I think the most important lesson to be learned from this thread is:
Always look for a couple of IOIs before you go for the number close.
Always look for a couple of IOIs before you go for the number close.
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Is this card game really so rare that people will instantly want to give out their number and hangout with some random dude after 10 seconds into a conversation?
Quote: (08-15-2014 09:47 AM)BadWolf Wrote:
I haven't been home in awhile but it seems like things here just got really unfriendly and people have become very distant... maybe its just me. I am walking in the mall and I see this employee checking out magic cards on his computer. I walk over and say
me: "You're a magic fan eh?"
him: "Yeah I'm just looking though"
me: "That's cool man I also play, why don't you give me your phone number and we'll get together"(In china this results in immediate friendship, I meet tons of people this way)
him: looks at me disgusted "No... I don't give my phone number out".
me: "really? I mean, you don't play or what?"
him: "No, I play.... but I have friends to play with"
me: "so you don't want to get together and pla-"
him: "NO"
me: "...."
I was so shocked, I actually didn't say anything, I was just like "WTF is going on here?". I've never had a GUY let alone a fellow 'nerd' turn me down for an offer of friendship especially based around hobbies... It's been really bugging me all day, what the hell is wrong with people here. I felt like saying, fuck you buddy, I have a hot wife (who also plays btw), a good job, a ton of friends and I'm part of a awesome wider community with links to jobs and various opportunities AROUND THE WORLD... I've played in championships in China with some of the world's best players.... what fvcking idiot voluntarily shuts himself out of opportunities...
The thing is this wouldn't bug me so much if I hadn't noticed the cold reception I've been getting from people since I got home. I'm not sure if I changed or if people did...
I don't even know what to follow this post with... I can see it would be very easy to become depressed with the sheer isolation you feel here, people are just not friendly and not open to meeting others outside of school... Christ if someone were to ask me if I'd like to play or get together the answer would be a resounding YES.
So what is it that people do here to meet other people? Or do they just not...
(for the guys that have emailed about it, I apologize I've been in and out of the hospital the last 2 weeks.)
Quote: (08-18-2014 02:51 AM)Saladin Wrote:
Also gay guys are pretty cool and friendly. I don't get the hate for gay guys, they are usually fun guys who are outgoing and have hot friends. Lesbians can be man hating bitches sometimes though.....
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I think Western women are partly to blame for men feeling uncomfortable with each other
Quote: (08-18-2014 11:19 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:
Don't know if this is anecdotical or if there is anything more to it, but I've lived in Boretown for over 17 years and in that time frame, I can't count on one hand the number of Canadian friends. All my friends have been foreigners: Brasilians, Latinos, Russians, Japanese, Pinoys, Chinese, Arabs, Blacks from Africa, Blacks from the Caribbeans, French, Europeans, Indians, Pakis, Lebanese, Moroccans, Algerians, Germans, Tunisians, Egyptians, Balkans etc, but I can't recall having one single white Canadian friend in almost 2 decades of living in Toronto. I just can't recall any!
That's just mind blowing!
Anyone else has experienced the same?