I got this one last night. I was checking out a new venue with an outdoor bar, and I was just about to bail out and leave, having done no approaches, when a cute girl (solid 7 for me, exactly my "type"- thin, dirty blonde, blue eyes, girl-next-door qualities, 100% WB) came up and opened me asking for a cigarette. I don't smoke so she got one from another guy nearby, but then she asked me for a light. "Why would I have a light?" I laughed. I told her smoking wasn't healthy. She said, "I only smoke when I'm drunk, sometimes you need to let go" but that she should know better, being a "nutritionist" so I teased her about that. She didn't look drunk at all, BTW. Nutrition/fitness is one of the things I'm really interested in so we had a good half hour plus chat on related topics.
Turned out she used to live nearby to me but had since moved a bit further away and was back in town to visit friends. I managed some light touching but I'd say I didn't escalate enough/at all really. I used a variation on one of Roosh's lines when she told me she was a vegetarian. I said, "if we were cooking a meal together it wouldn't work at all since I would make pork BBQ and you would make some awful...soy burgers." She actually completed the sentence more or less and that one went over rather well. Roosh's advice confirmed once again.
Overall I suspect I needed more teasing/push, since I'm mostly used to daytime interactions. I might have enjoyed the conversation and staring into her eyes a bit too much. Not sure what other "beta" things I did. At some level I was probably getting too much validation from a cute girl's attention and not acting "aloof" enough. I felt solid with my body language, though. Eventually, one of her friends came to get her as they were leaving. As she left I asked for her phone number and she kind of frowned and gave me the thread title answer. Then she stopped and said, "if I see you next time I'm here again I'll give it to you." Weird.
Do you think there were things I did wrong which led to that result, or was I just her entertainment for a while? She only asked for my name upon parting, and I know Roosh has written that indicates the latter. Time to re-read Bang.
Turned out she used to live nearby to me but had since moved a bit further away and was back in town to visit friends. I managed some light touching but I'd say I didn't escalate enough/at all really. I used a variation on one of Roosh's lines when she told me she was a vegetarian. I said, "if we were cooking a meal together it wouldn't work at all since I would make pork BBQ and you would make some awful...soy burgers." She actually completed the sentence more or less and that one went over rather well. Roosh's advice confirmed once again.
Overall I suspect I needed more teasing/push, since I'm mostly used to daytime interactions. I might have enjoyed the conversation and staring into her eyes a bit too much. Not sure what other "beta" things I did. At some level I was probably getting too much validation from a cute girl's attention and not acting "aloof" enough. I felt solid with my body language, though. Eventually, one of her friends came to get her as they were leaving. As she left I asked for her phone number and she kind of frowned and gave me the thread title answer. Then she stopped and said, "if I see you next time I'm here again I'll give it to you." Weird.
Do you think there were things I did wrong which led to that result, or was I just her entertainment for a while? She only asked for my name upon parting, and I know Roosh has written that indicates the latter. Time to re-read Bang.
If only you knew how bad things really are.