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06-19-2014, 05:37 PM
I'm sorry to say this, thegiant, but you've been officially whipped by the pussy. I understand not wanting to get out of habits from a LTR, but you're officially not in control. She is.
You need a memory clearing and go find some fresh pussy in Vegas. Forget about this girl.
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06-19-2014, 05:38 PM
I didn't miss it. I'm coming tonight with a friend. If I tell her to come join us it'll be on Sat. So I'll have at least Thu/Fri to do my thing out there.
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06-19-2014, 05:39 PM
I despise all you bastards headed to EDC. Party on Garth !
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06-19-2014, 08:02 PM
I don't know how high that risk actually is in real life. It might be all in my head.
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06-21-2014, 02:10 PM
She wasn't being a bitch. You made the mistake of trying to be super-cool and go "this is how you sleep huh" and "don't get too comfortable" when really you should have been sincere with your feelings, or, realize your feelings are incorrect and change them. Instead, YOU were being the bitch by making a problem out of (what seems to be) nothing, and you weren't even direct with your feelings, just making disparaging and disrespectful remarks. She didn't need to be told to be respectful to you, cuz she wasn't being disrespectful in the first place, at least not in her intentions. You overstepped the line when you started telling her to do things she didn't need to be told. Her reaction to that was fair.
I've had friends on Skype who I will talk to and they will take a while to respond, because they're distracting themselves with other stuff on their computer. So I get that thing, where you're primed and ready for the conversation, but the other person isn't taking it seriously. As it has turned out in some of their cases, and might be with your girl, they just had a different viewpoint. They weren't intentionally being disrespectful or inconsiderate, they didn't know their actions bothered me. It's possible it was the same thing with her, in which case you should have just made your needs clear. If she was a good person she would respect that.
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06-21-2014, 10:13 PM
1. as putin once said, "it's better not to argue with women."
2. why do you have conversations over the phone? limit your interaction with women to her coming over, banging, and talking post-sex. What is so important to talk about that you can't wait until she comes over? I'm assuming y'all live in the same city.
3. everything else i wanted to say has been said.
4. at the end of the day, it starts with your attitude holistically. Why do you care so much about the little details? As far as I can tell, she didn't disrespect you until you started shit and behaved like a woman on the rag. She had to hang up early? Who the fuck cares? She didn't go immediately to sleep? You sound like a chinese girl tracking her boyfriend's every single movement. Of course she's gonna give you shit and disrespect you once you started the altercation - by starting the altercation you IMMEDIATELY lost the right to be respected.
5. By demonstrating how much you care about the little details, you reveal how much importance you place a woman on your emotional needs. Your ego should be as divorced from your woman as much as possible.
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06-23-2014, 01:34 PM
@thegiant how was EDC ? can you do a follow up of what happened between you and your girl ? did she come ? meet up with any RVF'ers ?
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06-23-2014, 03:06 PM
The moment you start to care is the moment you lose your frame, which is what your texts indicate. Stop responding to her for a while and she'll come crawling back to you.
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06-23-2014, 10:07 PM
Edc was cool. I'm not a big fan of large crowds, so I got pretty close to having an anxiety attack but got over it before it escalated. Business-wise great trip. She came over on Sat, stayed 1 night, I took her to edc for the first time. She claimed she didn't really enjoy it, but possibly she was just saying it so I don't feel bad about not really enjoying it. Either way who cares. The texting fight from last week is long forgotten, just as I suspected. However new fights will arise I'm sure. The essence of this thread is that I care/feel too much (not just in this relationship, I'm talking about every aspect of my life), and I need to figure out a way to keep that in check.
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06-24-2014, 12:05 PM
It's not helping me for some reason. I hit other chicks every 1-2 months, most recent 3 weeks ago. It was fun but I still find myself thinking that she is better than them, i.e. worth keeping/worth putting up with. Sex w her is definitely way better. I guess I'll keep feeling that way until I find a new chick equally as good looking and sexual. She's an 8.5, every one else I fucked this year has been a 7.
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06-24-2014, 12:21 PM
Didn't read it all but I'd say you really shouldn't be getting upset about the fact she said she's going to sleep then went on Facebook haha.
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06-24-2014, 01:54 PM
Fucking. Sorry I should've made it clear.
Yes I have but they were 7s.
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06-25-2014, 03:10 AM
Quote: (06-19-2014 05:08 PM)thegiant Wrote:
Thedude - like I said above - chances are higher that she'll do something stupid if I leave her alone in LA over the weekend, MAD AT ME, knowing there's a possibility I'm with some other chick.
LA is filled with thirsty model type dudes. If we lived in Bumfuck, Kansas I'd completely agree with you.
Jesus.
If you have a girl that you actually have to guard like a watchdog, what's the point?
At your age, girls are supposed to be entertainment and not something to tear your hair out.
I understand that if she's a 8.5 and good with sex, you would want to keep her. But you also know that it's not really possible right?
Show me one 8.5 girl who isn't fucking multiple guys. Show me one guy who tries to keep his 8.5 girl on a leash and I'll show you a forum member who fucked a married girl.
Better to just accept that she will fuck you most of the time and some other guys every now and then. Not to sound like a troll feminist, but if you've been hitting on some other girls, why shouldn't she be doing the same?
I'm sure you will have a chance to bang some 8-9 hanging out with McQueen btw.
Ass or cash, nobody rides for free - WestIndiArchie
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06-25-2014, 03:48 PM
yeah bro you failed on this one, there's a difference. between being alpha and telling a girl you're alpha. first of all, it shouldn't piss you off that a girl goes on fb, not alpha, but if anything just be short with her for a day or two, she'll get the picture.
but when you say shit like don't talk to me like that watch who you're talkng to, I dunno Man U didn't come off too well from reading that. I get the whole I'm the man mentality, but that's something that should be said not spoken outright.
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06-25-2014, 03:51 PM
if you feel like she might be fucking someone else she is or is about to
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06-25-2014, 04:43 PM
I didn't think we could get banned for having bad game?
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06-25-2014, 04:56 PM
Oh he started that thead, yeah that would do it.
