In reading Roosh latest book the one thing that caught my attention was the amount of girls he never saw again or only a few times. If the stats from the book holds true then I would guess he doesn't see more than 50% of the girls he bang's a second time and probably 80% more than a few times. This was amazing to me, given that it's very rare for a girl not to want to see me again even IF I don't bang her. So what's the difference between my approach and someone like Roosh? It's comes down to his objective - the ONS. The ONS is going for the close of a sale at all cost that night. To be successful at it you have to use high pressure sales tactics: alcohol + relentlessly breaking down any resistance. And while you may close the girl that night there is a very high chance she will feel less than happy the next day. Think of it this way, how do you feel when you have been sold something under pressure? It's not a good feeling and this is the reason used car salesmen have the reputation they have. Because they are notorious for using high pressure sales tactics to close sales.
In contrast, when you buy something and feel that it was your decision you are usually happy after the fact. The key difference is how much of the decision you feel was of your own choosing vs being pressured into the purchase. The more you feel that the decision was yours, the happier you will be after the purchase. The less you feel the decision was yours the more unhappy you will feel after the purchase. And this works exactly the same for sex. The more the girl feels that she made the decision to have sex the more happy she will feel after the sex and the more likely she will be wanting to see you again. After all, who wants to see someone again they associate with a bad experience.
ONS game by it's very objective requires high pressure tactics. You are trying to close the sale in a short time. But you have to understand that this will usually come at the price of having a repeat customer. If you are not looking for a repeat customer then fine, no problem. But if you are looking for the girl to come back for seconds, thirds, fourth, etc. then it's better not to use these tactics and leave her feeling good after each encounter. Relationship game is precisely about this. Make the girl feel good AFTER each encounter with you while advancing/building the relationship. It's just like someone doing business with you. If the first experience with you leaves them with a bad taste in their mouth why would they want to continue to do business with you? The exception to this is IF the girl wants to bang almost as much as you do and is actively contributing to that outcome.
ONS game and relationship requires different approaches. One is basically closing the sale at all cost. You are not looking for a customer, you are looking to make a sale - that night! Relationship game is not about one sale. It's about repeat sales. You want a girl to become a customer and a happy one at that. To do this you need to leave the girl happy and wanting more of you after each encounter. But this takes time of course. You can't build a relationship in one day.
PS I rarely pressure girls into sex. I get off way too much on girls wanting me. And if you build the sexual tension high enough girls will not only become buyers but forceful ones at that. I have had more than one instance where a girl said something to this effect, the first time: "you started this and now you are going to finish it! while pulling off my clothes." Sex is good but being desired is way better.
In contrast, when you buy something and feel that it was your decision you are usually happy after the fact. The key difference is how much of the decision you feel was of your own choosing vs being pressured into the purchase. The more you feel that the decision was yours, the happier you will be after the purchase. The less you feel the decision was yours the more unhappy you will feel after the purchase. And this works exactly the same for sex. The more the girl feels that she made the decision to have sex the more happy she will feel after the sex and the more likely she will be wanting to see you again. After all, who wants to see someone again they associate with a bad experience.
ONS game by it's very objective requires high pressure tactics. You are trying to close the sale in a short time. But you have to understand that this will usually come at the price of having a repeat customer. If you are not looking for a repeat customer then fine, no problem. But if you are looking for the girl to come back for seconds, thirds, fourth, etc. then it's better not to use these tactics and leave her feeling good after each encounter. Relationship game is precisely about this. Make the girl feel good AFTER each encounter with you while advancing/building the relationship. It's just like someone doing business with you. If the first experience with you leaves them with a bad taste in their mouth why would they want to continue to do business with you? The exception to this is IF the girl wants to bang almost as much as you do and is actively contributing to that outcome.
ONS game and relationship requires different approaches. One is basically closing the sale at all cost. You are not looking for a customer, you are looking to make a sale - that night! Relationship game is not about one sale. It's about repeat sales. You want a girl to become a customer and a happy one at that. To do this you need to leave the girl happy and wanting more of you after each encounter. But this takes time of course. You can't build a relationship in one day.
PS I rarely pressure girls into sex. I get off way too much on girls wanting me. And if you build the sexual tension high enough girls will not only become buyers but forceful ones at that. I have had more than one instance where a girl said something to this effect, the first time: "you started this and now you are going to finish it! while pulling off my clothes." Sex is good but being desired is way better.