Living with women in the short term boosts your testosterone, living with them long term drains it. Always remember this.
I have never had a girlfriend - is that weird?
I take it that some of you guys who avoid having girlfriends just pick up random girls all the time or constantly have "plates"?
In cardguys's case I believe he did P4P.
That's a bit different from someone like me who doesn't have a girlfriend or have sex.
In cardguys's case I believe he did P4P.
That's a bit different from someone like me who doesn't have a girlfriend or have sex.
If only you knew how bad things really are.
Rex, you don't have sex? At all?
If you don't mind me asking, why don't you have sex?
Are you focusing on a business or self improvement?
Also, how old are you? It seems odd for someone to willingly take themselves out of the game.
I recently got out of a live in LTR so I've been meeting new girls lately. I have three who have been coming over around once a week. It's great not living with a girl anymore. I can do whatever I want. The feeling you get when you turn down a girl because you're tired and want to go to bed at 9 pm to read a book is awesome. I don't have to put up with any bullshit, drama, or bitching.
I'd enjoy a serious relationship with the right girl at some point in the future, but right now I'm loving my current situation.
If you don't mind me asking, why don't you have sex?
Are you focusing on a business or self improvement?
Also, how old are you? It seems odd for someone to willingly take themselves out of the game.
I recently got out of a live in LTR so I've been meeting new girls lately. I have three who have been coming over around once a week. It's great not living with a girl anymore. I can do whatever I want. The feeling you get when you turn down a girl because you're tired and want to go to bed at 9 pm to read a book is awesome. I don't have to put up with any bullshit, drama, or bitching.
I'd enjoy a serious relationship with the right girl at some point in the future, but right now I'm loving my current situation.
Nope. It's not like it's entirely by choice. It's a lot harder for some of us to find a girlfriend. I'm 41.
If only you knew how bad things really are.
Having a girlfriend is overrated, I have not met a girl yet who made my life better not worse...
Deus vult!
It sound like I'm not missing out on much.
If only you knew how bad things really are.
Before my fiancee, I've never had a serious girlfriend - as in someone that I'd been dating for 3+ months and formally introduced to my parents and close friends. However, I've had plenty of dates and girls who'd been around for a short time up to around the 3 months mark. I never lived with them though. Nobody ever seemed to think that it was weird, while I was still single. My male friends envied my lifestyle, especially my freedom. The girls I know were intrigued, and later got very jealous when they met my fiancee. Older relatives and family friends would keep telling me to stop playing around and get married. I think it's because to them I come off as a man who can get a girlfriend easily enough but chooses not to.
I have a few male friends though who come off as fairly clueless about women and have never had a girlfriend because they can't get one, and people do treat them like they're weird.
I have a few male friends though who come off as fairly clueless about women and have never had a girlfriend because they can't get one, and people do treat them like they're weird.
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