Quote: (04-21-2014 12:24 PM)MattC Wrote:
In general, beta guys go for them in my opinion. Of course, there are Asian girls that are worth pursuing but in the whole, I still see it as something internally weird with someone if they're obsessed with Asian girls.
I'll leave the beta comment alone as everyone else is already all over that, but it's a qualitative thing, Matt. Think about it this way - there are a lot of guys who actively dislike Asian women, often to an extreme. If something is vehemently dislikable, then it's a polarizing thing. By being polarizing, it's often either loved or disliked, and the polarization also means the feeling will be strong either way.
On a related note, I used to work for this chick in a restaurant who was always dating black guys. Maybe there were a couple other races thrown in but she showed a strong, obvious preference for black pete.
One time the subject somehow came up whether I'd ever dated a black chick. When I said I didn't find them attractive, I was accused of being racist.
I pointed out that she was a hypocrite. If I'm racist for finding a black woman unattractive, then she's just as a racist for preferring them. If something is likable, it is unlikable, and vice versa.
It's the same thing with Asians. You either like what makes them stand out or it turns you off.
Or it just depends on what you prioritize - like one other poster mentioned, he values pretty faces, smooth skin, extremely feminine qualities, etc, over big asses and big breasts. I'm the same way - I've never in all my life understood what was so interesting about a fat ass. I like a smaller, shapely one, and plenty of Asian birds rock those. Even big titties got tiring. They were cool in my early 20s but after chewing on my share, they lost the appeal. Now I'd rather a medium-sized perky titty.
In fact, after all the exposure to these type of women, as long as it's an obvious titty and not a completely flat chest, I think a small breast with hard nipples still looks sexy. Seeing it naked, it looks like the female form to me as much so as a curvy body does these days. I guess men just acclimate like that.
I could go on and on about other things I like about them, but it won't get us anywhere.
Am I obsessed? Maybe. Fuck, probably. If you put me in a bar in America and a mediocre Asian girl walks in, I perk up and move myself towards her. I have no excuses for this - haha - it is what it is. I don't fight it. She isn't any easier than any of the white broads in the bar, so this isn't a low barrier to entry thing.
And I hardly think I'm beta. I slew more than my fair share of white women before leaving the states, and had plenty of options. I was for the most part always the one in charge - broke some hearts and fucked up some heads. I often dated girls with crazy curves; don't see that I was more alpha for doing so at the time.
And when I arrived in Asia, I wanted nothing to do with Asian girls. Boy do things ever change. I'll still fuck a white girl but as soon as it starts seeming like a struggle, I quickly lose interest. Then again, there are enough Asian women around I can afford to lose interest in white girls.
There are plenty of guys with far more game than me who have a thing for Asians. Hell, I think if you put just about any guy in Asia for a long period of time, no matter what his level of game, he's going to develop a preference, quite a possibly a strong one. Not all guys, but most of them.
Quote: (04-21-2014 01:11 PM)MattC Wrote:
If I went to Asia, as I plan to one day, then things may obviously change. But for the most part, I just don't see the appeal at all.
Oh, it will. Count on that, my friend.
Quote: (04-21-2014 01:35 PM)berserk Wrote:
Yep, it's glorious to lie in bed with an asian girl and let your hand slide across nothing but silky smooth hairless skin.
There are exceptions though and for some reason asian girls with hair - at least in Thailand - don't wax their hair off. Now that is off putting. At least western girls usually have the good decency to shave/wax.
What about the Asian girls with light moustaches? haha Now, that shit is nasty...
A lot of monster bushes too. Fortunately, these things can quickly be tidied up with a bit of encouragement if you are hitting on the regular. Asian girls aim to please.
Quote: (04-21-2014 10:50 PM)Screwston Wrote:
So do Asian girls have an obsession with white guys or not? People are always all over the place when it gets brought up.
The majority do not. At least in Asian countries. As someone else mentioned, it's a very eager minority that has the white fever. In majority-white societies, results may differ.
Nothing frustrates me more than seeing the knockout, drop-dead gorgeous Asians who display zero interest in me. Probably because these are the hottest, most put-together women in these countries. Many of them really do strike me as completely unattainable to any outsider.
I guess there are enough gorgeous ones who do that everyone can find their satisfaction though. I prefer the white-skinned ones, but even thought of going into the dark-skinned Asian niche just because there are so many gems overlooked by local guys in that "market." I think a young white guy who didn't give a shit what the people around him (meaning the locals) preferred could do worse than move to a decent-sized city in Isaan and post up for a few years.
Plenty of dark-skinned lookers with money in that area too, contrary to popular myths.
Quote: (04-21-2014 11:43 PM)Collide Wrote:
Quote: (04-21-2014 10:50 PM)Screwston Wrote:
So do Asian girls have an obsession with white guys or not? People are always all over the place when it gets brought up.
Obsession is maybe a stretch, but lets just say Asian women pursue white men more than white women pursue white men.
Also note how the men responding to women graphic has almost all arrows pointing straight at the Asians (note white women). haha
But yeah, Asian girls are unattractive...
Quote: (04-22-2014 01:11 AM)Collide Wrote:
Going to poorer Asian countries will obviously raise your status significantly.
Even in these places, you only get that love in certain areas. For instance, the night before last I went to a fancy restaurant on the top of this skyscraper. Smoking hot Khmer women dressed to the nines. Lots of well-dressed local men. My status was not increased there one bit. In fact, it went down significantly compared to what it would be back home.
Maybe that's an extreme environment, but it's the same when I go to the mall or coffee shops. Some women look curious and flash me smiles, but I'm hardly beating quality women off with a stick - I'd say there are just as many young, cute women showing me signs of attraction as there would be in a nice coffee shop back home.
And even in the poorer areas, women are not exactly throwing themselves at you. The poor areas where whores and gold-diggers congregate, yes - the poor areas in general, no.
If you think about it, poor women often stand to lose more by hooking up with some random white traveler. Their dignity is all they have and is their one shot at landing a quality guy to give them a stable life. Word gets around fast, and a woman seen running around with whitey is going to get flak from her social circle, especially in the case of one-night-stands.
Unless they are running out of other options or have already fallen into that lifestyle and become women of the night, most poor third world girls aren't exactly tossing their panties around all over town, in my experience.
Just more myths based on what a very-visible fraction of the population is doing.