Your guide to colombian women
04-20-2011, 09:40 PM
NOTE: These are anthropological observations and based off of experience conducting ethnographic interviews and living in these locations.
Colombia is a cultural melting pot with women from every region being different. So is Peru. If you are a master at game in the States, it doesn't always translate to game in Latin America (LA). I lived in Colombia for about 4 months and Peru for 1.3 years. If you don't know the culture, you won't do well anywhere in LA. For example, women in Peru go out to clubs without male escorts. So, you can pick them up and they are generally are more up front in their relations or interest. Colombian women can be this way, but generally are more dependent on approval of their escorts. Also, women from LA who have traveled to the US are a more difficult to pull. They aren't stupid and know more about the "game". They also know that when they come to the US, they are the rare catches. So, the tables are turned when you go there.
Those that are stuck in these areas are then broken up into probably three groups. The "good girls", "not so good girls" and the "bad girls". Good girls are generally those who live at home with their parents and are waiting for marriage. For them it is a name game and they don't want the unnecessary stigma of being labeled a gringo-laying slut. You can date them, but they generally aren't easy. Not to mention, they aren't that good in bed because they don't have experience or confidence. They are looking for the "real thing". Unfortunately, they look like all of the other women there and are difficult to tell them apart. They are just as flirtatious and vibrant as all the rest.
The not so good girls are of a bi-polar morality code. They generally see gringos as a way of escape and status elevation. This doesn't mean they are bad girls or sluts. It just means they are looking for Mr. Right, but haven't found him yet. They come of mixed moral codes. Some will try to take advantage of your money and ultimately are looking for the ring. However, if you show interest and come back more than once, they will stick their claws in you faster than you could ever imagine. They get really possessive. If you date them for more than a week, and invest two-three dinners in them with drinks and a weekend of dancing, you will most likely score. But, they will live with parent/s. So, you have to have a place to take them. They usually have to be back early unless their sister/brother or other friends accompany you on your date.
The bad girls are the easiest. They are generally doing whatever it takes to get out (of the country). Some even work as pros. They generally live with parent/s, but don't have a problem escaping. You generally know this lady because she finds you. She is also primarily after your financial support. She usually tells you that she loves you after a few hours or you are her savior. Sex is easy and she is definitely experienced. She usually makes you curl your toes. However, she is nothing but problems. When I lived in Peru, a friend and I had to call the police on a girl that was harassing him. Not to mention, we found out she worked as a pro part time. Super hot, but so screwed up in the head. My bad girl was fun for about a week until she started asking about marriage. Somehow found one in Cali while there for four days and the other was in Arequipa while I visited there for a week.
Colombian women are more influenced by the Caribbean culture and in turn the telenovela mindset. They are looking for the perfect romance. If they don't find it, they will try to create it. Game in Colombia is best for the day. It is easy to get numbers, but always ask if they are single. Spanish is a must, except maybe Bogota. I have yet to speak English in either Cali or Medellin. I also noted on subsequent visits to Colombia after living there for four months in 2006, women usually respond more to older men. Young guys to them seem to be walking hard ons. They are distrustful of men in general, so no sex if there is no trust. I have seen the mullet head walking around with the hot girl a lot on return visits since 2006. My GF tells me it is because they are getting it out of their system because the guy tells them how he is going to become a reggaeton star one day. I know, pretty thin. But, they buy it hook line and sinker for about a month when she realizes he isn't leaving the barrio. They then dump him like a bad habit. However, this is why getting tests before having relations in Colombia is pretty important. Had a Colombian friend who just popped positive for HIV a few months ago. Colombians aren't bad people. However, if you are only there to f*(k the women and leave em behind, they aren't going to respect you. So, it is a place that you like or dislike. However, if you build strong bonds to the place, it can be a paradise. But, it isn't a place that you can go for a week and pull a lot of tail. You have to be known to garner faith and confidence.
My positives about Colombian women:
Nice sexy walk and gait
Good bodies
Feminine
Carpe Diem mindset
Negatives about Colombian women:
Can't live without a flat iron for hair: Had an ex with perfectly natural hair, but constantly used an iron until she had to nearly cut all her hair off. Most other women I have met are similar. I prefer natural hair not straightened.
They age well depending. Most women there want to have bodies like J Lo of old (In Living Color days). I am not much on Jello-booty shake so, that for me was a negative. I prefer the athletic and fit body type. If I live that way, so should my date. They are pretty hot until about 30 and then they plump up and don't understand why. They take the term fat as a term of endearment. To me fat is a four letter word. This doesn't mean that all Colombian women are fat, but they do want to be larger than women farther south. If they aren't more plump, they will constantly complain that they aren't bigger.
A mix of premadonas and normal girls
Peru positives:
Fit, fit, fit
Saw better looking bodies in Peru than Colombia, but butts are a little bit flatter
Travel in groups of females to clubs and bars so easy to meet and get numbers
Not afraid to start taking to you
down to earth
Found more women who spoke English. I speak both languages fine, but it was always nice to find a female that wanted to show that she would give and take.
Didn't press for marriage after 3 dates
Took care of their hair and most kept it natural. It was a nice thing to see curly and wavy hair once in a while.
Negatives:
Just as jealous as Colombian women
Weather is less warm during the winter and has a constant gray cloud over Lima
Hairy arms
Sometimes pros find their way into the local scene (bars and clubs)
Can be just as flaky as other women of the world
Seemed to smoke more than Colombian women I met and saw
Aged well depending on socio-economic status. Poorer women showed age faster. This is usually more common because they don't have as much money to maintain body, skin and hair as they get older. So, it isn't uncommon to see a 30 year old poorer Peruvian women who looks almost 38-40 years old. (Same goes for Colombia)
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