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To women marriage and children are still the ultimate form of validation...

Succinct, articulate, beautiful.

I don't always sympathize with earlier comments from Biology:

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Nothing warms my heart more than hearing about a woman in her 30s having trouble dating...
Now it's their turn to feel what it's like to have a hard time finding someone.

My Id agrees. Fuck em. For years, with hormones raging through my body and wanting to fuck at every given moment, I had no confidence and no idea how to talk to girls. So yeah, I agree. However...it's a bit harsh to blame a woman for the consequences of feminism or her upbringing. It's a bit like hating on myself for not being confident before

I have an older sister who just got divorced, and I always tell her, while it sucks she has to deal with her asshole ex-husband and go back to work and shove her kids into public screwal for 7 hrs a day...at least she has 3 adorable daughters and her ex is at least around. It's far sadder when I think about the 31 yr old woman I was seeing who would love kids but never got married because she dated alpha fux. The lonely older woman is far sadder than the struggling single mom.

(Note, I know my sister's ex really well, he's a natural alpha because he's a narcissistic sociopath, a guy I have and continue to actually look up to in certain ways....but he is and continues to totally fuck her over. Since the divorce and thus her LT financial security was inevitable, I encouraged the divorce...still not sure if that was the right thing to do)

[Manipulator]

Thesologist wrote:
Feminism has brainwashed women into believing that chasing after careers and riding the cock carousel is empowering. It isn't until these women are in their 30's/40's single, maybe with a bastard or two child that they realize how much time they wasted.
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This post is very true and got me to thinking about all of these divorced 30+ women with children. Are you guys counting the children of divorced women in the bastard category? What's the difference between spitting out a kid or two then getting divorced just to jump on the carousel? Does being temporarily married make those children any less of a bastard? A temporary marriage sounds even more selfish than getting knocked up out of wedlock.

[HasanH]

Very informative thread!

[Akula]

(04-22-2014 09:45 AM)amity Wrote:  

A lot of truth being spoken here.
I encountered a lot of Irish 5s online, barely bangable material (albeit pleasant personalities) but almost every one of them, despite being mid to late 30s, expected tall confident attractive successful men, in their 30s or 40s, preferably with a full head of hair.
I would say they turned down plenty of solid beta providers in their day, and now, 5/10 years older, they want someone at least as good as the guys they turned down! The delusion is staggering.
Although that said, I have heard a lot of stories from female friends in their 30s, of women of their age, who "cannot find a man".
My suspicion is not that they cannot find a man, rather they can no longer find an alpha willing to sack up with an Irish 5.5 at best, who is well past her prime, in her mid 30s, ergo they cannot find a man. It's like non-alpha men don't exist as options. But maybe they will in another five years time!
Sadly I see way too many men here, settling for very plain women, sometimes with a bad attitude, often in poor shape, when the guys themselves are a good 2 or even 3 points better, I just cannot fathom it, I genuinely feel sorry for these poor saps, but they're the ones who "settled".
Let that be a lesson, gentlemen, never settle! You can and should end up with a woman at least on a par with you, on the 1 to 10 scale, if not better.

It's almost unreal the amount of guys who seem on top of their game and/or at least in shape (no homo) who are dating obese (not even fat!) women in the West. Its not just the Anglosphere either - it's rampant in Germany & Austria too (where the women are more in the 'fat' category but fully 2-3 notches down form their men). It's hard to understand for most guys like us - but I guess we who 'know the score' can only just be glad that so many of these guys take themselves out of the game (right?)

[Glock]

My response to the original post is this: don't accept what the hamster says at face value. Of all people, Days of Broken Arrows should know that is Rule 1.

I find it hard to believe that all these women are getting messages that say, "Nice tits." That's not what my woman friends tell me they're getting on these sites. The majority of these guys have boring, beta openers and aren't all that attractive.