[Dalaran1991]

For some reasons here in France women drop the "harassment" card everywhere. All the fucking time. It's even more common than the rape card.

I opened a set one night and it didn't really hook. Girls said "stop harassing us" I laugh it off and walk away.

Working on a hot girl with persistent text game = harassment. Not a fan of text game but my wing love this and he gets the "you are harrassing me" all the freaking time.

Were hanging at an open mall with some buddies. Opened a passing set of 3. The anorexic bitch among them gave us a feminism lecture. We laugh "oh, sorry grandma" then bail

And the beta fuckers "renaissance" male guys here actually buy into that shit. There was a guy chatting up a girl at the supermarket entrance. After she left the secu guard came over "were you harassing the lady?" Fucking racist. Just bc the dude was latino and girl was white pussy.

It's just annoying. Even calling a women "you are beautiful" can be considered harassment according to most girls here. They always give you that shit "it's not about the word, it's the attitude that stinks" yeah...right, like bitches don't have the stinking attitude.

What do you guys think and how do you deal with this? Any real stories?

[DarkTriad]

(06-29-2014 07:46 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

For some reasons here in France women drop the "harassment" card everywhere. All the fucking time. It's even more common than the rape card.

I opened a set one night and it didn't really hook. Girls said "stop harassing us" I laugh it off and walk away.

Working on a hot girl with persistent text game = harassment. Not a fan of text game but my wing love this and he gets the "you are harrassing me" all the freaking time.

Were hanging at an open mall with some buddies. Opened a passing set of 3. The anorexic bitch among them gave us a feminism lecture. We laugh "oh, sorry grandma" then bail

And the beta fuckers "renaissance" male guys here actually buy into that shit. There was a guy chatting up a girl at the supermarket entrance. After she left the secu guard came over "were you harassing the lady?" Fucking racist. Just bc the dude was latino and girl was white pussy.

It's just annoying. Even calling a women "you are beautiful" can be considered harassment according to most girls here. They always give you that shit "it's not about the word, it's the attitude that stinks" yeah...right, like bitches don't have the stinking attitude.

What do you guys think and how do you deal with this? Any real stories?

If you've got the race card, a good time to play it. There is nothing you can say to defend yourself without sounding defensive...and thus creepier. Go on the offense and make them make defenses as to why they're not a racist or whatever.

[Rotisserie]

Tuth made a comment when responding to a girl saying 'is that your pickup line?' The thinking should be similar when rebutting the harassment card.

(04-21-2014 02:15 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(04-21-2014 12:41 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

I opened a girl with "Is downstairs any good?" because I really wanted to know, and I swear to god she replied, "Is that your pickup line?" I scratched my head on that one for a while.

Use one of the Tuthmosis All-Purpose Slammer Lines™ at times like these. I rarely need to use them these days, since I hardly do night game anymore. The magic of these lines is that you can dial up or dial down the aggression with just minor tone adjustments. They don't read so brutal on the screen, but they land like a quick jab to the face:

1. "Don't flatter yourself." [Alternative: "Stop flattering yourself."]

2. "You're full of shit." [less appropriate in this particular case]

3. "Not everything revolves around you." [I often customize this one. In this case, I'm fairly certain I would have said "You think everything is pickup line at you?"]

That 1st one is gold. I've never had a girl say 'stop harassing me,' even though I live in a relatively strong feminist epicenter. Then again, I mostly go indirect, which gives me ironclad plausible deniability.

[conservative]

If a girl is approached 100 times a day by different guys (different manners, attitudes or what-so-ever), she'll definitively feel harassed and react negatively.

I remember having a conversation with a girl where she said that approaching here in the streets is rude. It seems that she draw up this conclusion from the fact that most guys approaching her in the street end up calling her a "bitch".

On the other hand, she'd like that a guy approach her while she is sitting alone in a café. It might be that she had a positive dating experience (or one of her friends) using this method.

So your mileage may vary depending on the context and the social manners. If opening or approaching girls on the street is considered bad/harassment in the place you are in, stop doing it.

[samsamsam]

What is crazy is this is mother nature/biological.

Soon chicks will run out of things to gripe about (just joking) and start intervening in the mating habits of rabbits. "Oh that male rabbit is too aggressive, cut off his nuts."

What the women don't realize that soon enough men will stop approaching and they will wish they were getting harassed.

[WestIndianArchie]

(06-29-2014 12:55 PM)conservative Wrote:  

If a girl is approached 100 times a day by different guys (different manners, attitudes or what-so-ever), she'll definitively feel harassed and react negatively.

I remember having a conversation with a girl where she said that approaching here in the streets is rude. It seems that she draw up this conclusion from the fact that most guys approaching her in the street end up calling her a "bitch".

On the other hand, she'd like that a guy approach her while she is sitting alone in a café. It might be that she had a positive dating experience (or one of her friends) using this method.

So your mileage may vary depending on the context and the social manners. If opening or approaching girls on the street is considered bad/harassment in the place you are in, stop doing it.

When you date a really attractive woman and have her recount her day to you, you'll understand that harassment is real. Deep down you know this, because the Thirst is real.

I was almost in with this Asian chick. (it seems like i'm always almost in with some Asian chick, but can't ever close the deal. Indian girls, Persians, all the other chicks are doable, but Asian....they love me no time)

We're at the after hours spot, grubbing, i'm trying to make my move. And she tells me that this dude was at the grocery store. He had a bunch of helium balloons. She gets what she needs, and so does he.

So she's in her car, windows down.

Dude runs and then supermans his way into her ride through the open window, with the balloons.

Now the dude in me is like, "how is that even possible"

She continues with her story, straight faced.

She gives him her #, and then promptly forgets him.

Me - "Did you like that approach"
Her - "I thought it was really creative"



WIA

[conservative]

(06-29-2014 01:13 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

What is crazy is this is mother nature/biological.

Soon chicks will run out of things to gripe about (just joking) and start intervening in the mating habits of rabbits. "Oh that male rabbit is too aggressive, cut off his nuts."

What the women don't realize that soon enough men will stop approaching and they will wish they were getting harassed.

my experience is when you are getting plenty of something, you are getting the edgy cases too.

Examples of approaching (for some guys): Touching her boobies, spanking her ass, calling her a bitch...

These are not frequent but if you are getting lots of approaches, odds are you'll get approached this way a few times.

[Hotwheels]

(06-29-2014 02:48 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

When you date a really attractive woman and have her recount her day to you, you'll understand that harassment is real. Deep down you know this, because the Thirst is real.

Reminds me of the time my girl dropped the top while sitting at a stoplight. I was right in front of her in my truck so heard the whole thing. As soon as the top was down the guys in the car next to her started the catcalls, ending with "I bet she wishes she never put the top down!"

She actually would avoid putting the top down most of the time in town due to this. While she enjoyed attention, she didn't care for it when it crossed over to harassment.

And harassment is just another word for bad game.

[Brodiaga]

I remember my ex, who I never even found that attractive, complained about street harassment. I even witnessed some of that, like guys driving by and shouting "nice tits" at her when we walked together. I was furious, but fuck, what could I have done in that situation?

She had big tits and looked kind of slutty, though. Attractive and busty enough to get guys' dicks hard, but I guess not attractive enough for them to think "I have no chance in hell with that chick". I wonder if those type of girls in general get harassed, and approached, more.