whole other level lol.

My player friend when first seeing her profile pic said:

"she looks like a girl that cheats on her BF"

Outside parties always tell the truth!

Of course she has no tatts, no piercings, huge bookworm of all classic literature, cooks, conservative with money, works alot, and wants a family and kids more than anything.

Mindfuck.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Yes, I agree that's on the extreme side

Guess the point I was trying to make is that when a chick has too much shall we say "experience" at such a young age, it ALWAYS disqualifies her to be taken serious in my eyes.

Is what it is I suppose - guess I'm jaded and always screening

If you don't cherish your pussy, why should anyone else?

As the great Dave Chappelle once joked "It pussy was a stock, it would be plummeting right now"...

[Nomad77]

I found the best thing to do is to allow a girl to believe whatever age she wants to believe you are. So when she ask you how old you are, tell her to guess. If she's young just tell her she was close and subtract two years from whatever her guess was. If she is older, just add two years. Of course, make sure you hide your IDs well.

[OregonToSoCal]

I always try to dodge the question whenever possible without outright lying. After banging, and especially if you banged her well she honestly won't give a shit how old you are. The hamster will go into overdrive to rationalize away any concerns she had over your age if the sex was good enough.

[heavy]

Don't. She'd rather find out on her own.

She'll care you lied, because it's slightly beta to lie your age down (note I'm not against it...I have mine listed at 30 and plan to keep it there a few years)...but it's more beta to then confess to her.

When/if she finds out, just smirk, "did you really think I was 25".

Then be impressed at her ability to find out your real age. Chics love thinking they were clever and can't be fooled.

[Rawmeo]

If you lied at the beginning, enjoy the bang while it lasts, but don't expect anything serious. Someone who can lie on a thing like that can lie on anything. Only good if you're planning a mini-relationship with a disposable girl.

[horn]

(08-29-2014 04:34 AM)Pinocchio Wrote:  

why would you lie about 29? 39 maybe..

Girls honestly do not care. Their hamster will rationalize you being 9, 15, 23 years older. No problem.

Frankly, if you're older they assume you're better and are more willing to do freaky shit with them/to them.

[AneroidOcean]

(10-13-2014 04:25 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  

If you lied at the beginning, enjoy the bang while it lasts, but don't expect anything serious. Someone who can lie on a thing like that can lie on anything. Only good if you're planning a mini-relationship with a disposable girl.

No. If you have them enamored of you (like you should) they will give no fucks when it comes right down to it if you didn't initially tell them your accurate age.

This is about the extent the vast majority of girls will think after you've been fucking them and they find out your real age is x number of years higher/lower:

"OMG he's not xx age? No wonder he fucks me so good [or conversely, I wonder how he knows how to fuck so well at that younger age]"

[tattiemasher]

I realise now I've been doing it wrong. I look younger than my age and any time a girl asks how old I am, I say 'guess' and I always get them going for between 23 and 25. Next time I'll just roll with the 23 instead of correcting them.

[Brodiaga]

I lie about my age, but not by much.

Here is a problem if your name is not common, like John Smith. If you date a girl and she comes to your place regularly, she will eventually find out your full name and then look you up online. Then she will find out your age from web sites like mylife.com and pipl.com even if you don't post it on Facebook or anywhere else. Of course, the best course of action is to never tell her your full name, but it may be next to your buzzer, mailbox, your phone bill she finds laying around. Or she may flat our ask you your full name, and you will kind of have to tell her if you've been dating for awhile. Basically, she'll find out sooner or later. Obviously, this doesn't matter if you travel and/or the girl is just a booty call.

This is why I like Fisto's idea about answering honestly if she asks you in person and telling that you don't want older chicks to message you. Will definitely try it next time.

[iknowexactly]

(10-13-2014 04:22 PM)heavy Wrote:  

Don't. She'd rather find out on her own.

She'll care you lied, because it's slightly beta to lie your age down (note I'm not against it...I have mine listed at 30 and plan to keep it there a few years)...but it's more beta to then confess to her.

When/if she finds out, just smirk, "did you really think I was 25".

Then be impressed at her ability to find out your real age. Chics love thinking they were clever and can't be fooled.

+1, next level psychology-- distracting with complimenting questions when in a defensive position> Way better than a simple compliment which she might roll over--the question "How did you know I was xx years old?" with a tone of amazement DISTRACTS her by getting her thinking "How did I know?"

Really a brilliant tactic.

[ManAbout]

(10-13-2014 04:25 PM)alex3948 Wrote:  

Someone who can lie on a thing like that can lie on anything.

Sounds like something a chick would say.

[poledaddy]

I think a factor in this game, is if you lie to a chick and you start seeing her on the regular, she's going to eventually tell her friends about you. Same as if one of your buddies gets a new chick, her friends are gonna ask your age. Then later she finds out your real age is 6 years younger or whatever - she's probably going to have to correct herself with her friends and look retarded. Think about it - what would you do if your friend told you "oh yeah I just found out my chick isn't 24 she's actually 29". Even if she was 19 and lied and said she was 22, I'd give him props for banging some young pussy but I'd make sure he knew that isn't the last lie he's going to hear from her. Not that any of this can't be overcome with deep conversion game and shit, but it's part of the equation.

I had an LTR when I was 25, dating a 20/yo chick in a sorority. I took my age down 2 years. I probably didn't have to, but I figured she was so into the college social scene it might freak her out that I was 5 years older than her. She never found out, after an entire year! We broke up and she moved out of state, to this day she thinks I'm 2 years younger than I am.

[AneroidOcean]

(10-15-2014 07:54 PM)poledaddy Wrote:  

I think a factor in this game, is if you lie to a chick and you start seeing her on the regular, she's going to eventually tell her friends about you. Same as if one of your buddies gets a new chick, her friends are gonna ask your age. Then later she finds out your real age is 6 years younger or whatever - she's probably going to have to correct herself with her friends and look retarded. Think about it - what would you do if your friend told you "oh yeah I just found out my chick isn't 24 she's actually 29". Even if she was 19 and lied and said she was 22, I'd give him props for banging some young pussy but I'd make sure he knew that isn't the last lie he's going to hear from her. Not that any of this can't be overcome with deep conversion game and shit, but it's part of the equation.

I had an LTR when I was 25, dating a 20/yo chick in a sorority. I took my age down 2 years. I probably didn't have to, but I figured she was so into the college social scene it might freak her out that I was 5 years older than her. She never found out, after an entire year! We broke up and she moved out of state, to this day she thinks I'm 2 years younger than I am.

Has this happened to you?

I'm curious, because this sounds like man-reasoning, not woman-reasoning.

A woman thinks "does this make me look stupid in front of my girls?"

"Yes."

"Okay, I won't say anything then"