[future]

I hear varied opinions on different issues from different PUA's. For example, some say canned openers are the shit, and some favor the more improvisational style. Some hate negs, others like them. Some like night game, others like day game. And so on.

But there are a few things that every PUA will agree with. And I thought it might be instructive to compile a list. Let me start with two things I can think of.

* If you make lots of approaches, you will get better with women.
* Women find confidence sexy.

Please feel free to add more to this list. Note that I don't intend to start a debate on a controversial issue here. So this thread is not a place for you to convince others that your viewpoint on a certain issue is correct. This thread is for things that are not too debatable to begin with.

[Skye]

It's only creepy if you're ugly.

[Truth Teller]

Most self-proclaimed PUAs are weirdos. There are exceptions, like Krauser.

-Women don't know what women want, don't ask for or accept dating advice from them.

[soup]

Abundance mentality.

Women and men are different animals.

Women are more emotionally based on their thinking in general.

Go for the definite thing over the one with worse odds of happening.

If you get oneitis, go bang ten girls.

[xpatplayer]

Dress differently from the crowd. Could be "dress to impress" or "peacock" depending if its a PUA (Mystery and crew) or Game guru (Roosh, McQueen, Fisto and a bunch of other forum members).

Always underestimated it until I tried it. If you wear good clothes that set you apart from the rest of guys, girls want to talk to you all the more. Not guaranteed to get you laid but makes the game go from medium/ hard to easy/ medium depending on the context.

[Truth Teller]

(06-21-2014 09:32 PM)xpatplayer Wrote:  

Dress differently from the crowd. Could be "dress to impress" or "peacock" depending if its a PUA (Mystery and crew) or Game guru (Roosh, McQueen, Fisto and a bunch of other forum members).

Always underestimated it until I tried it. If you wear good clothes that set you apart from the rest of guys, girls want to talk to you all the more. Not guaranteed to get you laid but makes the game go from medium/ hard to easy/ medium depending on the context.

I've found this to be very true. Vineyard Vines seems to be a uniform at my college. I wear well-fitting black and white v-necks most of the time. It works fairly well.

[soup]

"A Lambo can do no wrong"

[Stun]

In line with what the OP wrote:

Tell me how many cold approaches you have done and I will tell you how good you are/how good your game is. You could learn everything there is to know about game and women, and you'll still suck if you don't regularly cold approach.

[future]

Great list guys! Thanks!

(06-21-2014 09:01 PM)Skye Wrote:  

It's only creepy if you're ugly.

What does this mean?

[future]

(06-21-2014 09:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Go for the definite thing over the one with worse odds of happening.

So house parties over night clubs?

There's this girl I met the other day who's a 6 and seems to be into me. I think I can bang her if I try, but I've been reluctant since she is only a 6. Should I just give it a shot for practice?

[Biologist]

I've found that the old PUA maxim of Pre-Selection seems to be pretty much universally true.

No matter which country you're in or the type of girl you're gaming, exhibiting the fact that other women are attracted to you will trigger her to become attracted to you.

Game has changed tremendously over the last 10 years or so, but the notion of pre-selection has remained true this entire time.

[Travesty]

(06-22-2014 12:43 AM)future Wrote:  

(06-21-2014 09:31 PM)soup Wrote:  

Go for the definite thing over the one with worse odds of happening.

So house parties over night clubs?

There's this girl I met the other day who's a 6 and seems to be into me. I think I can bang her if I try, but I've been reluctant since she is only a 6. Should I just give it a shot for practice?

Depends on how many single girls are at the house party. If at least a few then yes. If not odds are better at a club.

As for the 6, imagine the second after you bust your nut in her will you feel confident and accomplished or shame? Your inner confidence levels should be absolutely sacred to you. Anything that only hurts your confidence and has no chance of building it should be removed from your life.

[Kieran]

Touch her early and often in the interaction.

[Kizman]

Don't expect women to follow your logic.

[jmourinho]

From Alfie:
"Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her."

[Courage Reborn]

How about all time worst dating advice?

"Just be yourself"

[robreke]

(06-22-2014 09:51 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  

How about all time worst dating advice?

"Just be yourself"

First dating maxim if you're just starting out:

"whatever you do DON'T be yourself" that's what makes a beta a beta.

actually...when you start getting better....read more alpha.... You are just a different, more reserved ( with info about yourself) refined version OF yourself.

[game_ethic]

Can't turn a hoe into a housewife

[WestIndianArchie]

" Game is the male revolt against the sexual caste system imposed by feminism"

A lot of people are agreeing with this.

A different flavor is that men resort to game because of a sick culture.
Or, in a healthy culture/society, men wouldn't have to use game.

Lotta people *here* agree with this idea.

I'm not one of them though.

WIA

[soup]

Go for the sure girl insulted of the girl that is less sure, regardless of who is hotter.

[lalafufu]

(06-22-2014 12:39 AM)future Wrote:  

Great list guys! Thanks!

(06-21-2014 09:01 PM)Skye Wrote:  

It's only creepy if you're ugly.

What does this mean?

means everything will be interpreted as 'creepy' if you repulse her. doesn't actually have much to do with looks

[LaserBear]

(06-22-2014 09:42 AM)jmourinho Wrote:  

From Alfie:
"Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her."

From the states so never heard that one with "shagging". Always heard,
No matter how good she looks... no matter how sweet she talks... somewhere some guy is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.

[jmourinho]

(06-22-2014 12:56 PM)LaserBear Wrote:  

(06-22-2014 09:42 AM)jmourinho Wrote:  

From Alfie:
"Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her."

From the states so never heard that one with "shagging". Always heard,
No matter how good she looks... no matter how sweet she talks... somewhere some guy is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.

Shagging means fucking in British English

[Samseau]

Don't put too much effort into one girl. Never chase.

[Comte De St. Germain]

This