Quote: (04-15-2014 01:55 PM)cardguy Wrote:
I'm 32 and have never had a girlfriend.
Is that weird?
Is anyone else on the forum the same way - or know anyone the same way?
I had a girlfriend for a few months in college and another girl who I messed around with a bit right around when I graduated, but she was dating another dude and stupid me, I didn't want to take another guy's girl (in retrospect she wasn't worth it anyway). One night we went out and she told me she'd broken up with the dude so we messed around a little bit, but between the drinking that night and me being freaked out that this chick I'd jerked off thinking about so many times finally being naked with me... yeah, it didn't go well. She quit returning my calls and I figured out that she'd gotten back with the old guy. After some thinking, I realized they'd probably never broken up and she just wanted some strange cock. Still didn't wake up to the way women really are until about 10 years later.
The difference with me was that this bothered me, a lot, and the main reason was that I really wanted a girl but had absolutely no idea how to go about getting a girl to like me. My strategy was to embrace the friendzone and eventually she'd like me enough to fuck me.
Quit laughing, y'all.
If you're really OK with it, then more power to you. In my case, I'd try to tell myself I didn't need women, but the reality was I was the poster child for why young men need to learn game. If I'd met the right group of guys 25-30 years ago, my life would've taken a radically different turn.
I have 2 cousins who are around 50 years old. They still live with their parents. As far as I know, they've never had a girlfriend. I remember them talking about girls a bit when we were teenagers, but I've never heard of them even dating. My brother was single until he was almost 50, again, as far as I know he never had a girlfriend previously. I don't know how that works. Maybe some people just aren't interested in sex. None of that is really about your situation but there's some examples.