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09-16-2014, 06:07 AM
Been applying your advice with great success.
I discovered last weekend that buying her new sexy lingerie (which she wears for me anyway) as a reward for good behavior leads to crazy wild sex followed with even more good behaviors.
Seriously, girls never go past their infant state.
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09-16-2014, 05:15 PM
Quote: (08-21-2014 07:02 PM)Suits Wrote:
Being my girl is a reward.
Stupid shit like this will mislead a lot of people here. That just doesn't work in an LTR, which is what these guys are talking about. It misses the whole point of the OP, that rewards are good and necessary, provide positive reinforcement (in the psychological sense - i.e., encouragement) and make the girl feel happy and good in a relationship.
Continuing to just assume the girl is 100% happy no matter what you do (as long as you're alpha and fuck her good) is short sighted, and probably why a lot of the guys on here have been cheated on. There are two parties in a relationship, and both need to feel good. Yes, being with you is a reward in itself, and she'll be happy wanting to please you - but that's not enough in itself. Nor should it be - if she treats you well, be nice and treat her well back...
Great ideas from the others on the thread. Reward good behaviour in moderation. Make sure it's to REWARD behaviour YOU like, not to just give her what she wants. Fuck her good, keep up the passion and alpha too, of course - but LTRs (of any kind) require a little more maintenance and effort.
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09-16-2014, 05:17 PM
I tell them since they are being good, they can sit on my lap.
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09-16-2014, 07:29 PM
Quote: (09-16-2014 06:07 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
Been applying your advice with great success.
I discovered last weekend that buying her new sexy lingerie (which she wears for me anyway) as a reward for good behavior leads to crazy wild sex followed with even more good behaviors.
Seriously, girls never go past their infant state.
Bingo and yes.
The submissive shit they will do to get a new push-up bra and garters is amazing. Take full advantage, trust me.
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09-17-2014, 06:19 PM
I was on a trip and I rewarded my girl with a $2 ring because I thought it was cool and has an animal that she likes a lot.
She's sent me a picture of the necklace I made for her bday (less than $20 including card) that has the same animal placed next to the ring and a message about how much fun she had with me on the trip (which she paid for more of than I did).
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09-17-2014, 06:26 PM
I cook for them. Usually something light like a seafood pasta or baked chicken with potato gratin. Bitches love dinners.
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09-18-2014, 04:25 AM
I buy them stuffed animals because they act like children after all. Normally a stuffed animal of whatever animal nickname I've given them
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09-18-2014, 05:52 AM
Quote: (09-18-2014 04:25 AM)bojangles Wrote:
I buy them stuffed animals because they act like children after all. Normally a stuffed animal of whatever animal nickname I've given them
Mine has a stuffed dog that she uses to play daddy/kitty with me. Might get her another one for special occasion
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09-18-2014, 12:00 PM
Man,
I just realized that I really don't do shit for my girls. I used to before but since I've consider everything to have an expiration date.....it doesn't really make any difference.
My actions should change from not doing anything to doing stuff like the ones posted above. Sure, things will end someday......but at least they'll end on a good note and the expiration date will be extended.
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09-18-2014, 02:51 PM
My presence alone is good enough...
I don't like hanging with RANDOM GIRLS so if they're in my presence then they must be doing something right BECAUSE at any moment I'd leave to go hang with my good friends. (male or female) I've had moments where I didn't even pull a chick because my friends wanted me to spend time with them.
As a result chicks value the time we have together (even if it's very sparingly)
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09-18-2014, 06:31 PM
Quote: (09-18-2014 04:25 AM)bojangles Wrote:
I buy them stuffed animals because they act like children after all. Normally a stuffed animal of whatever animal nickname I've given them
I have bought girls a 'princess' doll. Their reaction is usually priceless. They all seem to love it though.
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09-19-2014, 12:17 PM
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06-04-2015, 10:20 AM
Its a good thing I have a reason to bump this thread again, because my girl has given me plenty of reasons to reward her.
Question for you guys this time: Do you reward her with the 3 words "I love you?" if so, when and under what conditions?
This is assuming your girl has been good, feminine, and already told you she loves you.
I used to be a terrible romantic at heart. That beta self has been put under maximum security but with this girl I have been able to let the old beta out a bit and its doing me more good than harm.
However I know that the 3 words are pretty big deal to girls and a hot subject on here, so Im not giving it freely.
Thoughts?
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12-10-2016, 10:38 AM
Quote: (08-21-2014 10:58 AM)reaper23 Wrote:
Short answer: reward her on your time.
That's the thing menace was saying. It's all about your frame. The right frame could make giving a girl flowers every day for a week seem alpha as fuck.
Do it on your time in your own way. Never ever ever let her ask for shit or even guide you. Listen to her and make it thoughtful.
If she makes specific requests ever, my advice would be to next her immediately.
Never give a gift to a girl that expects it or asks for it.
and money am i rigth?
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12-11-2016, 02:32 PM
I love saying "good girl". It's cheeky and dominant. They pretend to be offended but they're turned on by it.