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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 12:08 AM
Title says it all. Every time I have sex for the 3rd time in a day, I can't cum no matter how long I fuck for. Going raw or getting (good) head doesn't seem to work. The only thing which does is pulling out and jerking myself off with a death grip. It's extremely frustrating wanting to and willing yourself to cum and being unable to and stopping sex to jerk myself to orgasm kills the vibe and feels very anti-climatic (pardon the pun) and like I might as well be masturbating by myself instead. Girls find it very strange too. Plus I never go for a 4th round because of this as well.
I can't find any solution for this problem online including the forum, all the advice is for people who can't cum at all, when I only have trouble if I've cum twice before that day. Can anyone help me out here?
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 12:17 AM
Maybe you've been jerking off with too strong a grip, so cut that out.
Beyond that, you are really within the normal range anyway. When I was younger 3 times raw would be my max except for a very few occasions, and now at 40, 2 is pretty much my max. I don't push it or try to have lots of orgasms anyway. If the third fuck just kind of fizzles out without orgasm, no problem.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 12:22 AM
Happens to me as well bro.
I don't worry about it too much, and use it to my my advantage by fucking past my girl's orgasm. ie: She cums, and I keep fucking, whether she wants me to or not. Starting slowly, due to increased sensitivity on her part, but building up to hard strokes that often bring on another orgasm for her. Yet to hear a complaint.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 12:48 AM
OP,
I have essentially the same problem.
Question: the first time you do it out of the three times, do you actively try to not cum too quickly?
I usually try to last a reasonably long time in the first round to make it good for the girl (<-- is that beta?), but I find this exacerbates the problem considerably by the time I get to round 3, by which point I sometimes need to really try to mentally get myself highly aroused (sometimes having to think of other girls/fantasies, focus on the motion/slow down etc). And often the amount of effort involved makes the sex un-enjoyable, and I'd rather just not have it the 3rd time. I always wear a rubber these days so that probably doesn't help either.
Also, since I anticipate the problem beforehand, the anxiety associated with that probably makes it worse still, and it sometimes makes me not want to have sex the 3rd time because of that. Even the 2nd round can be problematic already, where I have to put some effort in to come. Sometimes I have to fake orgasm cos I don't want the girl to think that it's something to do with her and get upset over it (<-- is that beta?), because I just really want it to be over and done with.
It kinda sucks. I don't really know if it's normal or not.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 12:56 AM
Ha-wait 'til you're 55..you'll realize how lucky you were in your moment in the sun. Once a night, and not every night anymore.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 01:47 AM
I only cum once.
the first round I'll bust in like 10 mins. be hard again in ten more and can fuck for the next hour.
hell I can Jack hammer for 30 minutes.
I just bang the girl till she's black and blue.
a couple girls have mentioned..asked why I still haven't came yet.
just put there head back into the bed.
who needs needs 4 quarters when you can do two halfs with no time out.
side related notes..it might not be your death grip.
I don't regularly Jack off.maybe once a week...
another side note..try banging the girl from behind. doggy style but make her squeeze her legs closed.
that usually works for me when I finally do need to cum
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 04:02 AM
Try putting it in her ass on the third try. See how that works.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 08:11 AM
It could be a pure placebo effect but Ive been taking zinc between sessions and have noticed an increase in performance and in particular the ability to cum. I dont have a problem getting it hard but sometimes find it impossible to cum after one or two sessions. The zinc has definently helped but again could just be mental.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 08:28 AM
I think two good rounds is plenty.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 02:37 PM
Take some zinc supplements in limited quantities.
It'll increase sperm production.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 03:20 PM
Quote: (06-26-2014 02:37 PM)Fighting888 Wrote:
Take some zinc supplements in limited quantities.
It'll increase sperm production.
The zinc thread has changed me. It is always a bucket load under pressure now. Love zinc and ZMA, plus you get to sleep a lot better after you're done pumping.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 03:36 PM
Hell sometimes I don't even have a 3rd round in me. Honestly there have been times when I'm done after the first. I like going a second round, but like roosh just stated - if I know I'm not going to cum...I just stop.
Do you guys think this makes a girls hamster go wild, thinking something is wrong, she'll fuck you harder next time, etc ?
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 03:43 PM
I sometimes have trouble nutting in the morning if I nutted the night before, especially if there's a time constraint. If we have to get ready for work or something I got an eye on the clock which throws off my mojo.
Yes, the girl always feels like she failed if you don't nut.
Sometimes I'll have trouble busting if I wait too long. Maybe I'll feel a nut coming on but it's too soon so I slow down to extend. Do that too often and you run out of steam.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 03:49 PM
I can't even go two rounds without at least waiting for a couple hours....and hardness is often a problem the second time. Jeez...
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 04:14 PM
Stop jerking off all together (Tuth will attest to this) stop watching porn, workout and have a healthy diet. If you exercise and workout a lot your body will up your testosterone, and this will result in a healthier sex drive, harder longer lasting boners, and easier orgasms. Not jerking and abstaining from porn will do the same thing on a psychological level - train your mind to not affiliate orgasms with masturbating or porn.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 05:01 PM
I've read if you're young and cant go for round three it could be some restriction caused by an underlying STD that's trying to manifest.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 06:24 PM
Maybe you are just bored by the third time.
There has to be a little anxiety for sex to be fun. If you've already fucked her twice, maybe you are too far in the comfort range to feel the anxiety of attraction.
I think that's what cumming is.. animals probably had to cum really fast so that they would get killed while fucking. Having a little anxiety is good for sex.
Take away all of it and you are missing the point. There's no need to cum because there's no threat.
Ever notice how a girl starts to seem much more fuckable as she getting dressed or about to leave? I think that's because their is some time constraints on the situation and it raises the anxiety up a little. Also, clothes are a social barrier, and can function the same way.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-26-2014, 08:32 PM
Don't bother, then. I prefer two at night/two in the morning, anyways.
I don't remember the last time I came from sex three times in the same day. I did do HJ, sex, sex not long ago. Maybe try no vag for the first nut and see if that changes #3.
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I Can't Cum the Third Time I Have Sex
06-27-2014, 01:36 AM
I normally bust the nut on the first round 10-15 mins)... have water + snack afterward
Second round is "go bananas in that pussy" because 9/10 times I'm not gonna cum.
wait about 15mins (have a little snack during this time)
Third round. going more bananas (crazy in the pussy) with focused and forced cum